Well, to be honest, they don't intrigue me too much. They are flashy and all but don't have the same appeal to me that say earrings or bracelets have. I agree with your guy though, there's a time and place for everything and honestly chokers just seem sort of candid. However if you feel comfortable wearing them, then go for it. Staying happy is important, after all.
I don't mind chokers but I do know they used to be worn by prostitutes as a way to show they were a prostitute, some also used it to cover syphilis marks
he says he doesn't want others to see you in a disrespectful way, but in reality he is the one who is seeing you in a disrespectful way. He can accept you or he can move on.
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Out of curiosity, how is he looking at me in a bad way?
Whether he'll admit it or not, to you or to even him, what he is telling you is his opinion that he is projecting as a public opinion. if he didn't feel there was some sort of truth to it, it wouldn't bother him.
He sounds like an insecure pussy. He doesn't care how people see you, but rather him with you as his girlfriend. I don't know why a chocker would mean someone is slutty. It's an additional piece of "clothing". It's not like it's all you plan to wear
I think a modest chocker, cute or sexy depending on who wearing it or what you're wearing with, I don't know you so, just a whore is a whore no matter she's wearing... though I wouldn't encourage you to wear extremely short skirts.
How can a necklace be slutty tho... I personally think chokers look classy and not at all slutty (unless you wear it with very revealing clothing of course). Wear whatever you want girl! Haters gonna hate no matter what you look like🤷🏼♀️
... I never thought of it that way. :/... I always thought they were cute. Some might imply slutty based on design if it's more shooting towards a bdsm feel, but I believe 90% of chokers are fine/cute.
Some not all see as a "collar". Like saying "yes daddy choke me! " A lot of people don't separate the fashionable ones from the ones that actually signify that.
What does he think the time and place for it is? I mean I'm not a huge fan of chokers, but I def think you should be able to wear one at almost anytime? Maybe not at an office job or something, but generally anywhere?
Yes they are slutty. A choker shows that a woman accepts her place as a submissive and is even grateful for it. I personally love fucking women while they are wearing one. But if he has ordered you not to wear one, then you must do what he says.
Me and my ex used to say they were professionals in dick sucking, now, not true of course, but just something the young girls seem to find trendy nowadays and I personally don't like them
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Well, to be honest, they don't intrigue me too much. They are flashy and all but don't have the same appeal to me that say earrings or bracelets have. I agree with your guy though, there's a time and place for everything and honestly chokers just seem sort of candid. However if you feel comfortable wearing them, then go for it. Staying happy is important, after all.
Hope this helps, luv. Cheers
I don't mind chokers but I do know they used to be worn by prostitutes as a way to show they were a prostitute, some also used it to cover syphilis marks
It’s a fucking necklace though.
Exactly
THATS WHAT I SAID
Its a dog collar
@Bluedream13 It's a necklace.
he says he doesn't want others to see you in a disrespectful way, but in reality he is the one who is seeing you in a disrespectful way. He can accept you or he can move on.
Out of curiosity, how is he looking at me in a bad way?
He’s telling me a public point of view. He said that he doesn’t see me like that at all but he doesn’t want others to see me in that way.
Whether he'll admit it or not, to you or to even him, what he is telling you is his opinion that he is projecting as a public opinion. if he didn't feel there was some sort of truth to it, it wouldn't bother him.
Disregard what he said
yup exactly
May I ask why?
Because chokers are cute
He sounds like an insecure pussy. He doesn't care how people see you, but rather him with you as his girlfriend. I don't know why a chocker would mean someone is slutty. It's an additional piece of "clothing". It's not like it's all you plan to wear
I think a modest chocker, cute or sexy depending on who wearing it or what you're wearing with, I don't know you so, just a whore is a whore no matter she's wearing... though I wouldn't encourage you to wear extremely short skirts.
How can a necklace be slutty tho... I personally think chokers look classy and not at all slutty (unless you wear it with very revealing clothing of course). Wear whatever you want girl! Haters gonna hate no matter what you look like🤷🏼♀️
... I never thought of it that way. :/... I always thought they were cute. Some might imply slutty based on design if it's more shooting towards a bdsm feel, but I believe 90% of chokers are fine/cute.
Some not all see as a "collar". Like saying "yes daddy choke me! " A lot of people don't separate the fashionable ones from the ones that actually signify that.
I heard it has some meaning attached to it in the past but I honestly think they are some classy looking ones that you can get away with.
Never heard that about chokers before, but they Do make me think of bdsm a little bit
I do find them slutty too but idc of girls who wear them its not my problem but still a little part of me will not help but judge.
I really like chokers on girls, no idea why, but it looks hot
What does he think the time and place for it is? I mean I'm not a huge fan of chokers, but I def think you should be able to wear one at almost anytime? Maybe not at an office job or something, but generally anywhere?
Yes they are slutty. A choker shows that a woman accepts her place as a submissive and is even grateful for it. I personally love fucking women while they are wearing one.
But if he has ordered you not to wear one, then you must do what he says.
Do whatever you want. Yes, wearing a choker is hot. If you want to wear one, do it.
... tell him not to ware one.
But that's stupid.
Its ur body. Ur not a slut for wearing one, even if u had 80 of them on.
Luck to u
Me and my ex used to say they were professionals in dick sucking, now, not true of course, but just something the young girls seem to find trendy nowadays and I personally don't like them
I don't think they're slutty at all, but they're really hot on the right girl
Not slutty at all, they're quite cool, and beautiful.
Just don't make em' too fancy, remember, it ain't no drass