(Scoffs) Definitely! I legit HATE the way I look. Literally nothing about the way I look is desirable or good enough for society. Or myself, really. I'm a short-sh*t, dark-skinned, overweight, ugly, have a small dick, and getting up there in age. There's not a single thing I would salvage about my sh*tty-ass worthless Hypothyroidism body except my brain itself. At least that isn't completely worthless.
I hate being a manlet the worst. I legit DESPISE being only 181 cm; a f*cking dwarf where I'm from! I could go on forever on that alone. At least the other things are hypothetically fixable. Being "girl sized" though is forever, which is ironic because girls don't want girl-sized guys. However, I've long since given up what girls think. They'll never have anything nice to say, so I can't care anymore. Doesn't mean I have to listen to them though. I dislike the way I look regardless of what others think. They just all happen to agree with me in how bad I look.
Way to be a negative nelly. Well what I will say is that, everything now is only temporary. Things will have to get better soon, just remember things get worse before they get better. Keep your head up 😁
Yes I am lately. I cry everyday. I have fibroids that are symptomatic. They are large and I have gained weight and my doctor says my uterus is the size of a 7 month pregnancy. This is coming from someone who has always got a lot of attention from her looks. It sounds vain but I have never had to worry about anything physically. I am or was probably over confident but I know what I have. First time like this and hate it I just want to hide. I hate anyone looking at me. Very self conscious. I don't like to look at myself in the mirror at all anymore. Not even glance because it usually ends with crying. I will be having surgery soon to have them removed thank God but ladies if you ever told you have fibroids and they say they are small and they are not a problem and will "watch them" don't listen to any of that. Get them out! If I could turn back time I would have had them removed no matter how small and avoid this miserable situation. Sounds stupid but Heartbroken over all this. Not to mention physically not comfortable its like a 4 year pregnancy from hell
Not at all. I learnt to make even better use of my looks by working on style & personality etc.
Being insecure is a mind thing and is a turn off for most people. Whatever you have, accept it, be happy with it and improve whatever you can.
Most of the people look good, but it's their insecurities make them unattractive.
You can be beautiful and still be unattractive (insecurities). Or you can be average but still be attractive with nice personality & sense of style development.
Admittedly yes. Although I’ve been told I look very good for my age (I’m in shape and got all my hair) I know I don’t look as good now as I did at 25. I’m insecure about being a bachelor while getting older.
Anyway if that’s you in that pic you are very attractive. I won’t elaborate given your a minor but you should have no problem finding an attractive guy close to your age.
Thanks, yes it’s me and well maybe try to be a bit more focused on being positive through your looks and things will get better. Self love, is the best love.
I’m in a different dynamic now. One thing I got going for me is that I’m a man. It’s easier for middle aged men to find younger women than vice versa. But still it’s a challenge.
Yes. I am, it usually comes down to my eyes. I have complete heterochromia (one eye is blue the other's green). I either wear contacts or find a way to make it less obvious when I'm out and about. I was made fun of a lot about my eyes as a kid.
First, children can be cruel n really suck at being kind! Second, I think heterochromia is super cool. I used to have a boss who had it. Third, you're very unique and I personally think you should actually think of yourself as being cooler than other people! I wish I had something interesting about myself like this.
I would say most people are at some point. I used to know this girl in college that was INCREDIBLY gorgeous!!! A cross between a young Kim Cattrall, Marilyn Monroe and Debby Harry (more Kim and Debby than Marilyn). Nearly every guy in the school wanted to fuck her but she thought she was fat and ugly!! As for you, if that's you in the picture, you have nothing to worry about in the ugly department!! Any guy should be thrilled to have you as his girlfriend!!
We are all insecure... between for women ( breasts, legs, thigh gap, etc) as a man we are too... we don't get displayed like women do... but we do... I am truly fed up of people thinking you need to look like ( Kylie Jenner. Jennifer Lawrence etc)... we really need to flip the script... and accept woman for who they are
Why the fuck should I be insecure about the way I look? I mean it's simple you don't think I'm pretty look the other way. But I mean yes I have been before I think I'm way to fuckin little and I haven't grew since ibwas 14 years old still the same height and weight. I don't know it's weird.
Nope, far past that. I think last time I really worried was about 19-20, after that you simply learn to say fuck it and worry about more important things.
also you look really lovely, so do not be concerned at all.
Only if I stare for too long. I take care of myself and just take a glance in the mirror, when I do that, I am a supermodel and can't none of you girls test me.
Sometimes. But it's exhausting to be so insecure, for yourself and for those around you. Speaking from experience. I take good care of myself and do the best with what I've got.
I'm not overly confident or anything but it's never been something that bothered me. If that is a pic of you you're insane to ever feel insecure, I mean good lord almighty wth
No matter how others feel about themselves, I must say you're very pretty in the photo above!!! :)
Well I guess I do feel insecure about the way I look when I feel the person I'm attracted to isn't paying enough attention to me and she's interested somewhere else instead.
On the contrary when a girl (whom I like too) shows some interest to me, I feel like the most handsome guy in the world. Lolz.
Very much so. I know I'm average looking and over weight. So on the daily I feel people are often judging me to some degree but I also look at myself and know I need to get in better shape.
I've got on at least 25 kg more than I usually do, looking forward to starting to shred them next month onwards and finding more casual relationships ❤️💪🏽and maybe a long term one too 🤷🏽♂️
Yes. When I wear makeup, I can trick people into thinking I’m prettier than I really am. I’m really just average or ugly. I have a very round face and wearing glasses makes it worse.