For some reason, every time when I am about to ask a girls out, I freeze and usually chicken out.
I have a game plan right before asking her and I'm getting confidence from people telling me I can do it right before seeing her, and then when I see her I forget everything I had planned and then I don't ask her out and then I get upset at myself afterward.
Sometimes afterward, I try to find her and when I do I freeze up again and I don't ask her out.
The girl that I have liked recently, I haven't froze since she talks to me every class, but I haven't been able to ask her out yet. I freeze when I just think about asking her out. Any suggestions?
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my suggestion would be stop the planning part.
i know a lot of people who, like you, like to plan that sort of thing out.
i totally get why, it's nice to have some sort of plan.
but with stuff like asking people out, I think it's better to just go with it.
or if you have to plan it out, don't make your plan too scenario oriented (if that makes sense)
i also think that the other girl's answer to this is a good idea too, especially about the not thinking too much into it.