Do most white men find most black women ugly?

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I asked a question similar to this before, but I felt to needed to clarify.
Black women in media is often represented differently than what most look like in real life.

One thing that the media doesn’t pick up on is black women's natural hair. In real life, many black women keep their hair short because it is very frizzy and doesn’t look good long unless maintenance is done with their hair.

Also I am not talking about mixed black women I am talking about pure black women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm a mixed girl but thought I would toss in my 2 cents.
My father is white and my mother is half black and half Asian, though if you were to see her you might just thinks she's completely black. I am very white-passing especially when my hair is straightened, though even with my curly hair, people usually guess that I'm Russian, Italian, Hispanic or just completely German/Dutch/Swedish like my father, especially when I went blonde for a bit.

The white guys that I have dated in the past would sometimes express that they don't find black women attractive at all, and would be shocked when I told them that I was part black, but since I didn't really look it, they didn't care. I have even met white supremacist that would overthink some of their opinions after meeting me because they thought I was the most attractive woman they had ever met, but were the same people that would preach that people shouldn't race-mix.

From what I can tell, white guys don't really make a distinction between black girls and half black girls, black is black. Sort of like how Obama is technically half white, but people just refer to him as black.

I think a big reason that lots of guys don't like black girls is because of the negative stereotypes out there about them, that they are all fat, aggressive, loud, ghetto, uneducated etc. My mother would tell me that growing up many people would tell her that she was "pretty, for a black girl", sort of a backhanded compliment loaded with tons of implication. It was sorta implying that most black girls aren't pretty, but she was an exception, and even being an exception, she's only pretty when compared to her people, not just pretty in general.

My father had always preferred black women though, he just found them very physically attractive and thought that they usually had more expressive personalities. His father being born in Germany and not having much experience with black people had believed all the stereotypes, and because of his ignorance he didn't really approve of the relationship at first, but after meeting my mom he took everything back and decided that my dad had picked a lovely woman. My mom is the opposite of the stereotypes though, she has two PhDs, grew up relatively wealthy, has traveled the world, studied in Europe, is thin and beautiful in a classy way.

The people who do like black women appreciate features such as their feminine curves, full hips and butt, their nice skin, the fact that they age very well, their expressiveness, their naturally full lips, their teeth, and their overall aura.

The people who don't like black women usually dislike that many black women do not take proper care of their hair or haven't found a feminine hairstyle for their hair texture that is flattering. Their are also negative stereotypes and connotations spread through racism and ignorance so people might see beautiful and protective natural hairstyles like braids and dreadlocks and ignorantly thing that her hair is dirty because a lot of ignorant white people don't know that you can still wash your hair when it is in these styles. Wigs and weaves might also be unattractive to some men because they think that they are attracted to whats "natural" (they don't really know what they want though, they can't even tell if it's done right).

People just like what they like though. Some people like pale skin, some people like dark skin. Some people like bone-thin women and others like full-figured woman. Just focus on being the best version of yourself, there is someone out there for everyone.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

We dont give af if the majority find us beautiful. They prob not the one for us anyway. Im black and think natural afro hair looks a hot mess unless you're going disco dancing. I think wavy hair or crinkly hair is decent. Im more into perms but haven't gotten one in years and yet my hair is still straight unless wet. I don't know who told u “they keep it short because its frizzy and hard to maintain.” Usually cutting it into that afro style is how they regrow their hair without “supposedly damaging” it with relaxer. And getting a weave is what lazy girls do so they dont have to maintain their hair for a while. Im not into weave but i also feel nonblack people think its a way for us to feel more accepted by them. Idgaf about their acceptance. Just give me my job. Let me work. Pay me my money. And let me live. You do you, i’ll do me. Lets at least respect eachother and get on about our day

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Cannot speak for other men, but as for me, not at all. In fact, I dated an African-American woman for just over two years and the first thing I noticed about her the time that we first met was how hot and sexy she was. I was just plain flat out turned on.

Of course, I have my particulars. I tend to more conservative dress and many African-American women seem to go for attire that is unconventional. I don't mind at all jewlery but prefer something more understated. Those are just a few examples of the factors that go into what I find attractive - more conservative and traditional.

However, that is true of ANY woman - and describes my current girlfriend of 14 years and the mother of my three little Munchkins. (She is white, by the way.) So I see something like that in an African-American woman and it can be quite attractive.

The bottom line being, I guess, that it has less to do with skin color than with style, mode of dress and temperament. That may NOT be true of ALL white guys, but I would wager it is true for most of them.

BeMuse · Accepted Answer

Most women are unattractive regardless of race. Some black girls are cute, but typically I don’t find many of them attractive. That’s not really my type. Most black girls are really nice to me in person though on the personality side. As soon as they here my deep voice, they’re usually hooked and I get the royal treatment. In general they seem more honest and laid back to me then a lot of girls.

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Answer

Men of all races find black women ugly.. I don't know any men of any race that find black women attractive at all. All the men I know of all races say they find black women to be ugly smell bad and have bad attitudes and personality. That's why they're always so mad and jealous especially of blonde hair blue eyed white girls like myself. Because we're the most beautiful girls on the planet and men if all races love and want us and we love black men because they're so sexy have such big cocks and fuck so good. While black women are so ugly and smell so bad look and smell like monkey shit and no man of any race wants them. I'm a very white white girl 4'11" with natural platinum blonde (almost white) hair longer than I am tall very bright very light blue eyes beautiful face beautiful smile perfect body and large natural tits. I always dress all in very super bright pink and wear glasses that are also very super bright pink and smoke cigarettes that are very super bright pink. Everything I wear and own I'd very super bright pink. Men including my husband always tell me I'm the most beautiful girl they've ever seen. I'm happily married to and have kids with a very dark sexy black man who is the darkest blackest man I have ever seen. Black women always get so jealous when they see me with my black husband and my black kids.

BeardedViking33 · Answer

Your question, or the reason for your question is unclear and raises more concerns and questions as to why you ask. However, as a white male whose dated several black/African American women, get your head out of mainstream asshole land. If you are attracted to a black woman than tell her you are interested in taking her out for dinner. If you find them repulsive, then keep that shit to yourself and stop worrying about it. I'm tired of reading ignorant ass bullshit questions like this.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

personally as a white male. I find all ethnic groups of females attractive.

have known a few black males who told me. the main reason they don't date black females. is because their typically to head strong and short fused.

hahahmm · Answer

Yes. That's why when white guys rate pictures they usually rate black women lower. Just talking about averages. There's exceptions to the rule.

mikebeckers · Answer

Not ugly, however I often do find them to be less attractive. However this isn't only because of skin colour but also various facial features.

AndrewMG · Answer

No, but most decent people find bigots ugly to be fair.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel like they only see mixed black women as attractive. Otherwise, yes; he’s going to see her as unattractive. This is a full black woman speaking from what I’ve noticed.

Anonymous · Answer

hm I feel like they would prefer the looks of black women over Indian women

Anonymous · Answer

I think black girls are hot

Iron_Man · Answer

No. ...

Itsme22 · Answer

Yeah...

irishtigerguy · Answer

here we go.

lpoots · Answer

thats very racist

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