What are your thoughts on choker necklaces and why? (Page 5)

[umairso]

It's fine as any other jewelry item. Asking men about women accessories is like asking a beggar what's it like to be rich

[Nobodyx]

I guess it depends on the style of the chocker. Some look really cute and some don't and can maybe look a little slutty.

[GFEDATY]

I think some look so sexy while others are a bit over the top

[lacaras]

I think they're cool, can definitely add to an outfit

[smilingsunshine]

They can look pretty. Tell your boyfriend that some guys think showing any skin, or behaving a certain way, is slutty. Slutty is in the eyes of the beholder.

[KuffarSlayer]

Historically choker necklaces used to be worn by prostitutes that's why they give a negative air around them

[MikeHug]

Well, I don't know your boyfriend and don't want to speak poorly about him, but I think his concerns are ridiculous. I've never heard such a statement before. Sounds like he's making something up to try to strengthen his opinion.

[GWolfe]

Do as you please. I personally associate them with rockstar or transgender women but that's just me.

[justpassenthru3]

I agree from a few points of views u as the opposite sex should be able to wear whtevr u ljke whn evr whr evr how evr u ljke

[Jasmine_IV]

I tried one, and not like it has to be this way for everyone, but it literally felt like I got chocked all day.

[winterfox10]

Chokers are flirty and sexy, but I definitely don't see them as slutty or trashy... Your boyfriend is is being a little over the top.

[pasimuscle]

It's definitely a sexual sign

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

I respect your opinion of course but like... why? Aha

[pasimuscle]

It literally has its origin in the bdsm scene

[drew23a]

I don't think there slutty i think there sexy im into choking a little bit an yes that makes sense you should be allowed to wear whatever you like and if he can't except it then maybe its not right

[PrincessPie]

I like them, i wear them.

[gabbiflowerss]

Don't let your boyfriend control what you wear or anything else for that matter. I don't see chokers as slutty at all! It's an accessory and super cute! I wear them all the time it's my favorite piece of jewelry!

[cth96190]

You could go the whole way and wear a dress version of a BDSM slave collar. 😈

[Girolamo]

Every relationship requires compromise. You must decide which compromises you are okay with.

[Pistachio0690]

Something you wear can't be slutty. Slutty is based on actions, not what you wear. Wear what you like. If he really loves you, he'll understand that

[tommo1818]

I personally don't like the look of chokers, but I know people that do. I don't see them as slutty as all though. Just another item of clothing.

[Password_Is_Taco]

Well back in the day it was how prostitutes showed people that they were prostitutes

[Asker]

Back in the day, Queen Alexandria of the UK wore it to hide a scar and later became a fashion trend.

[Password_Is_Taco]

True but by the late 1800s it became a sign of prostitutes, I'm not saying that it's bad by today's standards but there is a history to go along with it