What is the most unattractive feature a man can have, one that is a complete turnoff

[Pixiebih]

[Anonymous]

Just curious how women would react if a guy asked this exact same question with the genders reversed.

Some would take it in stride. But others would get all pissed off and defensive about how “shallow and visual” guys are.

You don’t see guys starting stupid movements like “fat acceptance” along with “every body is beautiful” crap. Some women literally think they can force change men’s preferences. Yet men are considered crybabies, losers, incels, etc if they complain about woman’s preference

For example; women who intentionally don’t shave their legs/armpits is an instant turn off/dealbreaker for me. Grosses me out. Some guys are okay with that but I’m not. Yet I would get a bunch of pissed off feminists trying to shame & guilt me if I said that out loud.

Yet many women judge the living f*ck out of men. Often for things they have zero control over (height). Yet you don’t see men starting “short acceptance” movements. We were taught long ago if women reject us (fair or not) then we are not allowed to have any qualms about. If we do we are “entitled” and immature.

But women are to never be questioned for their reasons to reject a guy whether they are fair or not. I’m a good height by the way (6ft) but I sometimes feel bad for the shorter guys.

[HappyWoman34]

So in order to avoid hurting everyone’s feelings, we have to settle for someone we’re not interested in? I don’t think men or women should complain about being rejected. People have the right not to want us.

[Siri137]

You're absolutely right. The blatant double-standards are sickening.

[Opinion Owner]

@HappyWoman34 guys are taught to be extra sensitive about commenting and rejecting women particularly when it comes to a woman being overweight.

Not saying all guys heed that advice. But it is definitely taboo for a man to openly say he’s not attracted to a woman because she’s fat.

However women really do have more societal wiggle room to speak their minds on what they unattractive in men. 4 years ago on a first date I was told I was unattractive straight to my face without provocation. The date wasn’t going well and the girl was obviously a B but still she’s expressing “her truth” or some nonesense.

I find the more liberal women are the more hypocritical they usually are when it comes to this. Not always but often.

Guys are supposed to always let things roll of their shoulders and be bullet proof. We actually can take constructive criticism better but women usually aren’t very good at delivering it tactfully.

[Opinion Owner]

@Siri137 thanks. I have an old saying that “attraction (or lack thereof) isn’t a choice but respect is definitely a choice.”

It’s completely fine to reject people you don’t feel attracted to but be respectful about it.

I am personally dealing with a very uncomfortable situation right now. An older married women (who is overweight) said she had “a crush on me” last week. I’m trying to pass it off as innocuous but a part of is very uncomfortable. If she keeps it up then I am going to have to tactfully tell her I’m not interested. But I am not going to tell her I am not interested because she’s old and fat. I know that would destroy her self esteem (although she shouldn’t be telling other men she’s interested in them when she’s married).

[HappyWoman34]

If that’s the case, then society is becoming more sexist towards men. I noticed that there’s a show on called f boy island, which I thought that they’d get crucified for making the same remarks about women. But absolutely, you should have as much right as anyone else to admit what you’re not attracted to and if things have really changed that much since I was young, then you’re right. It’s offensive and sexist towards men.

[HappyWoman34]

I apologise. I misunderstood.

[Opinion Owner]

@HappyWoman34 well if we are going to have a more “equal” society then it’s a two way street. I think some women get this but too many don’t.

For example about 4 years ago a female director of my company did a product presentation where she showed a picture of one of the male account directors and said “we choose Joey because he is the best looking male AD on the team”. People including myself laughed in the moment. But later that day I couldn’t help but thinking how that would of went down if a male director said the exact same thing about a female employee. No doubt his ass would have been in hot water with HR.

And yet I recently was mandated to take “DEI training” for my company. They went over sexual harassment and every single example was men harassing women in the workplace.

Anyway men would be a lot more opened minded to feminism if these women could own up to sometimes being wrong. But they think that “admitting fault means admitting defeat”. THAT is what I have a problem with.

[HappyWoman34]

Fair enough. Some women sexually harass men, too, I’d say. They should teach women the same things they teach men about it.

[Opinion Owner]

@HappyWoman34 thanks for hearing me out. I know that not all women are bad by the way. But either I’m crazy or modern society thinks that harming men is “good and essential” for equality.

However when men fail then women will ultimately fail. We are bound for humanity.

[PizzaDaddyo]

Dat Stank! Bad breath, gross pits and feet! I feel bad for some ladies out there that have to deal with a dudes nasty ass Oders. When it comes to odors, the older the owner the more Oder the Oder. So if your mans stinks now get used to it sis, that stank is for life. Some dudes have the worst breath or BO so bad I like remember them for it. This guy I used to work with would never wear deodorant. He would apologize randomly all the time and then right when I would say it’s all good I would have an odor attack. He’ll be doing something with his arms up and he’ll be like, “my bad.”, out of the blue; not knowing what he’s talking about. Then instantly start coughing out the word, “what?” *cough *cough

[Rosexøxø]

LMAOO THATS HILARIOUS. I wish I could’ve witnessed that 😆😭😂

You described it perfectly from what I can tell! Lmao forever

[HappyWoman34]

Prominent Adam’s apple, short, moon face, too skinny, too fat and bald. Close set eyes, prominent double chin, big nose, piggy nostrils, squashy butt. Just being generally unattractive. I’m not saying all my dates are hot guys, some are cute or ordinary looking. Or have a gut or are a bit too skinny. But I’m no supermodel myself. As a mildly pretty woman, I feel that I can’t expect all model types, but I and basically all other women can have some standards. If no one measures up to these expectations that I have a spark with, then I’d rather stay single than settle. That includes hotties I can have that are idiots or arseholes.

[CoolCatMar1]

Now i am afraid of whta i ask for lol

[NotTacocaT6969]

If he can’t shut up about how good he thinks he looks.


Once had a crush on a really attractive guy.


The more I hung out with him, the more I caught him pointing out how hot women think he is.


No women ever said anything to him…he was just making stuff up.


Made him get less and less attractive in my eyes until he looked like a creeper.

[KrakenAttackin]

But you still had sex with him.

[Pinay_ako]

When he all talks about is how much he makes and what he bought and how rich he is 🙄. Sometimes how big he is. Like shut up. Nobody gives a fuck

[SoIcyGang]

Lol I can't even imagine knowing someone like that. Surely this kind of man is more rare?

[Pinay_ako]

@SoIcyGang 🤣 they’re a few that I know. And it’s annoying

[Unit1]

being outside the top 20% of men 😁

Women either love a man or they don't. Its that simple.

No, being 6 feet doesn't mean she loves him. She "loves" him for his height as much as gold diggers "love" rich men for their personality.

[Potteplante]

Hairy toes/feet. I hate feet in general - add hair to them and no thank you.

I just got the chills thinking about it.

[Pixiebih]

Lol what?

[4ngelic]

an ugly face, furry back or butt, unibrow, moles with hair in them.., micro mini dick, a deformity of some type (like two fingers), persistent flakey dandruff, really long noseairs, big belly

[Pixiebih]

No fat werewolf please

[provokeesmokee]

Learned helplessness.

Being unable to do shit for yourself isn't endearing. It's being a manchild.

[DizzyDesii]

Certain noses, eyes too far apart, excessive facial or body hair, extremely crooked teeth, lips that are too big/thin, odd looking fingers, unappealing genitals, feminine wardrobe

[DizzyDesii]

The nose being the main one… witchy looking noses, hawkish looking noses… piggish looking noses… broken looking noses

[FreyaRed]

Not looking like young Alain Delon or young Marlon Brando. XD
I'm kidding, it's weird face proportions and high disturbances of face symmetry I find repulsive and dysgenic.

[Nikki1989]

Shaved arms, legs, and other body parts. If I wanted a woman, I would date one.

[RingOfFire]

AMEN! 😎

[Rosexøxø]

Amen

[CoolCatMar1]

I actually like this on some men hahhaa

[TrueConfection]

Bad hygiene

Anything drug related

Anything gang related

Morbid obesity

Having "woke" ideologies

[Simslover92]

A big hairy mole on his face. I have yet to see a guy with that feature and hope to never do.

[Rosexøxø]

😭😂

[MementoMori777]

Spectating

[EmyyWolf]

STFU LOL🖕

[MementoMori777]

😂😂

[rienna888]

Being cheap, as in making sure everything is 50/50 or always worried about losing out. Making sure the girl is paying a bit more. I had an ex like that.

[Spongebobssocks]

A criminal record

Physical feature:

A vagina

[Anonymous]

Shaved bodies, so prickly against my soft skin 🌵 no thank you.

lack of confidence, I m mostly ok with how most men look it’s the confidence that attracts me so yeah.

[LovingLoverReturned]

Big belly... a bit if fat is fine... and thin eyebrows

[LovingLoverReturned]

Assuming you mean physical features... full lips can look attractive but I prefer thin bit it's definitely not the most unattractive feature

[LovingLoverReturned]

No body hair is also unattractive

[LovingLoverReturned]

Body including face

[BlissfullyCurSed]

If he looks like me, prolly, it is a turn-off for many. 🤣🤣🤣

[jennifer_bloom]

My favourite feature on a man is usually the eye brows and the flat stomach.

[linka_pat307]

I think everyone has different appearance that look good on them, same with men, some look good with beards and others without...

[DermalPunch]

Flabby belly and no muscle tone. I just can't.

[sheenagwapa]

for me it's more of the character like if yoy are mean and merciless