If a man is fat or short would girls be ok with men wearing heels or a corset to meet their standards or would it make men look fake?

[chris_987]

If girls concerned about not wanting to date a short man would they want him to wear heels? Or if he was fat could he wear corset it hide his belly? If women can do it why can’t men

[flamiE]

No.. the fact that he’d try some ridiculous ways e. g wear hills to feel better about his insecurities is off-putting. I don’t have a problem with short men or chubby men for that matter.. I do have a massive problem with insecure men though..

[chris_987]

Should men have problems with insecure girls who do this

[flamiE]

That’s up to them.. though women being insecure is so common that men will have to deal with it at some point..
so I don’t know if they “should” have a problem with it but they most likely will have to deal with it as it’s more common for women than it is for men..

[chris_987]

So women don’t have to deal with insecure men, that why you can tell them to stop being insecure

[flamiE]

It’s not that we don’t have to, again to each their own but so far I haven’t heard a woman being okay with her man being insecure.. it normally ends up him projecting his insecurities on her in a way..
What I’m saying is there’re more insecure women than men that’s why we’re not used to dealing with men’s insecurities.. while for men it’s pretty common thing as us women get insecure about any little thing really..

[chris_987]

Lucky you

[Poppykate]

In the Georgian and regency periods men did wear corsets and high heels. If that’s what you want to wear- power to you! Start a new fashion trend! 👍🏼

[chris_987]

Yeah I know, but girls say it’s would be fake to wear it, so they aren’t self aware enough to see the flaw in there statement

[ThongQueenFlirt]

Heels worked for the singer Prince! I like a man with a stomach. I love rubbing it! He doesn't need a corset. Now if he feels comfortable with wearing heels and/or corset, who am I to say differently.

[Anonymous]

We shouldn’t be so negative about little things like height and weight. Fat doesn’t automatically mean unattractive, and same with being short (mostly applying to guys for that one).

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t date a man wearing any of that lmao

[chris_987]

Why? Is it because it’s not the real him

[Opinion Owner]

That and because it’s too feminine for my preference

[Opinion Owner]

well not really because it’s ‘not the real him’. it’s just too feminine for me lol

[chris_987]

It’s feminine to hide who you really are

[Opinion Owner]

what?

[chris_987]

It ok nvm