
Are you insecure about the way you look?


(Scoffs) Definitely! I legit HATE the way I look. Literally nothing about the way I look is desirable or good enough for society. Or myself, really. I'm a short-sh*t, dark-skinned, overweight, ugly, have a small dick, and getting up there in age. There's not a single thing I would salvage about my sh*tty-ass worthless Hypothyroidism body except my brain itself. At least that isn't completely worthless.
I hate being a manlet the worst. I legit DESPISE being only 181 cm; a f*cking dwarf where I'm from! I could go on forever on that alone. At least the other things are hypothetically fixable. Being "girl sized" though is forever, which is ironic because girls don't want girl-sized guys. However, I've long since given up what girls think. They'll never have anything nice to say, so I can't care anymore. Doesn't mean I have to listen to them though. I dislike the way I look regardless of what others think. They just all happen to agree with me in how bad I look.
Yes I am lately. I cry everyday. I have fibroids that are symptomatic. They are large and I have gained weight and my doctor says my uterus is the size of a 7 month pregnancy. This is coming from someone who has always got a lot of attention from her looks. It sounds vain but I have never had to worry about anything physically. I am or was probably over confident but I know what I have. First time like this and hate it I just want to hide. I hate anyone looking at me. Very self conscious. I don't like to look at myself in the mirror at all anymore. Not even glance because it usually ends with crying. I will be having surgery soon to have them removed thank God but ladies if you ever told you have fibroids and they say they are small and they are not a problem and will "watch them" don't listen to any of that. Get them out! If I could turn back time I would have had them removed no matter how small and avoid this miserable situation. Sounds stupid but Heartbroken over all this. Not to mention physically not comfortable its like a 4 year pregnancy from hell
Yes
Not at all. I learnt to make even better use of my looks by working on style & personality etc.
Being insecure is a mind thing and is a turn off for most people. Whatever you have, accept it, be happy with it and improve whatever you can.
Most of the people look good, but it's their insecurities make them unattractive.
You can be beautiful and still be unattractive (insecurities). Or you can be average but still be attractive with nice personality & sense of style development.
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Admittedly yes. Although I’ve been told I look very good for my age (I’m in shape and got all my hair) I know I don’t look as good now as I did at 25. I’m insecure about being a bachelor while getting older.
Anyway if that’s you in that pic you are very attractive. I won’t elaborate given your a minor but you should have no problem finding an attractive guy close to your age.
I’m in a different dynamic now. One thing I got going for me is that I’m a man. It’s easier for middle aged men to find younger women than vice versa. But still it’s a challenge.
Yeah, because my hairline is naturally far back with fucking sucks, especially considering my hair is naturally thin and it's long.
I also have a bit of dark circles, although I think they're less bad than they were before.
Other than that, whilst I don't think my skin is amazing as I want it to be, nothing else bothers me so much, at least nothing that I can manage.
If I did get rid of my insecurities however, I'd probably find a new one, because the human brain sucks sometimes.
Yes. I am, it usually comes down to my eyes. I have complete heterochromia (one eye is blue the other's green). I either wear contacts or find a way to make it less obvious when I'm out and about. I was made fun of a lot about my eyes as a kid.
First, children can be cruel n really suck at being kind! Second, I think heterochromia is super cool. I used to have a boss who had it. Third, you're very unique and I personally think you should actually think of yourself as being cooler than other people! I wish I had something interesting about myself like this.
@Imcmullan Thank you. I'm a little more confident than I was when I was younger, but my eyes still make me uneasy.
I would say most people are at some point. I used to know this girl in college that was INCREDIBLY gorgeous!!! A cross between a young Kim Cattrall, Marilyn Monroe and Debby Harry (more Kim and Debby than Marilyn). Nearly every guy in the school wanted to fuck her but she thought she was fat and ugly!!
As for you, if that's you in the picture, you have nothing to worry about in the ugly department!! Any guy should be thrilled to have you as his girlfriend!!
We are all insecure... between for women ( breasts, legs, thigh gap, etc) as a man we are too... we don't get displayed like women do... but we do... I am truly fed up of people thinking you need to look like ( Kylie Jenner. Jennifer Lawrence etc)... we really need to flip the script... and accept woman for who they are
Why the fuck should I be insecure about the way I look? I mean it's simple you don't think I'm pretty look the other way. But I mean yes I have been before I think I'm way to fuckin little and I haven't grew since ibwas 14 years old still the same height and weight. I don't know it's weird.
Nope, far past that.
I think last time I really worried was about 19-20, after that you simply learn to say fuck it and worry about more important things.
also you look really lovely, so do not be concerned at all.
Only if I stare for too long. I take care of myself and just take a glance in the mirror, when I do that, I am a supermodel and can't none of you girls test me.
Sometimes. But it's exhausting to be so insecure, for yourself and for those around you. Speaking from experience.
I take good care of myself and do the best with what I've got.
Height ✅
Weight ❌
Hips ❌
Legs ❌
Stomach ✅
Hands ✅
Feet ✅
I'm not overly confident or anything but it's never been something that bothered me.
If that is a pic of you you're insane to ever feel insecure, I mean good lord almighty wth
No matter how others feel about themselves, I must say you're very pretty in the photo above!!! :)
Well I guess I do feel insecure about the way I look when I feel the person I'm attracted to isn't paying enough attention to me and she's interested somewhere else instead.
On the contrary when a girl (whom I like too) shows some interest to me, I feel like the most handsome guy in the world. Lolz.
Very much so. I know I'm average looking and over weight. So on the daily I feel people are often judging me to some degree but I also look at myself and know I need to get in better shape.
I've got on at least 25 kg more than I usually do, looking forward to starting to shred them next month onwards and finding more casual relationships ❤️💪🏽and maybe a long term one too 🤷🏽♂️
Insecure? No, but I do have a good understanding that I am no longer a fitness model. I'm OK with it.
I am. I have some skinny legs and I would say my face is like a 7.
Goddamn though you look good.
No not at all. I don't think I look like anything special, but I'm not insecure about any aspect of my life.
Yeah i am insecure .
Since I got covid.. I developed a belly pouch and I am not in a condition to work out and turn it into abs anytime soon
no not really i did put on 16 pounds since last year ut i already worked off 7 . my hair is maybe but I took care of that with medical pills
Yes. When I wear makeup, I can trick people into thinking I’m prettier than I really am. I’m really just average or ugly. I have a very round face and wearing glasses makes it worse.
Insecure? No.
Would I rather look like someone more handsome? Sure.
I'm not necessarily upset with the way I look but I'm not happy either. I accept myself but I feel like I could look better. It is what it is
I have lots of freckles especially on my arms which make me really self conscious.
well not anymore i am old enough and secure enough that I dont care anymore
I don’t care about my appearance as much as I did when I was younger but I do get insecure sometimes.
I'm 75. I got past that when I got out of boot camp in 1964.
Not at all , I am confident and comfortable in my own skin...
And I would like to compliment you , you have lovely legs , you look great
Not attractive.
Just too simple.
You are the judge
Yes, I've lost about 75 lbs and have a lot of skin hanging off me.
No not at all Are you
I am 100% sure my looks are bad.
Looks wear out, personality doesn't. Once we reach a certain age we become physically unattractive so looks don't matter in the long term.
I am not insecure about anything. I stopped caring a long time ago.
I used to be super insecure about it in highschool and now I'm slowly working towards improving that
I'm not insecure about my looks, I don't care I'm an ugly fucker, I don't often look at myself
not at all
but i guess have seen you on a live cam app
your legs are hot than your face
wish to see more of 'em
No. I also don't need to look for attention or validation
Yeah. I'm fat and ugly af. It's a deadly combo. Lol.
you are absolutely gorgeous, are you insecure?
No, I don't have time for that.
See once you accept how ugly you are then you are no longer insecure about it
Yes I am ugly cause I am ugly. You clearly look fine and are just looking for attention.
I am not insecure about my self but i qm insecure about my stuff
Well you look sexy
You look stunning and so sexy. smokeing hot and perfect in everyway. x
Is that you in pic? When is your birthday lol
Yea I’m overweight
You shouldn't be...😳
I am short heighted at 5'7". So yeah.
Yes, and you look good.
For the most part no.
Used to be nut not anymore
I'm in/secure to a fair degree
Nope I'm not was as teen like everyone else
Yeah most times
I feel am not too good looking
No, I'm not insecure.
I am and you should not 🙂
Thanks for like!
You should not be* 🙂
Nope. I ve no insecure about my apperance.
No, not me.
No, I am not.
No. I'm cute
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