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Due to your update and poll addition, I wanna add that If I have a date I will make sure to look like my best self. But Im not gonna try to imagine what the person's preference is. I always go by my own standards. So you could say Im doing it "for them" but its not entirely how I see it. Its for me to feel good, and if I feel good I can show the person a better time, so its also for them. Its for everyone, hahaha
If you are flexible, you are many girls' dream. We love to dress up things. (Me, not dolls, nor pet costumes, but I always like fashion and hoped a guy would be amenable to dressing him. I dated some guys who worked in fashion with me but they had their own opinions about everything, boo. I finally found that in my husband. I buy most of his clothes.)I asked a q about that once.Guys, would you like your woman to buy clothes for you? ↗
I love Selena :)
Finally, a woman with brains! You're absolutely right. Anyone who claims to dress for themselves are flat out liars. Same thing goes for makeup. I don't see girls wear makeup when they don't get out of the house, or get turned on when looking at themselves in the mirror.
If only more women did this... He must be happy to have you
And guys don't lie we do it too. "Hey that shirt really highlights your pecks" I KNOW! I will act like I don't but I know, why do you think I am using it on my date with you?
Nahh... Some of us never care what others think.
@dwiller943 you never felt like dressing up for someone?
thats a good strategy... i think i need to apply it ! am just lazy too lazy to look good bleh
What does that mean? Do you not like yourself when you're in pyjamas?
? How are you getting that from what I said? It means I dress how I want and don't care what anybody things about what I wear or how I dress. I dress for myself to make me happy, comfortable and confident what people think doesn't enter the picture. Thier opinion doesn't matter to me
That's because lazy wear makes you seem as a relaxed and confident person.
@Tobithefriend sounds legit. But I also saw pics of myself with what I thought was good makeup on and I looked like trash.
To be warm? To be comfortable?Because being nude is not acceptable in the workplace?
Because it's illegal not to?
@Alcoholic1992 i know but i think you get the point
Well, what exactly is your point then? Cuz I know I don't dress to impress the opposite gender just because I see no point in that.It is viable that others feel the same. Not everyone does things just to get a partner. Or they are gay and do not try to impress the opposite gender but actually the same gender.
@LittleTurtleDuck just in general do you dress to impress others, or someone you are trying to attract. Then it doesn’t matter if same or opposite gender. Why are most people nervous before a date, excited for a big party, etc and trying to do their best and look good, if they didn’t care just a little bit about other people. Yes it is good to be comfy with one self and dress in something that makes you happy, but I do not believe that 50% never dress in hopes of other people noticing and liking.
You can believe what you want, that's ok. But I can at least say for myself that I don't dress to impress ever. Yes it is nice if people think I look good, but it is not, and never will be, my goal when dressing up.I also don't stress over clothes for a date or party: I pick what ever I like and feel comfortable in and go. I don't have specific date or work outfits, it is al the same. I make myself look good for myself, so that when I look in the mirror I can go "yess that's me!" But I honestly don't care what other people think.And therefore I do believe that there are people out there that are the same as I am.
@LittleTurtleDuck good for you but I don’t believe that more than 50% is like that.
I don't know if it is 50% of the people that answerd. But they are out there 😁
@LittleTurtleDuck 52% in this poll amd no way it is more than half of the population
Dont weed yourself out man there's hope