A friend of mine does, and my husband suggested if she does, I can, too. What do you think? It would be with him and our kids, at the beach, and maybe in the garden. Not me
If you think that you are a little bit too old to wear a thong bikini so already made your mind. It will make things awkward ! How? Well! You will feel uncomfortable, you will be acting weird and you will not notice it, then your husband will ask you: What's wrong? Are you ok? then will be doubts about the choice of wearing a thong and if it's appropriate to this environment, the people, your kids, your man, the age and so on. I always recommend my wife to wear what makes her comfortable and she wears the things that covers everything and makes her look older than she is, these are her own words. I worship my lady and make sure i show her how much i love her no matter what she chooses to wear, that's me. Should a 32 years old mother wear a thong bikini? Yes! Why not. I have seen 50+ year olds out of shape saggy skin, sun bathed to the shade of WTF and they wear thongs. I have seen that in Sweden, Denmark, Germany, Poland, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Ukraine and Hurghada in Egypt , and they do it while their family and their kids. It's a state of mind
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How old are your kids? What's your hesitation? Here are a few other questions that may help understand how you're thinking about this:
How is your friend's body and how does your compare? Is this part of why you're hesitant?
Does your friend have kids and if so are they a similar age to yours? Is this part of the issue?
How is your sex life and how does your friend's compare? Are you happy with things as they are or would you like your sex life to be more like your friends?
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We're not that different in terms of body types, in fact I'd say I'm slightly more toned than she is. My kids are 5 and 3, and hers are a couple of years older.
My husband seems to like the idea. I'd say their sex life is probably more adventurous than ours, and that might also suit us, too?
Thanks for most helpful, QA! So did you decide to go for it? What thong did you get and when/where are you going to wear it? Is this for like a beach vacation or something?
I think if you're with your kids you should wear a normal bikini maybe a cheeky one. If it's just you and your husband or you and some friends go for the thong. But ultimately it's up to you and whatever you feel comfortable with.
U can wear whatever u want but people will judge u, that said people will judge u whatever u wear. So the real question is, do u care? I mean u shouldn't, it seems like your husband would probably not be able to stop looking at u. and if u do and want to change, just go change. But don't let people stop u from feeling sexy.
I would say, wear it but maybe just wear it when your kids aren't around. I mean I don't know how old your kids are so its hard to say, but if there younger, maybe just don't wear it around them but if you had a girls trip or couples trip, wear it then
32 years age is quite young, full of energy and mature. By avoiding wearing such attractive and tiny dress will push her to further self deprivation and imposing unrealistic restrictions. So, go ahead and wear whatever you and your partner like. Enjoy life.
so u never wear thong before in front of ur kid? u have a hot body in general viewpoin? and ur kid already at the age of thinking about thong as sexual (or not)? U certainly can wear it, no one can stop u (and i think no one want to :)), but please be real, face the fact that there is a chance that ur kid will masturbate to u at night, dont be oblivious like some people, thinking that just because they dont think about thong as sexual then everyone is wrong to think about it as sexual (in my opinion, it's such a waste to drop the sexual trait of thong), and so their kid would not reads the mom as such, really, what a person think doesn't depend on other people mind.
It's your choice. If it is comfortable. Dont do this for image. Do for you.
Specific to image. If the question is, when are you too old. To me thats irrelivant. There are some who put things on clearly not intended for their bodies. But in general, if it fits correctly and its comfortable to have on, then do what works for you. :-)
if your comfortable with your body. like how it looks in the mirror and in the bikini itself. then your welcome to do so. if you don't also mind the random glance from people walking by. if you happen to wear it in a more public setting.
might even spark some extra addition. from your spouse in a more spicy way.
Yes.. She should.. If she feel comfortable and Love to wear it then why to give up. Just because being mom or 32 ? They have a Life too after from being Mom or Age 32.. I hope they should do whateva makes them happy..
If she has the body to go with a thong bikini for sure. I find women in their early to mid thirties if in good shape can often be the sexiest women on the beach or by the pool.
My ex wife did and we have 3 kids, she was a surfer and have the body for, in somehow I have to say that I was enjoying that other people admire my ex and I really love to see those tiny things on her. It was pushing me to keep up with her and stay in shape too. Bottom line if you have the body, you feel comfortable with it and your husband dont mind... GO FOR IT !!! Your kids may look at you a little weird at the beginning but they get use to very fast.
I did/do but the only child I have is my daughter and we skinny dip together in the hot tub so it doesn't mean much. If I had a son I'm not sure if I'd wear a thong bikini around him tbh.
@ErikaShougart It doesn't bother me and the only time it seemed to bother her was when she came with me to get my first mammogram (she's 15) and that's because she didn't know squeezing was involved.
Why not if it's what you want to wear. Body positivity, be happy in your own skin. Your choice, don't worry what others think. It's your body, your skin and not there's.
It's yours more power to you. Wear what you want when you want.
I'd say it's a little weird if there are kids are running around. But it's not really a big deal. Your husband shouldn't be pressuring you to wear anything you dont want though. Wear what makes you comfortable.
In my country not all women do but it's very common for women all ages and body type wear thong bikinis with children around or not. Age is not the problem here but do you think you would feel comfortable wearing one at the beach? If it's not common where you live you will get a lot of stares
No. Thongs are for hot females and sadly, we age-out rather quickly. Some say we have the shelf-life of milk. I think between 13 and 25 is a good bikini range because after 25, things start looking bad. Saggy, flabby and bad. Sad but true :(
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