How do I look my age? I’m 21 but really look 13?

[BlondieGirl_]

I’m 21 next month, I’m an adult woman who does adult things I have my own house, career, shit going on, however I never get treated like an adult because of my genetics and I look literally 13.

I get mis aged all the time, from people talking to strangers I’m standing close to as if they’re my parents to when I was 18 being told by a hair dresser that “My hair was probably extra oily, because I was just starting puberty” That really happened. This hurts, especially when it’s adult men who are in my age range treating me like I’m 12.

Now personally I’m quite old for my age, I have a deep voice for a female and I certainly don’t act young. However, I’m 5’1, petite, have a cup breasts, and I’m naturally white blonde so I have invisible brows and lashes which makes you look like a child.

Some of the things I do to show people I’m actually an adult is body language, speech, how I dress etc. I find hair and makeup can actually have the opposite effect in making me look older as I look like a teenager who’s trying too hard. I have to avoid things like t shirts and short shorts, colourful clothing etc as it just make me look young.

I tent to wear things like body con dresses to show I have an adult body, women’s handbags, shirts and pants etc. I also dyed my hair dark and found that helped too. I think it’s quite funny people think I look young because under my clothes I actually have a really womanly figure, tiny waist, wide hips, big bum etc.

What are some things I could do to show I’m actually an adult?
Thanks

[curiousnorway]

It's difficult to tell without a picture, but people who age slower tends to look younger when they gets older too. When you hits your 40s, you may pass as someone in their 20s. So it seems like patience is the key here.

You can still get a partner although you looks under aged. Technically it's legal, and if Kpop stars can get one, you can get one too.

[BlondieGirl_]

Trust me I’m not ageing any slower it’s just my appearance I actually have my fair share of health problems so quite the opposite haha

[JustAn0therRand0mGuy]

Enjoy it while you can, consider how when you're 40 you'll look younger, whereas everyone else will start to look haggard. Maybe you should find a way to enjoy being yourself instead of trying to change to suit everyone else.

[BlondieGirl_]

That’s what most people get wrong about it it’s not that I’m ageing slower in fact I have wrinkles on my face. It’s just my appearance.

[scorchedwater]

I don't know im in the same boat. maybe not as extreme though:( i always get asked what grade im in when im actually graduating college. or if im a first year. if you get a good answer, good luck.

[BlondieGirl_]

Damn I don’t get asked what grade I’m in but I defiantly look like I’m in school

[ms_regina_george]

What if "age is just a number" and you really ARE a kid?

[BlondieGirl_]

Biology.

[qwertyone123]

Well your going to look good when your older but I wouldn't insult her by saying she looks like a child that's not a good thing to do

[mlgjamz]

Always wear your hair down. Wear make up but not enough to make it super visible. I really don't know much about this stuff 😂

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I can't judge without any images. by the way I enjoy looking young.

[FunkyMonkee]

Why would you want to?

[BlondieGirl_]

So grown men my own age don’t speak to me like I’m a child

[FunkyMonkee]

When you look 60, you'll WISH you looked 13 again.

[The_Sage]

Don't tell R. Kelly that shit.

[sapphire3506]

There's no picture

[Anonymous]

Who knows their is no picture.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Nothing.

[Reddwolf]

Sounds sexy to me