If I see a girl dressed revealingly, my one and only response will be checking out the skin they are showing. I'm not a pervert but it's my brain, which always looks for what is not normal, what it has not mapped yet. Anything unique, such as a magic trick just shuts a person up and they completely focus on the magic, similarly I'll first check the exposed skin, then my brain will remember other things and raise the alarm ---> "Wrong! Wrong! Look away!". And I'd curse my brain for getting lost again even though my intention was not sexual or perverse at all. It was just to notice something I don't think is normal. I once went to China alone, and wherever I went people would constantly be noticing me, seeing every single step I take, eveything I do. Even me stooping to tie my shoelaces was worth watching for them. It was not that they didn't know how shoelaces are tied but they were not used to seeing a non-Chinese, so their brains were focused on observing and understanding who I was, what I was doing, am I exactly like them etc.
Wow. You don't understand at all. Your two options are... laughable?
There's none of either of those going on. Its like this:
THAT is exactly what's going on in the male brain.
If I saw a girl dressed revealingly, I wouldn't care tbh. People can dress how they want and is that's how she wants to dress, good for her.
I voted other and think its more likely "I hope my boner isn't showing" lol
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If you wear clothes that show off your body expect looks and under the breathe talk. And lots more don't expect people to think like you or act like you do. Each person has there own options on how there parents tried to teach them how to dress and behave once in public don't expect everyone to do the same
I worrry about keeping my eyes to myself. I don't think much of her unless it's extremely revealing.
If it's extremely revealing, I'm thinking "she's out to have fun" And I'd probably be a little turned on, but I'd know she's not my kind of girl and I'd stay away.
I have studied this very topic for years. Men are hard wired to be visual. Its not fun. Especially when your old lady is a nag that likes to fight about nothing. Personally, i can say that the impulse to look at something all pink and pretty comes and goes in a matter of 10 seconds.
Depends on the situation and if she is attractive or not.
In public I think she is most likely seeking attention from others.
At home/private she is most likely seeking attention from spouse.
Either way can still look and feel sexy without reveling everything you got to everyone you meet. It’s called being classy or elegant.
It depends, do I know her? Are we friends? Or is she essentially a stranger? If I do know her there's not much of a thought process going on. I essentially just try to act like I don't even notice and nothing is different from usual.
If I don't know her or I know her only very briefly it's different though. Now this will be very detailed and of course as trains of thoughts it's not this explicite, but this is about what goes through my head: "Wow so apparently girls dislike when you look at their body/ass/breasts etc but yet some walk around dressed like that? strange. She looks really good. Dressed like this she's probably getting thirsty guy's attention all the time though, and I neither want to appear as one of them or like someone who'll dance to her tune just because she's dressed sexily, nor do I want to get in touch with those guys cause they're annoying as fuck, plus she may be quite conceited, so I better stay away from her."
If she's hot, I stare at her, and depending how she's dressed, may feel a bit sad.
If she's not hot then I barely even notice her, regardless of how she's dressed, but may just consider her to be desperate for attention.
"What a trashy slut, she seems like she would be fun." This is the answer you didn't provide.
Your answers are the common misconception that if men don't like sluts we stay away. Not true. We just fuck around with them and don't get serious with them.
It depends on the situation. If it is beach/pool or swimming wear it wouldn't be as bad and it would be more of a turn-on after all or if she is wearing "normal" clothes but something like thong underwear underneath where it's not visible, but walking literally in the streets in odd-looking dress, no thanks that is a little trashy. I say more it depends on context than the clothes itself.
In India still at many place it's a culture shock so there's really not promoting it in public. Personally for me dressing appropriately outside where there's a lot of kids and the older generation people is a thing which must be taken into consideration out of the respect of my culture and people. Due to outside influence and modernisation the limitations have decreased and that's fine but definitely there's a limit!
I probably either admire her OR worry about her need for attention. Confidence is great, trashiness is a cry for help.
Honestly, I’m just turned on if she’s attractive and has a nice body. I don’t really think about “Oh, she’s a slut” or “She’s a whore.”
I don't feel something.
She wants to enjoy male attention, every woman likes that who has some 'assets' to show.
All I feel is sexual attraction and wish I could bone her
That is literally it
I don’t feel hate or feel like disrespecting her like most guys, I would actually go out with a so called “slut”
I find it trashy or too upfront for the most part. I know some people think of it as flattering, but for someone I don't know, it would seem too approachable for all males, and for someone I do/am dating - why show it off to anyone else?
Depends on the locational context... professionally it would be questionable but socially it would be avoidable
Guys are visually stimulated so we'll be sexually attracted to a woman who dresses revealingly, but that's about it. We have no respect for her and don't consider her a prospect for a serious relationship.
"That looks nice. I enjoy this sight" is the subconscious thought. The conscious thought is that it doesn't matter. It is the same as men dressing flashy to attract attention. Aka peacocking.
You get used to it because there's so many girls everywhere you go. You look and keep it moving.
It's nice to see , but I always wonder do they dress like that to make themselves feel better or just to get noticed...
It depends on how revealing and what time it is.
If she is wearing the dress in the morning, just coming back from a good night out or Just hot.
If at night, maybe looking for business.
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