If I see a girl dressed revealingly, my one and only response will be checking out the skin they are showing. I'm not a pervert but it's my brain, which always looks for what is not normal, what it has not mapped yet. Anything unique, such as a magic trick just shuts a person up and they completely focus on the magic, similarly I'll first check the exposed skin, then my brain will remember other things and raise the alarm ---> "Wrong! Wrong! Look away!". And I'd curse my brain for getting lost again even though my intention was not sexual or perverse at all. It was just to notice something I don't think is normal. I once went to China alone, and wherever I went people would constantly be noticing me, seeing every single step I take, eveything I do. Even me stooping to tie my shoelaces was worth watching for them. It was not that they didn't know how shoelaces are tied but they were not used to seeing a non-Chinese, so their brains were focused on observing and understanding who I was, what I was doing, am I exactly like them etc.
Wow. You don't understand at all. Your two options are... laughable?
There's none of either of those going on. Its like this:
THAT is exactly what's going on in the male brain.
If I saw a girl dressed revealingly, I wouldn't care tbh. People can dress how they want and is that's how she wants to dress, good for her.
I voted other and think its more likely "I hope my boner isn't showing" lol
Why do you love to objectify men and be obsessed with their penises? You need to respect the penis, how would you like it if guys obsessed about your big, meaty camel toe?
eat a dick
Whatever, SarahsMeatyCrustyCamelToe
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If you wear clothes that show off your body expect looks and under the breathe talk. And lots more don't expect people to think like you or act like you do. Each person has there own options on how there parents tried to teach them how to dress and behave once in public don't expect everyone to do the same
I worrry about keeping my eyes to myself. I don't think much of her unless it's extremely revealing.
If it's extremely revealing, I'm thinking "she's out to have fun" And I'd probably be a little turned on, but I'd know she's not my kind of girl and I'd stay away.
I have studied this very topic for years. Men are hard wired to be visual. Its not fun. Especially when your old lady is a nag that likes to fight about nothing. Personally, i can say that the impulse to look at something all pink and pretty comes and goes in a matter of 10 seconds.
Depends on the situation and if she is attractive or not.
In public I think she is most likely seeking attention from others.
At home/private she is most likely seeking attention from spouse.
Either way can still look and feel sexy without reveling everything you got to everyone you meet. It’s called being classy or elegant.
Why do you think it’s for attention?
Don’t girls have the right to feel sexy for themselves? Especially at home/private?
@Katerina_Belle But that's complete horse shit. If women were dressing for themselves they would do it around the house, not when they go out to pubs and clubs.
No what you’re saying is complete garbage.
I do it around the house when I’m all alone.
Stop speaking for everyone you’re not even a woman ffs.
@Katerina_Belle You're full of shit. In most cases women only do themselves up when they go out to pubs and clubs, not when they are inside the house.
she could be getting all dressed up in reveling clothes for herself. but not many do it without the intend of turning a few heads.
which is why I said the part about dressing more classy or elegant. can still look drop dead sexy without showing off everything you got under your clothes. to everyone you meet or pass by on the street or wherever you go.
I've heard that excuse so many times from women, and I call bullshit. Take a man for example. If a man gets dressed up before he goes out clubbing, obviously he's doing it because he wants to get noticed more. I've never known a man to get dressed up really smart when staying inside the house.
@Iron_Man200 ya most guys would not dress up in a suit and tie. just to stay home for the day. most likely if there get dressed at all. it is tee shirt and jeans or shorts.
Yes, same goes for women. When you see a woman in the street wearing a beautiful dress, high heels, and make up etc, how many of these women do themselves up like that when staying inside the house?
@Iron_Man200 unless there posting photos on social media someplace all day. not many
@Iron_Man200 You're delusional. You think I buy a £60 eyeshadow palette for a man that doesn't know the difference between gold and rose gold? Or that I wear sexy nightwear (ALL ALONE) for the attention of a man?
I'm not saying women (myself included) never do it for attention, but they also don't always do for it for attention.
You need to expand your knowledge a little and acknowledge that:
A) You're not a woman, so please don't speak for us, it's not needed -I'll ask you personally if I ever need you to speak for me :)
B) You need to lose this entitled persona you have taken to point at someone and override your opinion with their truth - you are not entitled to tell anyone why they choose to do things, leave that to the person in question; I'm sure they know far better for why they act the way they do.
@Katerina_Belle Well many months ago I came across a woman who said that any woman who says she dresses up for herself and not for attention is lying. Women will dress all slutty and put on their makeup (fakeup) and pretend that it's not for attention but just for themselves. BULLSHIT!!!
@Iron_Man200 Well then that’s the case for that particular woman.
She shouldn’t be speaking for everyone either because that certainly doesn’t apply to me.
There have been times when I have intentionally dressed sexy for attention but there’s also times when I don’t do it for attention.
If I follow your theory then it’s like this: Since I’ve been cheated on by one guy this obviously means ALL guys are cheaters - you included.
Are you a cheater Iron_Man200? Even if you say you’re not, from now on you are one because I’ve seen another guy do it.
@Katerina_Belle That's a ridiculous comparison.
@Iron_Man200 oh so now it’s a ridiculous comparison 😒
It’s the same principle though.
@Katerina_Belle No it's really not. You just can't be honest about it.
Yes it is. I’m just taking a page from your book 🤷♀️
You say all women dress up for attention.
With that theory I say all mean cheat.
Men*
@Katerina_Belle Again, that's a retarded comparison. I'm not gonna waste my time trying to explain it to you. It would be like trying to educate a jellyfish.
Likewise except I’d liken you to a brick wall.
It depends, do I know her? Are we friends? Or is she essentially a stranger? If I do know her there's not much of a thought process going on. I essentially just try to act like I don't even notice and nothing is different from usual.
If I don't know her or I know her only very briefly it's different though. Now this will be very detailed and of course as trains of thoughts it's not this explicite, but this is about what goes through my head: "Wow so apparently girls dislike when you look at their body/ass/breasts etc but yet some walk around dressed like that? strange. She looks really good. Dressed like this she's probably getting thirsty guy's attention all the time though, and I neither want to appear as one of them or like someone who'll dance to her tune just because she's dressed sexily, nor do I want to get in touch with those guys cause they're annoying as fuck, plus she may be quite conceited, so I better stay away from her."
If she's hot, I stare at her, and depending how she's dressed, may feel a bit sad.
If she's not hot then I barely even notice her, regardless of how she's dressed, but may just consider her to be desperate for attention.
"What a trashy slut, she seems like she would be fun." This is the answer you didn't provide.
Your answers are the common misconception that if men don't like sluts we stay away. Not true. We just fuck around with them and don't get serious with them.
It depends on the situation. If it is beach/pool or swimming wear it wouldn't be as bad and it would be more of a turn-on after all or if she is wearing "normal" clothes but something like thong underwear underneath where it's not visible, but walking literally in the streets in odd-looking dress, no thanks that is a little trashy. I say more it depends on context than the clothes itself.
In India still at many place it's a culture shock so there's really not promoting it in public. Personally for me dressing appropriately outside where there's a lot of kids and the older generation people is a thing which must be taken into consideration out of the respect of my culture and people. Due to outside influence and modernisation the limitations have decreased and that's fine but definitely there's a limit!
I probably either admire her OR worry about her need for attention. Confidence is great, trashiness is a cry for help.
Honestly, I’m just turned on if she’s attractive and has a nice body. I don’t really think about “Oh, she’s a slut” or “She’s a whore.”
I don't feel something.
She wants to enjoy male attention, every woman likes that who has some 'assets' to show.
All I feel is sexual attraction and wish I could bone her
That is literally it
I don’t feel hate or feel like disrespecting her like most guys, I would actually go out with a so called “slut”
I find it trashy or too upfront for the most part. I know some people think of it as flattering, but for someone I don't know, it would seem too approachable for all males, and for someone I do/am dating - why show it off to anyone else?
Guys are visually stimulated so we'll be sexually attracted to a woman who dresses revealingly, but that's about it. We have no respect for her and don't consider her a prospect for a serious relationship.
"That looks nice. I enjoy this sight" is the subconscious thought. The conscious thought is that it doesn't matter. It is the same as men dressing flashy to attract attention. Aka peacocking.
You get used to it because there's so many girls everywhere you go. You look and keep it moving.
Depends on the locational context... professionally it would be questionable but socially it would be avoidable
It's nice to see , but I always wonder do they dress like that to make themselves feel better or just to get noticed...
It depends on how revealing and what time it is.
If she is wearing the dress in the morning, just coming back from a good night out or Just hot.
If at night, maybe looking for business.
I try not to overthink this but it could go either way. I wouldn't make assumptions from the way someone is dressed but they would definitely have my attention.
I admire her beauty and, at the same time, wonder if she is trawling for cock.
This should explain it.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/AqWNmk7pH3s
If we're being honest, we imagine what it would be like to sleep with just about every woman we see anyway. It just makes it that much easier to imagine.
I’d think, “she’s brave and doesn’t care what people think”
C = other , IDGAF what she wears and none of my business
Just because she dress like a whore doesn't mean I should treat her that way.
It depends entirely on how it's revealing and who is wearing the revealing clothes.
I would think she's a prick tease and just ignore her.
Like she is a trashy slut is how men view immodesty dressed women.
It is hard to say, depends on my mood that day and what else I am thinking about at the time.
Oh believe me, you don't want to know what goes through my mind.
That shirt reminds me how much I'd like to fuck her
Just put my sunglasses on and let my eyes and imagination enjoy
If she's got a good body, then it's extremely attractive.
Probably a mix of the two. “What a trashy slut, I want to get to know her better.” 😆
option 1, but if you want a quick fling then you can holla @ her, other than that, she's not coming home to mama. sorry.
Wow it is sad how shallow guys think about girl's clothes
"She seems assertive and confident, she isn't scared, must be a great person"
I don't. I don't waste my time on feelings.
Trashy I prefer more casual dresses girls
Doesn’t affect my opinion of her much
Thank you ;)
I'm usually not paying attention
"Don't stare, don't stare, don't stare..."
If you've got it, flaunt it.
Warm it gets very warm
Thinking she might just be a bate or for me.
All depends on the occasion
Makes me feel sad
Why?
There's too much to explain. Sorry.
bruh
I see a girl dressed like that and I think about how she must be comfortable showing off her body, how she probably goes out every weekend and finds it easy to talk to people and probably has no trouble getting dates, and it just serves to remind me of all the things I can't do. It makes me sad.
Makes sense...
Walking on the sidewalks
Red lights turn to blue
Somewhere in the darkness
Standing there is you...
Yea idiot she’s getting dates with guys who only care for her body. Then the girl would say OHH WHY DOES HE ONLY LOVE ME FOR MY BODY. The smart guys flock toward people with personalities not hot bodies. If you rely on looks to get dates then you will be seen aS a peasant who lacking in character.
Well I'm lacking in both looks and character, so seeing someone with even one of those makes me feel sad. At least she's enjoying her life.
They wanted to fuck hee
"nice" then move along
"Oh, that's nice."
In public, or like, at a strip club?
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