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Hey, go easy on the lesbians! I'm a lesbian myself.1
Manly man care about their health, cleanliness and looks. No matter what you say, you can't tell me you don't care about how you look. Everyone cares about that!
I like a guy to be dressed dependent upon his personality. Examples:
Certain style holds certain implications. Style should mirror the personality and interests of the man/woman --- hence it should be easier to determine who you'd be more compatible with.
People who dress one way and actually are completely different (dress that way because they want to seem like they've got a particular personality or preferences/interests) from said way of dressing are called posers.
You know who I'm attracted to? Guys who don't give a sh*t about being a "real man" and just do what they want. God, I'm just f***ing sick of this REAL man!1! bullsh*t. How about being confident with your own masculinity, bro? I mean, YOU'RE the one that said you want to rape them. Talk about f***ed up.
You remind me of those guys from the Tough Tavern, in Spongebob, y'know? You just...seem like someone with so much pent-up rage.
All I could do was laugh at this question. I don't know any girls who are like that. The only guy friend I have that does act feminine is homosexual. Now, I like him because he's funny and nice and we have fun together. But not all homosexual men are like him and not all women who like "metrosexuals" are lesbians or even dating them.
Your question is filled with so much hatred and sarcasm that it makes me wonder if you were turned down or dumped by someone who was into men like that.
Typical, I'm always the odd woman out. I want someone clean, fresh and masculine. I despise the 'metro' look. I do NOT understand how women find men who wear ladies jeans, take 45 minutes to do their Beiber/Porcupine hair and wax their whole bodies. Jeans, a t-shirt and some height any day.. I don't think a man is being sexist by appreciating masculinity or a woman's femininity. Sigh. Give me a manly guy, any day.
its not like that, we like guys who like the same kind of fashion we like an it reflects there personality
Honestly I have not understood this trend, its one thing if a guy knows these things or at least is aware of them. It could he had many sisters or females in his family or even many girlfriends. My theory is that because women are attracted to things more emotionally and tend to notice fine details a lot more than men. Ex: A girl will freak about something as minor like her eyeliner being a bit off. Women also are more into going out together and sharing things like feelings, maybe a feminine guy seems easily to relate for women?
I may be rare because while my friends would find a guy who loved shopping and talking about feelings, personally I would not mind that once in a while but I want someone who likes adventure and "guy" things because it contrasts myself and my girly side.
Its easy to respect a guy who respects himself.
pretty boys turn me off I like rugged guys
the right clothes on a man is SEXY as hell...
Because the so-called manly men who don't care about their appearance tend to look bummy, sloppy and less appealing than the guys you call feminine. we are attracted to well groomed good looking men. Why? Because they are physically attractive as well as clean and hygienic!
Also that sentence about what you want to do to male r&b celebrities is very disturbing. girls can probably tell you're creepy/insane with homosexual tendencies and that's another reason women aren't attracted.
They are not attracted to them, they just relate better to them because feminem or gay guys are almost like women, but they have a p*nis between their legs. I love masculine guys & would only date them, but I also love being "friends" with feminem guys. But trust me when I say, I'm not attracted to them, even though I might tell them how beautiful or pretty they are. When I say they are beautiful or pretty, I mean it in the same way I tell a girl friend she is pretty. I'm not a lesbian, so when I notice a girl is pretty, it has nothing to do with sexual attraction.
i want some one who is presentable and clean
i don't see why women should be treated like barbie dolls, but men should just be a mess. if I'm taking care of myself I expect a guy to do the same. "manly" and "feminine" are just terms people throw around. they really mean nothing to me. I like good looking men who are well groomed, can dress well, and generally have it going on. some girls are the opposite though.
so would you want a girl that didn't shave, never wore any makeup, barely dressed up, and was just all around a natural beauty kind of girl?
and if you want to rape guys I think you should be calling your own sexuality into question. I'm not straight, and I'm very open to accepting peoples sexualities and I find very often that overtly macho guys are the ones suppressing homosexual urges. its hilarious. just come out of the closet baby. it'll be alright. :)
Metrosexual men are not afraid to get dirty. They just know that being seen dirty in many locations can be quite off putting, and thus make use of showers. They also tend to be in pretty good shape. Also if a girl goes shopping with these guys it's a lot less likely they have to deal with complaining and on occasion actually get honest answers. Short answer to why girls are attracted to them: There doing it right.
It's a control thing. Little girls play with dolls, and big girls transition from dressing up a doll to controlling their boyfriend's appearance.
some girls mix taking care of your hygiene and taking care of your appearance in the same category.
so for example : wearing white socks gets the same reaction as not washing your hands once (mortal sin);
wearing a shirt from years ago gets the same reaction as wearing the same shirt for a week ,
and not shaving makes them think you don't wash your face.
metro-men seem to combine hygiene and fashion.
LMAO... Do you really think that pretty girls would wanna go out with your so-called 'real men' or 'manly men' who, according to you, don't care about hygiene and are always poorly dressed?
I agree with the fact that a lot of celebrities that are considered attractive today are quite feminine. Such as Justin beiber or the Jonas brothers. I do not understand what a woman would find attractive about a scrawny little boy, even if you admire his musical talent. (not that I consider them talented what so ever)
On another note I am a man and dress as one. Having sophistication to ones self does not make him unmanly. I take pride in the way that I carry myself. Therefore I do not walk around with ripped stained t-shirts or cloths I find to look stingy or tacky. Most women are attracted to a man that looks presentable, not feminine.
"make me want to rape them (cause they seem to be so weak and feminine)."
Yeah, because being weak and feminine is totally a reason for someone to be raped.
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