Does This Girl's Acne Make Her Unattractive?

[bannacookies]

Yes

No

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

As part of the 16 %, I can look past her acne and still love her, so no it does not make her look unattractive

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@bannacookies I had a crush on a girl , she had severe acne but she chose this other guy over me.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For Most Helpful Guy :)

[bannacookies]

You're welcome.

[Enochian]

Not to me. And so what if she has acne. I care more about a person personality.

[DiscomfortZone]

Oh wow you're like so progressive and cool I'm sure all the ladies here will wanna have sex with you now

[Enochian]

@ discomfortzone you need to improve on your sarcasm. You suck at it.

[DiscomfortZone]

And you need to improve on your hookup techniques.

[Enochian]

@ discomfortzone Yes. But that's only if I actually wanted to hook up with anyone. My interests in life are far beyond what your average mind can comprehend

[DiscomfortZone]

Ofc they are, you're far too progressive and cool.

[diamond567]

It’s really sad to see all these awful nasty opinions of the guys here saying that she’s disgusting just because she has a severe case of acne. In today’s society if you have acne you’ll always be considered disgusting by other people and unattractive, that’s something that really needs to just stop! I struggle with acne as well and just by reading the nasty comments of what the men on here are saying about that poor girl, have made me feel terrible about myself because I struggle with acne as well. I understand what she’s going through and people who haven’t gone through it themselves won’t understand that. I have to spend time covering my face with foundation because I don’t want to get nasty stares from people out in public just because of my acne, I always hide myself because of my acne and I feel embarrassed about it, and I am scared of actually being with guy because I know he’ll dump me for having my current skin condition. This is something that’s really hard to go through people won’t understand and will neglect you for it that’s the sad truth and it’s something that I have experienced because I am struggling with this same situation. Instead of shaming those who have acne, people should instead encourage them, make them feel loved that they belong somewhere, and show kindness to them.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Not necessarily. I think it's something that can probably resolve in a couple months. Anybody here freaking out like it's the worse thing ever I GUARANTEE they'd change their mind if she covers it up with makeup. Especially guys if they slept with her and then whine like crazy when she later takes her makeup off after. Grow the f*ck up. I've heard of girls legit go from party girl who I'm sure could sleep around if she wanted to, to a completely different face permanently, through zero fault of her own. But that can happen to ANYONE at ANY time. So, basic logic is to NEVER judge harshly by looks as likely, you'll look like shit 30 years from now with fewer friends and a divorce if you do.

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[Jjpayne]

This is very tricky... Let's start here

Does dirt on her face make her look unattractive?

The cause is not equal to the effect.

Just that blood spot alone on her face is unsettling.

Is she attractive? Of course she is!!

And acne like that is terrible...

It's the difference between smooth skin and skin that is full of red spots.

I wish I could say, it does not matter what you look like I love you just the way you are. But it has the same effect if you go to a dinner date with a bunch of dirt on your face. It's off putting and unsettling.

And I've been here myself!!! My face full of acne!!! It's hard to go through...

You also have to see this both ways. If a guy came up looking like that what is the response?

I suppose I might get a number of down votes for this opinion but acne is ruthless and evil #truth

[lumos]

Unfortunately yes, I do think acne looks bad. But that's the thing, it's her acne that looks bad, not her. Acne is also something that I know can be caused by a lot of different things and can be really difficult to get rid of, so if anything I feel sad for her because it must be really painful. It's not like she's purposefully not taking care of herself, which in a lot of other cases would be unattractive (like bad hygiene, ripped clothes etc). I really feel for people with acne and I'm fully capable of looking past it. I can acknowledge that it doesn't look attractive but at the same time it also makes me feel a lot of sympathy, and in the long run it's definitely not something I'd give two shits about. Acne sucks.

[Guido59]

Some girls get a bad case of acne once a month.

[Gravit1]

Based off aesthetic beauty it does not look pleasant, but acne comes and goes. However, it can also be a sign of underlying health issues, especially when past puberty. Healthy is attractive, but unhealthy is concerning. If she were simply my friend I'd see about improving her health. The main kind of attraction people seek is biological, this is keyed up to health, but it is directly linked to pheromones. She'd still produce those regardless, so compatible people could still find her biologically attractive.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

For those that go by looks only... But there's treatments available that can help people with severe acne. Should someone be shunned or looked down on for a skin condition? Hopefully someone will look past the outward appearance to the beauty she could possess inside.

[JesseCraft]

True BBB, in this case if she can get it improved then she should. She needs to look after her body

[SjE78]

not overly no, as a fair amount of people have skin conditions that aren't down to bad hygiene or diet but can be managed with the right treatment

however it's what a person is like underneath the surface, how they are towards others that defines whether they are attractive in my opinion and is something i feel is important in any potential partner when i look for a girlfriend

[ineedatan]

From a first impression, yes - physical wise. But I can see she's got attractive features. Her medical condition alone doesn't exclude her from being an attractive person overall if her personality stands out.

If she seeks medical aid from a dermatologist and takes steps to caring and improving her skin, I can tell she'd be physically attractive.

[Gibbby]

Nope, personal story, but the guy version. So there was this guy in my class , he had severe acne at the age of 14, I had a huuuge crush on him despite that because he was genuinely a nice guy. At that time none of the other girls liked him.. Fast-forward to 16 his acne started clearing up and then suddenly he was attractive to all the girls.. *eye rolls* Sadly, i never confessed earlier because i was a shy teen. But to this day i hope he found someone who could actually look past his looks, because those will fade eventually..

TLDR: No, acne is not a dealbreaker, especially if they have an awesome personality.

[NorthShoreCalling]

Acne doesn't take away any value from a person in any way. But, it's not the most attractive. I sure people don't want to feel that way and many may overlook it considering attraction is multifaceted and goes beyond just looks, but on a basic level it's not attractive.

[cheapshotbob]

you got to love the girl even at her worst if you want her best , why change over a few blemishes? and i mean a few because being a guy i have had way worse than acne on my face. with how i get into my work.

if you think she is unattractive send her my way i will give her more love than you since you dumped her for some meaningless junk that goes away.

[Bad_Man55]

Yes it is an obstacle there is no way around that no matter what be some one may hand you it is a distraction. Doesn't mean someone can not eventually see fast it when they get to know her but if you are asking simply based upon first impression then yes

[thecharmander21]

I personally find it very hard to look at = not making me look at them in a sexual way = unattractive.

HOWEVER, the more unattractive thing about someone like this is that it subconsciously implies something about their character which is that they don't take care of themselves well. There are acne medications/treatments for this kind of thing, obviously we have no idea how long she's had it for. But the point is that taking care of oneself is a must-have for a lot of people in terms of physical attractiveness even if they realize it until they are turned off by someone like this. It is unfortunate especially if she couldn't really prevent it but that's biologically people.

[modelUN242]

It does, she doesn't look healthy, like diseased. But, I can relate, I had eczema when I was young and it made me unattractive because people would give me weird stares and sometimes laugh. I cut out sugar and carbs and now it's gone.

[John_Doesnt]

Too much acne. I feel bad for her because I had really bad acne as a teenager too and it made me feel terrible about my appearance. Acne that severe can only be treated by a doctor. Ignore the online ads and creams and youtube beauty videos. See a doctor and get a prescription.
Acne is horrible, it makes teenagers feel even worse and then it leaves acne scars behind reminding you of what you went through.

[Hannahm67]

It will obviously make someone less attractive. If you are someone you know has a bad Acne and they have tried all the medications and it won't go away then I have a tip that helped me. Stop wearing makeup you are probably wearing a lot to try to cover it but if you stop it will help it clear up at least it did for me.

[Kaneki05]

Well Yup. I can't lie and say it don't. Makes me feel a bit better about my blackheads on my nose lucky i have never had anything that looks like that. But i do hope this girl can sort it out she's golden without it.

[ShyKI]

Naturally, acne is not something to be seen as attractive or in a positive light. Nobody says "Oh yay! a pimple!" .. In fact most people stress over acne, and I definitely am one of them. However, acne is something that can be cured/helped. The girl features are physically attractive. I'm sure her personality is a plus. Speaking honestly the acne kinda throws it off, but it's not tragic enough to be disrespectful or treat her differently like some people would/are in the comments. 💁🏽‍♀️

[TJFreshman22]

I don't like to judge because I'm sure we all have our own flaws we are less than fond of on ourselves. But being completely honest, yes it does. Big time. If she had no acne (of far less) it would be a massive upgrade. Hopefully it gets better for her if she can find the right medication to treat it.

[scarlett774]

A little win you first see her but after that you can still see her beauty and all her attractive features