Everyone has their own values. Respect can be shown through the smallest details of clothing like, shoes. Would you behave differently to someone who dresses modestly? My Answer: personally, i would treat them differently because the people i talk with, i am associated with them. A person’s clothing reflects their demeanor. Feel free to ask other questions.
Yes, I’d treat them differently based on their clothes.
No, I would treat everyone the same, regardless of what they wear.
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Would you treat someone differently based on their clothes?
The way you project yourself out into the world will determine how you will be perceived.
That's why on important days like for a job interview, you make sure you look professional and not come in with half your tits hanging out wearing bootyshorts.
Both men and women who dress modest and more professionally will in my eyes be perceived as respectable people. The moment I see a girl wearing provocative clothing already tells me all I need to know, and I will treat her in a way that requires minimum amount of effort from me. If I cannot fully ignore her that is. Same goes for a dude who wears a wife-beater or a tracksuit.
Respect is earned, not given. You want to be treated better, make sure you come across as a person who deserves to be treated better.
@Rosexøxø Way to show the point has literally flown right over your head. I treat everyone with the basics of respect in interaction, but you would lie to your teeth if you try to convince us that you treat everyone equally. Clothes or not, you are much more willing to ask someone who is dressed neat/professionally for help rather than someone who is dressed like a thug or homeless.
Just because people aren't clothes, doesn't mean we don't judge them for it. If you walk around dressed like a prostitute, then be ready to be perceived or even treated as one. Walk around in a neat dress and people will treat you much differently. That's how humans are and thus how society is. Survival of the fittest doesn't only have to do with survival. It's all about adaptability.
You being hurt by realism is more of a you-problem, miss. I'm not going to back down on reality just to conserve someone's feefees.
His opinion rlly bothered u that much? Respect is earned not given, but u might think people who lack respect for themselves, should automatically receive it. If i see a boy/girl dressed like a slut, i have no respect for them as they hav no respect for themselves. Its a pretty easy concept to understand.
@Rosexøxø Sweetheart, if you think I'm going to read any of that, most especially after you brought the Patriarchy into it, then you're playing yourself. I smell toxic feminism off of you and I'm not keen on wasting my time on someone who stamps everything on the pAtRiArChY when she is met with an opposing perspective.
The fact what I said triggered you so much is a tell-tale it is time for you to get off the net and touch some grass. Shit isn't that deep.
@Boomchakalaca Save your breath. Just be glad you got some common sense and can accept the world for what it is rather than what you want it to be. Little Rosey got her braincells neutered by modern feminism which explains why my comment triggered her and seeing you agreeing with me triggering her even more.
Good thing there is a remove trash clutter comments function. Imagine wasting your time throwing a temper tantrum while the other person takes just 1 second to remove them lol. I'm not going to entertain clutter and snowflakes under my comment section. Anyone mad at my perspective should go cry to some safe space, but not here.
@Rosexøxø Funny how someone who rejects reality claims to have more knowledge than anyone else. Perhaps in your world of La La Land where wishful thinking rules rather than objective truth. And when your little bubble doesn't get accepted as objective truth, you throw a temper tantrum with a bunch of feminist ad hominem attacks and then ends up blocking out of rage lmfao. Nobody asked you to come here. Don't let the door hit you on the way out, little snowflake 😘👋
Yes, I would and I do everytime I leave the house. I instantly hold a better opinion of a modest girl in a cute flowery dress than I do of a girl who wears a crop top with yoga pants. It's just the way it is. Modest girls have more respect for their bodies and their environment.
Now before any women jump down my throat, I do the same thing with men and I do the same thing for myself which is why I dress in a formal and modest manner. I hold a better opinon of modest man than those who wear jeans sagging down to their knees.
Best comment 🤷🏻♀️ i didn't wanna attack girls, so i added pics of a playboy bunny shirt dude and a casual/business attire guy. I always try and dress to impress. I rlly like dressing up, but i feel weird when everyone at the store is wearing jeans and sweatshirt
@Boomchakalaca No need to feel "weird". Do what you wanna do. It will make you feel better rather than just follow everyone else.
I pretty much dress up every single day and get looks from people but I also get nice comments. I've had people say they wish they could dress up nice too and that they feel like slobs standing next to me.
😂 not many men get compliments from strangers like women do. Im curious as to what ur style is? Also what do u wear at home when ur staying inside that day?
@Boomchakalaca I've been stopped in the street many many times. Even women will stop me to take a picture or compliment me.
My style is vintage, classic, dark academia, and business casual. I consider myself a "history bounder". I like wearing a lot of 1920s, 1940s, and 1950s clothing. All of my clothes are reproductions or true vintage from those eras. I have wool suits, button up shirts, detachable collars, suspenders, bow ties, et cetera. I've been compared to Peaky Blinders and Boardwalk Empire. Huge fan of the 20s/40s eras.
When I want to be more relaxed I adopt a 50s/60s look with short sleeve button up shirts and chinos.
When I'm at home I'll wear plain undershirts with shorts or pants to feel "comfortable". I also own a vintage robe that I'll wear to be more presentable. However, I don't have any sweatpants, graphic tees or those kinds of things.
Wow id be intimidated with the presence of a fashionably dressed alpha male. I seen a guy walk around with the similar style u talked about and i love it. U def hav that old money aroma with u. Im wondering, could i maybe see a picture of ur outfits u can blur ur face or whatnot im just here for the vintage clothes!
People do treat people differently on how they look, how they dress, etc. that’s a fact and harsh reality. I get more attention and help now than when I was 40 pounds heavier. Yes people treat you nicer when you’re skinny and fashionable. I enter the bank, people hold doors for me, and even approach me right away if I need help.
I won’t treat people differently just because they dress in rags or in a suit. People are people.
If a girl is showing as much skin as possible then she is clearly aiming to be 'hot'. As an example I saw a girl at a pub wearing a lap lap without any room for panties. If you don't know what that is, it is a belt from which strings hang to obscure the pudendum and anus usually worn by hunter gatherer women. This girl had three strings fore and aft. Ideal for quick sex in the toilet or against a wall.
Now I don't have anything against that per se or with a woman being completely naked for self expression. But I do know what she is on about. The same as the girls in the second set of photos.
Am I going to interact at her level? Most likely although more likely I won't interact at all.. Is that what I want in a girlfriend/wife? Quite unlikely.
I would certainly chat up the girl in the first photo and if we interacted well ask her out. She wouldn't be embarrassing at the work Christmas party and other guys would envy me for having an elegant girl hanging off my arm.
With the lap lap girl they'd ask me how much she cost.
Lmao well said. Also i never knew a lap lap was a thing for quick sex. Thats nasty. An elegant woman around ur arms at a family function is appropriate then a girl who wears lap laps. “How much she cost” lol definitely not the type to show to ur parents
Not to dear ol mom for sure. by the way, I was just inferring a lap lap would be good for quick sex as I have never tried. If I did I think I'd put two condoms on. Maybe the beads on the strings would give extra stimulation. Dunno. Big White Hunter and the native girl doesn't appeal as a role play.
To point out- I disagree with everything @truthbringer said respectively here on my comment. I only mention it because he had deleted my points of discussion.
Rather quickly too 😂
This IS a place for discussion and not just spewing ideologies at people and declaring ourselves as right.
That’s all I have to say as I will freely block him for having missed and willingly dismissed critical thinking and a different perspective ONLY in favor of those who do not live to represent their clothes lol
Only models represent apparel.
People do not.
I don’t represent what I wear nor vice versa. My words and how I carry myself does that well for me. 💯🙌
No, you should not treat someone differently because of the way they dress. Clothing is a form of self-expression and everyone has the right to express themselves in the way they feel most comfortable. Making assumptions or judgments about someone based on their clothing can be unfair and discriminatory.
It's important to treat everyone with respect and kindness, regardless of how they choose to dress. Clothing does not define a person's worth or character, and it's important to recognize and value people for who they are on the inside. In short, it is always best to treat others the way you would like to be treated, regardless of their clothing choices.
The way a person dresses can provide some clues about their personality, interests, and lifestyle, but it's important to recognize that these assumptions can be influenced by cultural biases, stereotypes, and personal preferences.
For example, someone who dresses in formal business attire may be perceived as professional and career-oriented, while someone who wears brightly colored and eclectic clothing may be seen as creative and individualistic. However, these assumptions are not necessarily accurate or universal, and it's important to avoid making snap judgments based solely on appearance.
Additionally, a person's clothing choices may be influenced by factors such as cultural or religious beliefs, personal comfort and practicality, and financial resources. Therefore, it's important to approach clothing choices with an open mind and avoid making assumptions or judgments based on appearance alone.
Overall, while clothing choices can provide some information about a person, it's important to approach each individual with an open mind and get to know them on a personal level before making any assumptions or judgments.
Okay. All good points, but the poll says otherwise? Im noticing that many people said they wouldn't treat them differently but the polls says different?
Yes. I avoid people who dress like hoodlums. (Saggy jeans, huge T-shirts/ jerseys/ wife beaters, chains, and those goofy-ass hats). Because I have nothing to say to them. I do not want to be friends with them. I do not want to hang out with them. I do not want to associate with them in any way whatsoever.
My belief is actually that 90% of people would whether they admit the same or not , as you say , its expression , its detail , its part of association , that's why there is differing attire for different events , and its that detail that tells you a lot about a person.
The idea that " Id just treat people the same " , may be a nice idea , but its simply not true , you will be judged by your daily choices , and I'd say certainly I treat people differently.
Even here in Thailand , its hot right , its not always easy , when you see a sloppy tourist who has not for a moment thought about culture , only about him or her self , you give a judgmental glance , and under your breathe " You arrogant fool - respect " .
Thats so true , and where did I read the study that you are judged in the first 10sec s? I think everyone does this , and its not about being the best looking or the like , my old mother god RIP , always used to say " Look your best , you never know " , and employment agencies run courses on this stuff , but its relevant to every circumstance. I'm going into town today , after reading your question I will take more care and attention.
You are both spot on @molonski2 & @Boomchakalaca. It is indeed all just internet politically correct BS that are often just not even reflected in actions. People under this question love to claim they don't judge or treat people based on their clothes are often the same people who would be cautious & stay away from people who look like thugs. And at the height of their arrogance think they are therefore better than other people who are genuine and don't give this moral highroad politically correct BS.
The reality is that clothes are an important factor on how people will perceive and ultimately treat you.
@TruthBringer , could not have said it better , well expressed view , and whether you like it or not , that's exactly how it is , and an issue I would have changed myself if I could go back in my own life , as I wanted to also believe otherwise. You are constantly judged every day , by both people who know you and those who don't.
All will be constantly judged on appearance by many , its a constant. Thankyou for your input , I speak for myself and life experience , facts , as a whole. Have a good day :)
No never would be such an absurd idea to me but hey back in the day women showing ankles was illegal or even today women get killed for not wearing right stuff in other countries so it's been established people do judge differently base do clothes for their absurd ideals.
Very absurd! A guy with pants around their thighs with white panties showing i would interact no differently to a man who who wears a plaid shirt and jeans 😇
Your example is just called them letting their clothes fall down which is different topic. Should we also talk about if a Old man was running around naked? Because somehow I don't think this is what I meant by not judging based on clothes and neither did you, smartass attempt failed.
Tbh you'll never be able to understand people vcoz at one moment or instance they behave in a particular way but at another instance they would behave completely opposite
No. :) I had friends who cannot afford fashion, so I understand. What I really judge is the vibe I get from them. I know someone who dressed really great, but mean. I also had a friend who had holes in their clothes, but they're the ones who helped me. I have seen someone who was conservative, but a traitor. I have seen someone who wore revealing outfits, but still had respect for themselves. I couldn't care less.
Yes everyone would. If they say no they are lying. If you meet someone wearing a trach bag as a dress you'd assume they are unhygenic and you'd step away from them.
This guy is talking to u bc ur a cashier. You guys hav small talk, then he says “when does ur shift end, we should hang out at the pub after yo” would u be friends?
I mean, sure I would prefer the guy to dress appropriately and not like a slob, but, would I treat them differently, not really. I'd still give them the respect they deserve, until they say or do something that changes my mind, in that regard.
Intressting that half of the people lie to themselves and internet. There isn't a single person who wouldn't change their behavior depending on how someone dresses.
There isn't a single person who doesn't change behavior depending on what they wear or don't wear period. It's not about being judgmental. Some might have wider boundaries but in the end there is boundaries.
It definitely affects my very first impression about them... But that's about it... I don't really start judging them or decide to treat how I would treat them until they talk and I see their attitude and vibe...
I think people over read the question or maybe i reword it wrong. Yea, it does effect the first impression and i wouldn't bother talking to someone who doesn't dress nice. Ex. Saggy pants, playboy bunny shirts, cleavage showing almost their nipple, etc
Yeah, It definitely gives you a hint.. And usually the first impression ends up being true... So, it's safe to do that... Nothing wrong with having standards...
I'm not as judgmental as others, I don't judge by clothing, even tho some thoughts come to mind I don't let it effect mu decisions so differently not really cause they both would get that chance to express themselves before I jump in or out of anything.
Agreed. A guy with a playboy shirt and earrings tells me a lot about them. They more than likely hav posters of nude women in their bedroom type. Similarly, u can pretty much guess what type of person drives a car.
I mean I've seen that to. Poor decision but oh well. I meant their personality attached to their car.. if they drive a pickup they probably do hard labor and love country music, republican 🌾
Oh yea i mean the guys i see in big pickup trucks, some are welders or construction workers but most are just students trying to showoff their mcdonalds paycheck lmao. If they drive camaros and mustangs theyre usually in the military.
So if u had to choose who to talk to, a girl in yoga pants who is just ur type, or a girl who tries hitting on u with a shrek shirt on and ripped jeans. What would be ur first impression?
I'd think the first girl knows she's got a great body and wants to show it off, and I'd think the second one is a free spirit and wears wtf she wants. Neither have more or less value to me based on what they're wearing.
But you're talking about girls here, which adds the sexual and attra tion element. I meant I don't judge people in general by what they're wearing Anyone can dress nice, and there's billionaires who wear a hat and an old t-shirt
Well boys and girls can dress sloppy. Clothes are just women’s category 🤷🏻♀️ not much style of clothing in the men’s wardrobe then girls. So, yes, i am referring to mostly what girls wear 🛍️
Also i hav a shrek shirt in my closet, friend gav it to me 😂 had to think of smth so ud agree that u would treat those girls differently based on looks? As u assumed the yoga girl wants to show off. The shrek girl was confident and free-spirited? A hat and an old t shirt are okay clothes but i mean sloppy clothes like saggy pants, revealing tops
When did I say I would treat them differently? I also never said I don't make assumptions. I just said I don't care.
A girl could come up to me wrapped in a potato sack and I'd still give her a chance if she was cool. I might assume she really likes potatoes though lol
No its not about the shrek shirt 😅 im just curious as to what impressions people get on the clothes they dress 🤷🏻♀️ i rlly like to dress up and wish everyone did the same. It seems people dont take time to look at least presentable 🙂
When men wear only a white tank out in public it’s hard not to assume that they don’t give a shit. judgmental maybe but that’s just my opinion. Nothing wrong with dressing casual though I dress casual all the time and some of my clothes are cheap.
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