Do you think you’re ugly? Why do you think that? Subjectively what makes someone ugly?

[Macnelon]

Yes

No

[MCheetah]

1. Yes, I am ugly.
2. Because mirrors and working eyesight.
3. Not fitting the designated beauty standards of the time and location, which I do not.

Yes, beauty is subjective. But when all women tell me I'm unattractive in one form or another (as in, not handsome/good looking), and even AI agrees with them, then what other conclusion would I come to? I'm also short, so there's that; maybe I'd be considered handsome if I was 6'3".

MCheetah; he's an ugly f*ck, ain't he?

[Macnelon]

No way!!! I think you’re handsome. Not my type , but if I saw you walking down the street honestly I would say that’s a handsome put together man. Definitely don’t ugly, I’m sorry you feel that way.

[UmbrusNightshade]

I used to think I was ugly. Since 3rd grade I was always overweight and it eventually become morbidly obese.


Other boys would call me names and make fun of my weight and girls never complimented my appearance.


However, as I grew older, even with the weight, I started getting compliments about my eyes and hair from women and once I grew out my beard tons of guys tell me they wish their facial hair was as nice as mine. I started to suspect I wasn’t ugly but rather just not healthy looking.


A little over a year ago I found out I was diabetic. I had lost 50 or so pounds without changing a thing about my diet or activity levels in a 4-6 month period. I got the disease under control, but it pointed out to me that I was not ugly … it’s just that people don’t like it when someone looks I’ll or in poor health. With the weight loss I started getting more and more compliments.


Fast forward from Dec. 2021 to December 2022 … I had spent 4 months working out, for the first time in my life, and even though my weight is increasing, I am clearly losing body fat and gaining muscle. I’m in the best shape of my life. And overall I look much healthier. This has resulted in more and more compliments from increasingly more attractive women and even other men are starting to say I look good. So … no, I don’t think I’m ugly. Outer aesthetics just take effort.

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t believe I’m good looking. When you’ve been heavily bullied for your looks as a kid, you eventually believe what people say. I’ve been bullied for my freckles, my teeth (I got braces though so they’re not bad now), my scars, my height etc.. all those things add up.

[YourFutureEx]

Don't let the bullies make you believe the lies. Every single person has scars and height isn't big of a deal for women.

[Punk-y]

I don't know if ugly, but not pretty at least, lol. And I don't know why, I just feel like I don't have very nice features

[Macnelon]

It’s crazy how hard we are on ourselves. In my opinion ur super cute!!

[Punk-y]

@Macnelon Aw, thank you! You are too

[Jennz6]

I’m sure you are Beautiful

[Jennz6]

You are Beautiful honey

[Jennz6]

@Macnelon you are beautiful sweetheart, I just looked at your profile picture and you are so cute

[Macnelon]

@Jennz6 thank you so so so much🥹🥹

[Punk-y]

@Jennz6 Aw, thanks a lot <2

[CarrieNC]

First of all, let me just say that I don't like to label myself as "ugly" or "beautiful" because I believe that beauty is subjective and can't be defined by one set standard. But, I'll be honest and say that I've definitely had moments where I've felt self-conscious about my appearance, especially when it comes to my weight and my big butt and hips.

Growing up, I was always a bit on the heavier side and I remember getting teased for it in school. Kids can be cruel and it definitely took a toll on my self-esteem. I also come from a culture where curvy bodies are celebrated, but society as a whole seems to favor thin bodies. So, I've definitely felt like I didn't fit the mold of what society deemed as "beautiful."

But, as I've gotten older, I've learned to love my curves and embrace my body. I've also realized that everyone has their own insecurities and no one is truly "perfect." I've found that confidence is the most attractive trait a person can have and I've learned to exude that in my own way.

To answer your question about subjectively what makes someone "ugly," I believe it's a combination of things. Society often deems certain physical traits as "unattractive" and that can definitely play a role in how someone perceives themselves and others. But, I also believe that attitude and personality play a huge part in how someone is perceived. Someone who is rude or negative can definitely be considered "ugly" in my eyes, even if they have conventional good looks.

[anon171999]

No. I know I'm beautiful because I get told I'm beautiful too frequently to doubt whether I am

However, I'm aware I'm not the most beautiful faced woman in the world. There are countless women with faces that are more beautiful than mine but I don't mind that because I like how my face looks when I see it. I don't care about being the most beautiful. I just don't want to be ugly & I want to like how I look.

I think being fat, acne, oily face, red face, hairy face, etc. Makes a face less attractive. So does being mean, hateful, and bitter. It seems to make women ugly quickly. Plastic surgery & too much makeup also make women ugly because they cover her inner & natural beauty.

[4ngelic]

i'm not the prettiest girl ever but i know i'm definitely not ugly. how do i know i'm not? mirrors, people are nice to me, how the people who like me/want to fuck me look, what people have said about how i look since i'm little. for what makes someone ugly it's just like if your face looks below average. it's not really subjective honestly

[Summeroflove]

Well yes beauty and ugly is subjective and it's like one thing someone can find to be really hot and another not so much. Which is why I tell both men and women that you need to find someone who accepts you for who you are and not try to please everyone since well that can't be done. You will just make yourself miserable never feeling enough.

With that being said yes there is people and things that are more universally ugly or beautiful

[Kaneki05]

Yup. Mostly because I have hair trying to make me have a beard and moustache which yes of course I shave off but it grows back quickly it for sure don't suit me.
And even though it don't bother me because Blackheads aren't actually anything bad other people see them as so and I have them on my nose that I can just never get rid off.
And I'm already meh looking so bleh.

[tfan1]

I have a soda belly that I can’t lose (yes I said soda belly not beer belly because I don’t drink alcoholic beverages) and unfortunately my family has had a history of bad teeth including me. The only good thing of covid happening is that we have or have had to wear masks - which hide my mouth so no one will see the ugly teeth of me 💔😞

[Paul09]

I'm not sure. I think I'm average looking. But then other times I think maybe I might be ugly. Maybe one of the reasons I'm single. Hard to get straight answers. Not like you can ask someone if your good looking or ugly and get a honest reply.

[Macnelon]

Yeah you’re not wrong

[Adam1978]

No I think I am in the average group like most of you guys, it's up to the others preferences if I am better than that.

[Labokachulaa]

I personally think the only thing that makes someone ugly is if they treat others poorly.

[MCheetah]

@Labokachulaa
Didn't you call me unattractive before on here? Are you implying I "treat others poorly?"

[Labokachulaa]

No, I don't believe that was me. There's another profile on here with the same name.

[MCheetah]

@Labokachulaa
Seriously? Another name? Well, if it wasn't you, then I apologize.

[Labokachulaa]

Yes. Thank you. 😊

[nawtee_me]

They say beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way to the bone... lol

[Macnelon]

Lmaooo that’s a good one

[Sugar100]

Yes I’m ugly men never chased me whole life all boys rejected me, I’m not thick I was born skinny & too short.

[Macnelon]

I would love to be skinny, I guess we all want what we can’t have.

[Macnelon]

Plus I’m short and thick. At least being skinny your legs will look longer lol

[Anonymous]

i think i'm okay looking but i honestly think it's hard to be ugly for me, you can be unattractive but that doesn't necessarily mean you're awful

[Anonymous]

I'm beautiful. What makes someone physically ugly?

Bad skin, morbidly overweight, no teeth, bald, bad hygiene, and being super hairy.

[Anonymous]

I think I’m kind of pretty but not very pretty.

[panerabricks]

I do and it's unfortunate because I have a good heart.

[Macnelon]

Oh lord, this made me so sad. If anyone should think you’re beautiful it should be you. Granted I have my days and I’m still young so I can kinda take myself for granted. But…. I think I’m very attractive because there’s only one me and I’m designed exactly as I was meant to be.

[Jennz6]

Everyone says that I am Beautiful

[Anemone978]

Because I only can get ugly guys...

[Nikki1989]

I consider myself average on a good day.

[Jude_Wills]

Can I ask you something?

[LavLavLuv]

Nope