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Slutty no. 1st pic not a fan, looks more like a collar to me. Last pic looks nice 👌
Really? I love my black ones the most, but they aren't all lacey.
I mean in public dont like that but around the house I dont care
What's wrong with them in public?
Just doesn't look modest which is what I prefer a girl to look like that im with
That's fair I guess, I never really saw them as something that isn't modest
Sexy as fuck, especially black ones. They always make me think of deepthroat.
To be honest, if a girl said 'Aye, put on this choker!'. I'd be like...
"This is probably risky, but I am taking my chances!"
Lmao it would be interesting to see a man in a choker
I find the first one to be extremely sexy. The other 3 just look like non hanging necklaces and/or pendants.
Yeah my favorite ones are my black ones, I like how they contrast with my skin also chokers can have pendants. I have one that's like thin leather that has a ring for the pendant.
Mostly, I think they are super tacky. However, a stunning Cartier choker on Angelina Jolie might look nice.
Usually girls into bdsm wear them. This ain't the 90s anymore, kid.
Okay well I didn't experience the 90s and they're still pretty popular today
"they're still pretty popular today" by girls into bdsm
Agreed.
zaharuh acting like she ain't kinky all of a sudden 💀 I seen your other replies girl don't be acting all innocent. if you wearing a choker it shows you submissive simple as that
Okay yeah whatever but like I feel like a lot of people that wear them aren't into those things.
Well just because you feel something doesn't make it so.
Are you not just assuming as well?
Most of those look like necklaces. But uh, anyways. I don’t mind them.
Chokers are pretty much necklaces they just sit tight around the neck.
But the ones with spikes I find MEH.
Yeah I'm not a fan of those lol the only leather ones I like are the thin ones with the ring pendants on them.
These people must be big assholes if they also treat dogs the same way they’re treating you
I never even thought of it that way lol but that's true
I love them. My first crush wore them and I have liked them ever since
by the way the second one turns me on a lot
Yeah I like second one too but usually I prefer the black ones
Every chic I've fucked with a choker had major kinky fetishes, including abduction /raype play and breath play (choking)
Those first 2 are wild lol
If this ain't facts I got no damn clue what is, makes me wonder what she's into
yea females that be wearing this shit they always into something, major turn on for me tho 😋
they are nothing new, I liked them the last time they were popular and I like them again.
Not sure why.
No idea they were meant to mean something but I like how they look ☺️
whenever i see a girl wearing this, I get a feeling of being choked by a thin wire.. maybe just too much horror movies.
maybe... 😂
Yeah my mum used to have the first black one, seen it in her younger photos
I haven't seen it for years on any woman I met. In what part of the world is this still in fashion?
I personally don't know that many people that wear them but I'm in America if that helps lol
Chokers are slutty and kind of imply you like BDSM.
Like even the ones in the pictures I put? Not just the leather ones?
@zaharuh Yup.
Fair enough I guess lol
The first three are slutty the last one is classy. The first three make me wanna blowjob.
A lot of people told me the 1st one is kind of trashy but why the other 2?
I don't know they just are
1 and 3 are the best
@neilsmart I agree
It looks nice on girls with long slender necks, otherwise it doesn't look good.
I too personally love wearing it..
i too wear it very often when i am out..
I really loved the 1st , 3rd & 4th one.. :) :)
I think they are so cute just the plain black ones and would happily have a girlfriend with one
Lmao some guys on here go as far to say they would never date someone just because they wear one. Which is fair I guess but it's strange to me. Also yeah the black ones have always been my fav.
I wear chokers and collars all the time
It really depends on the collar if I'll wear it outside but I usually keep those for the indoors lol
The sterling one I had made me £20 once it hit the refiner's furnace
They can be restrictive. But most wear them as a calling card that they'd rather choke on cock.
shit dude I'm yet to meet one that ain't freaky! they dont call em chokers for nothing
75% chance she a hoe if she wears this during sex💯
Big facts
@adolfohittando my g lol if you know, ya know
I think the chances are high then that brother
@jamiesrevenge on second thought you are definitely right🤔
I'm just here for the free point but it's a style as long as nobody tries to choked you we are good to go and if they do well there's always this
I like chokers depends on the woman. I bet you make them look good.
Thanks for like!
Thanks for likes!
Chokers make me want to ask if a woman likes hands around her neck during sex, and if so, what kind of pressure does she like
every damn female I been w that had a choker liked to be choked, they're all a little freaky fr 🤣
I realy like them like just the simple black ones
Yeah same those are my favorite usually because you can wear them with like anything plus they have so many nice materials
And like the ones you have in the pictures all are nice but some others are like a little bit too much for me to wear in public
It all depends on the style really but if it's just casual I'll probably pick one of my black ones that are like leather/lace/suede/velvet
Most of us Guys usually don't notice them or even necklaces that much, Unless they are fairly big.
I have never been a fan of them; however, I don't hold it against someone if they wear them 😀
I like how chokers look! I didn't think they are slutty!
It's a no for all those chokers for me.
Which kinds do you like?
Simple styles like https://www.pinterest.jp/pin/790804015817535254/ or https://www.pinterest.jp/pin/783907878893330635/ or https://www.pinterest.jp/pin/657173770614848437/
I love the 3rd ones! Thank you for sharing (:
@zaharuh The ones you posted are much nicer. These look like dog chains lol.
Personally I'm not a fan of the first 2 but I think the 3rd she sent is pretty.
@Wraith_Cemetery ah yes, sorry I didn't know a random 35 year old man from Ireland was a fashion critic :)
@suisuiola I'm a historian who is an expert on fashion from the 1800s to the late 1950s. So...
@Wraith_Cemetery and I'm a fashion student from the 2020's so... :)
It's not a competition
@Wraith_Cemetery :)
I think they look cute. I've heard others say they're slutty, but I don't feel that way.
they look cute and make the woman even more beautiful.
For me they look really sexy on the necks no lies to that. I like them.
Pretty hot. Not because they’re chokers…
So why then? I feel like I'm asking a bad question lmao
I don’t know. It was popular also back in my teen years. But maybe it’s like a semi- goth thing. Bad girl style.
Oh okay for some reason I thought you were insinuating something.
Insinuate? I would never!
Stop that right now 🤬
https://youtu.be/xxiCUVo9MW0?t=423
Thanks for the link, this was actually a really good video!
They are neither good nor bad, but they definitely carry a very sexual connotation.
I find it cute and on some hot meaning she into BDSM.
When I see a choker, I see a BDSM day collar.
14-16 year old me knew damn well what i was wearing and chose it partly for that reason. Andni was wearing an actual collar that was like a belt and had a huge silver ring dangling at the front. Thankfully i wasn't even having any kind of sex. I just wanted to look like i was.
Teens are way more keen than us adults sometimes. Lmao! They can know exactly what something means meanwhile as we get older we forget or have buried it deep down.
I agree.
I would wear nice necklace but that’s all.
It's not for everyone
Wish every girl wore em. Major turn on
Some are gorgeous and sexy
For teeny-bops. Seriously.
I've never heard that word before lol but I don't think they're only for teenagers
Pretty much yeah. Don't be desperate.
What do you mean?
You've turned over power over yourself to others. You're too worried about what somebody might think instead of just being your own person. This is an act of desperation.
I see what you mean honestly but like I was just curious on other peoples perspectives. Like I came to the conclusion that I'm going to wear them anyway but you're right I shouldn't care so much about what people think.
They look uncomfortable to me
Really? I've always found them comfortable but it depends on the material. I always think the velvet/suede/leather ones. The ones with stones and gems can feel uncomfortable sometimes if it's too tight.
Yeah, I feel like they'd rub up against your skin a lot and feel tight.
They have elastic ones that will fit your skin and it's a soft material so it doesn't feel like much but I'm not sure if you even like them.
They're not really my cup of tea lol
I thought you were talking about chokers as in women who suck on penis. 😂 my mind
Lmao everyone has those moments
On the right girl, it is absolutely beautiful. But on others, it just looks odd.
I find them ugly/cheap looking.
They can be pretty cheap depending on which material pick but like I love them
Chokers are fucking hot! 🥵
I love them, but mostly all black ones.
Yeah those are my favorite too
Chocker means you want to be dominated in the bed and beat the hell out of you
Choker = want to get beat up, got it.
Loveee them
They're amazing
I'm just curious, do you also wear collars?
Yeah I like wearing them as well, it's very similar to wearing chokers as you could imagine lol. But like honestly it depends on the collar if I'd wear it outside or not.
That's awesome, don't let people stop you from doing you. Everyone's got their own opinion and if you like what you wear who cares what the people say. Anyways I'm sure you're a good little girl ;)
i knew you was that typa girl you need to be leashed up ong 🤣
@zaharuh Typically found on "women" that have or Had a penis.
Fuck are you on about LOL
@adolfohittando Hides the adams apple.
women who wear chokers want to be treated like dogs.
Like why would you even say that, you know it's not true
They love to be obedient
I don't mind them but I don't mind if it's a satanic symbol.
it seems esthetic but is it comfortable?
It really depends because like some are elastic, some are made from jewelry, some are adjustable, some you just have to get the right size. Personally I've always found them to be comfortable, I like having them on.
I see. If it is comfortable, it seems very good
nice prostitute necklace
Like do you really think that though?
i'm not saying you're a prostitute i don't even know you what i'm saying is the necklace looks like something a call girl would wear
I didn't even know that prostitutes wear them like that
i've seen a few that do
I like them. They can look quite sexy
Really depends on the kind of choker, if they can look cute or slutty.
That's fair, the one I was wearing was just like small leather choker with a ring pendant, I should have put a picture of it.
Sounds like you earned your black belt in blowjobs LOL
@zaharuh
As you probably know - clothing will always create associations people have. Let's say you wear a maid outfit - people naturally will think of a maid.
So if you wear leather clothes - especially a leather choker - people will associate it with certain kinky sex practices. This is what you are displaying to others. If you are fine with displaying that or not is up to you.
Okay that makes sense but it wasn't a big leather collar looking thing it won't let me put links but if you paste "black velvet choker / black choker necklace" into google it should pop up first. Or maybe I'm just dumb and that's what you meant the whole time 😅
what I meant was if you put that in google, it was similar looking to mine, oops.
@jamiesrevenge that is fucking hilarious, I'm bout to start saying that
Also just to be clear the choker you told him to look up is on the sluttier side of the ones you showed.
@zaharuh
It's definitely more on the slutty looking side. Your choice, if you are fine with the reactions to that or not.
@FakeName123 It sucks because I don't want those kinds reactions but at the same time I really like how it looks I don't know I'm probably still going to wear it. Thanks for your insight
Maybe consider a more feminine choker like this:

or
That first one is so pretty! I have one kind of similar but its rose gold and not as many layers.
They look like dog collars
Like that's the first thing you think when you see them
No the first thing is that they want me to choke them in sex
I mean I'd take that over a dog collar
Do you want to be choked
Of course she liked being choked, if you wearing leather chokers you gotta be freaky LOL