As long as you’re wearing it with black tights or mini shorts underneath or shape wear not showing your cooch, you’re good, sis! Not looking trashy, a woman should be able to wear anything she’s comfortable and most of all confident with!
There's several parts to this. From my POV as a guy in his late 40s...
1. Let's say there's an older woman who still has the physical stuff to look just as good as a much younger woman in a given outfit. The older woman is supposed to have MORE to offer than looks so it's seen as shameful/pathetic if she needs to try hard to get attention based on her looks. It doesn't mean she has to dress like a nun but if she goes too far into "look at my skin" territory it's bad.
2. Women who have the most desirable character also know how to keep a man. If a woman has great character it's very likely she's going to be in one of those 30-40+ year relationships. When a woman isn't on the dating market she's AND she is loyal to her man she's not going to dress the same as a woman who is hoping dudes notice her and give her attention.
3. Women (in general) have been dressing more and more revealing over the past few decades. The kind of woman I'm talking about is going to dress in a style that wasn't considered sleazy/"too much" when she was younger so for an older woman to dress in very revealing ways by today's standard she's really going out of her way to do that.
So no, a woman who is 30s+ with more to offer than sex is not going to dress like she's a 20 something who is desperate to get the attention of random dudes. If you're dressing like Madonna when you're 40-60 it's a good sign that you can't keep a man.
You can still wear something that shows your curves and look good -- if you have curves tho. It would just be more "classy" and less, "I'm on the market".
Gwyneth can say whatever she wants because she's rich and rich people get to have more delusions than non-rich people.
People should wear whatever they want.
Funny you post a meme about the one person who made a candle that smells like her vagina. Lol
Most people will say "wear whatever you want to" Yeah right. That dumb phrase is outdated already. There is time and age FOR EVERYTHING. Yes there are time when wearing mini skirts or skimpy super sexy clothes are not suit anymore for women at a certain ages. Yes tehre is a limit and age. Not every woman regarldess of the dumb phrase "wear whatever you want" applies and can pull it off wearing those kind of clothes. Not everyone has a good physique to wear at a certain age skimpy clothes or mini skirts. Of course there are exceptions and Im aware of that. but those ar the exceptions, like for instance Elizabeth Hurley, Demi Moore. But not everyone has that physique to wear mini skirts and skimpy clothes, cause forcing yourself to wear clothes that they dont look good, it wil make you look terrible or embarassing instead of looking nice, which at the end that is the purpose to look good and not bad. Women of a certain age can still wear juvenile clothes that make them look young and look sexy without being so revealing or bold and looking like a tramp.
You got the confidence to wear it , go for it grandma
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I believe yes too tell BS dialogues is what most celebrities do.
People by themselves will change as they are not visually appealing in certain type of dress
If you have way hairy legs which Is natural would you wear a mini skirt in that? No you will spend dollars together to get the hair removed first.
As you age your skin has wrinkles cellulite you might not even care for getting hair removed lol
So you will then dress moderately traveling less now if you are general public then yes.
These actresses get hell lot of surgery to prevent all aging stuff and mask it spending so much money bc their whole life is based on appearance.
And they use it as advantage to sell their products or whatever they are advertising
So it's not about age limit but understanding what looks good and presentable on you at what age.
Another example would be would you wear little frocks as you wore in childhood or would you wear diapers and go out in public no right 🤣🤣🤣 so there is sensibility to wear somethings as per age.
I think the best way to evaluate your point is to conciser the reaction you're going for when you put on clothes.
Mini skirts are sexy because they are a tease to the private parts. Sexy means you're attractive and cause naughty thoughts to take place due to the arousal that is caused.
If you're wanting to be taken seriously, but also creating a distraction (like almost showing butt cheeks, displaying the entire length of your legs, showing off cleavage etc) then you're understanding of the human brain is at an elementary level.
That being said, if you're seeking attention from men, understand and accept that men will mostly only see you as a 'fuck' and you feel attractive in a mini skirt, crop top and heels... By all means girl! Be you!! Be happy!! And be safe!!!
Also, at no age is it appropriate for a woman to were revealing clothes in a professional setting. ESPECIALLY if she wants to be taken seriously and on a professional level.
I think there is a certain way that is appropriate to dress at every stage of life. For instance it would look weird if a 45-year-old woman dressed like a 19-year-old girl. Tartan skirts, mini shorts and mini skirts or mini dresses are all better suited for under 30s.
It’s like you wouldn’t go to a corporate work environment wearing a mini skirt because it is highly inappropriate. You need to be modestly dressed. So yes with age people do tend to change their dressing and dress more age appropriate.
There is never a need for me to wear speedos and a skin-tight see-through t-shirt. The judgment is more direct and socially acceptable to point out how retarded I am for being a man doing this... it's the same for when we see a female doing the same shit, it just is slower to escape the lips because you could, depending on who is around, get called out for calling it out.
It is ridiculous though and a shallow call for attention. As for the age, it's basically the same. It's just more likely to get called out when it doesn't look good than when everybody that sees it leaks sexual fluids. Hope that makes sense.
I always struggle with this, my booby does ok for a 46 year old woman and my daughters are alway stealing my clothes … but I always worry that people will form judgements. I’m not trying to attract people with my clothes I just know what works for my body type🤷♀️
I'll be wearing mini skirts until I'm 50 years of age. As for crop tops I don't cause well I've gained some weight and I don't think I should be wearing them cause well I'm not a teenager anymore
Let's keep aside that crap of "you can wear whatever you like; it's your life... " and all that freedom bullshit.
At every stage of life, there is always a sensible manner in how you dress up. The reason women are affected more by that is the variety of ways they can dress up and the way their fashion changes. It looks ao bad when you see mom's dressed up (or hardly dressed) walking around with her kids and sometimes old enough daughters as of theybare competing can look younger.
How do you feel about 50, 60 yr old men with dad bods wearing tight t-shirts showing their 44A size man boobs as if that doesn't matter.
Of course there's no age limit, But most of us don't know what we look like to other People and I think that's the mistake a lot of People make is that they think they look Good wearing something but they actually don't and some People just wear whatever and they might actually look good.
Women put more effort into their Appearence which can sometimes look unattractive to some People but we all find different things Attractive so we find different types of clothing Attractive aswell.
I wouldn’t let others opinions effect what I felt good in.
My best friend is 52, she rocks stuff that some 20somethings shouldn't wear.
What's the difference?
1. She wears things that FIT, this is about SIZE not cut.
2. She takes care of her body and wears things that accentuate her positive features, her health is a priority of hers and she knows what her physical flaws are so she wears things that hide those or draws the eye away.
3. She wears things that are appropriate for the venue.
Mmm great question. Much depends on area where u live. Some cultures very conservative, some not. I think it should be ladies choice what to wear so for me ok to see elder woman in miniskirt. If she has nice body it can look good. If not... Still her choice...
I used to have a history teacher that was pushing a 130 year when she was teaching me and would always wear a short skirt and six inch stilettos and always bright colors.
Even though it was creepy that she feels the need to do that there was nothing wrong with the actual attire.
I would say if that's what makes a person comfortable then there is no harm in doing it.
The ladies of Walmart suggest the answer is no.
Seriously though it;'s really down to being realistic about where your body's at. What drapes well, do the stripes really work, or the busy print...
It's just a judgement call. People age differently soI think it's down to making smart choices based on body condition and shape.
Individual dependent , there shouldn't be , but we are associating age with poorer shape , dimension and this does not have to be the case , but forgetting age ( and we all see it everyday ) , when you shouldn't be wearing it , you just shouldn't be wearing it.
As often on display be the overweight , be in shape , do as you please.
Think of middle aged guys who go shirtless during the summer months (and just not at the beach). Do people really want to see a hairy/obese middle aged man go shirtless or is he in excellent shape and well groomed?
So it depends on the middle aged woman. Generally not a great idea but while some can get away with it most can’t.
The sad fact is there are. Or more particularly body limits. Just because you loked good in a bikini at 18 doesn't mean you can wear one 20 years on if your waistline is the same as your height.
Seriously it will scare small children to see that overflowing flesh and will probably turn young boys gay.
Yes. But not as per the clothing length, a lot of people have that misconception that you can't wear short dresses and stuff if you're middle aged or older... That's not how it is. It's just that go easy with sparkling outfits. Like glittery dresses that you used to wear in twenties, maybe not drag to your Fortis, cuz when you're younger literally a potato sack dress will also suit you.
Well that's probably true in many regards. Weight, age, have both been considered to be factors in how well some looks- usually the sexier looks- but who would be the judges responsible in enforcing that.
Many people seem to lose self-awareness when it comes time to decide what is sexy and what isn't.
i mean its like capitalism. just wear what you want. society's response will tell you if it was a good choice or not.
I find it funny how more revealing clothes are considered for teens and covering up is for adults. Shouldn't it be the other way around? Couple years ago I was wearing a crop top and my mom said I was “too old” to wear one.
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