I think for men and women, being slim just accentuates your facial and body features. Particularly the face. Being overweight masks what your face actually looks like because there is a layer of fat all around. That's why if you really want to know what your face looks like, you need to get your body fat % down low enough.
But societally as well, being slim sends a message of healthiness, self-care, and discipline; all positive characteristics.
@HiveBee there are “activists” particularly women in the fat acceptance movement who believe they can literally change and manipulate male dating preferences.
Some guys like heavier women. That’s great. Good for them. But I am really fed up with women shaming men who don’t feel attracted to that. Like you said “We know INSTANTLY whether a woman is sexy or not. There is zero”. in other words attraction is NOT a choice.
But I am really fed up with women who want to argue that male dating preferences are “socially” crested or some complete nonsense. It’s not “discrimination” if we don’t feel physically attracted to someone. To argue otherwise is ridiculous.
You are correct but I will help you to be even more correct.
I'm reality, these feminist activists and nut cases are the bottom of the intellectual barrel.
In reality all of that stuff is rooted in intellectual feminism. And like 95% of intellectual feminists are communists. The other 5% being "liberal" feminists which are basically pariahs in feminism for supporting a free market society which is obviously pure evil for a communist.
Anyways, so these intellectual feminists wish to literally control the content of the human mind and the concepts which are able to be understood.
For example intellectual feminism believes that GENDER is a TOOL which MEN use in order to oppress women.
The nature of said oppression, is rooted in the fact that men are larger and more physically powerful than women.
Feminism wishes to abolish the CONCEPT of male physical power superiority over women. Even though it is a fact of reality, the ideal society would not even have a concept for physical power especially in relation to women.
So society would have to be engineered from the bottom up. They have to control what people SPEAK so that concepts that feminists don't like, such as male physical power, don't get propagated into people's minds.
You control what they say, and you can control what they THINK and also, what they FEEL.
Also feminists believe that ALL preferences are purely socially constructed.
There are many theories of human sexuality. One theory that isn't that popular but it's still relevant, is that ALL people are BISEXUAL. And the only reason anyone is heterosexual today, is due to the patriarchy which is rooted in male physical power.
There are other theories on the true nature of human sexuality. All of really just communist morality injected into empirical science.
They are not discovering the true nature of human sexuality but developing a system of mind control which will result in a perfect communist Utopia where all people believe the same things because their beliefs have been shaped by a controlled system of ideas.
Well it’s much better than super fat. When she gets older and her metabolism slows down she will likely still be thin.
But this doesn’t mean I (or most guys) want women to be anorexic. I mostly care if she puts in an honest and consistent effort to diet healthy and exercise regularly.
I do know there are some heavy set women who do both above. There is something in the way they carry themselves that shows they exercise and take care of their bodies. That in itself is attractive even if they have some extra girth.
But overweight women who put little/no effort into physically exercise nor diet properly than are crybabies about “fat shaming” because they get little/no attention from men get little sympathy from me. Yes genetics plays a role but that doesn’t give you an excuse to be lazy.
Plus women judge men all the time for attributes men have zero control over namely height. At least if your overweight you can do something about it. But if your short then tough luck.
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Because they want to fuck a skeleton with tits, like a rattling ribcage is the ultimate aphrodisiac. It's like trying to karate chop a feather, it has no substance, no power, no oomph! But hey, to each their own, some dudes like a girl with bones poking out like a poorly wrapped present. Personally, I prefer a woman with curves like a winding river, something to hold onto while I give her the ol' one-two thrustaroo. I mean, who wants to cuddle up to a bag of bones? Might as well stick your dick in a xylophone for all the pleasure you'd get outta that.
Now I will have to send a request to my favorite moderator @wilmareportu, is the question "Why is being super skinny considered attractive on women?
Obviously her face is super hot. But her skinny arms and legs just aren't. What's with the thigh gap obsession?
I would like to address a recent comment made by an individual who has posed the question, "Why is being super skinny considered attractive on women?" This question is not only inappropriate and offensive, but it also promotes negative body image and unrealistic beauty standards for women. As a responsible netizen who values treating others with respect, I feel compelled to report this individual for this harmful comment.
@WilmaReportu My name is dildophobe, a FecalDong's disciple and I'm here to bring some fucking justice to this conversation.
You want to talk about skinny bitches? Well let me tell you, nothing beats a pair of skinny legs wrapped around your head while you're pounding her pussy like it's the goddamn drums at Woodstock.
But seriously, being super skinny isn't the only thing that makes a woman attractive. There's plenty of fat chicks out there who can suck a dick like they're trying to win a medal in the Olympics. And don't even get me started on those thick thighs and big asses. Goddamn, now that's what I call a real meal.
So, to the person who asked why being super skinny is considered attractive on women, I say this: shut your fucking mouth and go jack off to something other than fucking Instagram models. Real women come in all shapes and sizes, and they're all fucking beautiful.
In light of this incident, I feel compelled to report the individual responsible for the insulting comment. By promoting empathy, understanding, and respectful communication, we can create a healthier digital space for all.
I'm not sure. Maybe some men like it because the smaller the physique, the more alpha-male they feel next to her. It does look good on some girls who are naturally petite, but I know it's not for me. My body has always been curvy and it's just a struggle if I go above or below that. When I was thin I felt tired, cold and weak all the time.
Depending on your demographic, some cultures do find leaner/slimmer women to be attractive because it is associated with being healthy and discipline. Particularly in Asia (especially SEA and East Asia), this figure is seen as desirable by most people though there would be some exceptions.
No clue. I know when I was underweight, some people thought I was healthy when I definitely knew I wasn't. But of course, if you mean skinny as in the healthy type of way, then I guess that's why people like it. People like seeing others healthy and happy.
They're likely to have more energy, be more mobile, obviously not preganant, more likely to have a pleasant demeanor. If people are going to skinny shame, be prepared to be fat shamed. I health shame the both of them if that's compromised, I'd want the same for me.
Actually they aren't. Once you get below a certain bodyfat percentage you have less energy. Guys 10% boyfriend and below often have trouble getting an erection
@Deserter2 Actually they are. Getting below a certain percentage of body fat % that breaches into anorexia would breech that threshold. I tried to imply that with “health shame”.
Speak for yourself. That % threshold for guys is NOT at 10%. I bet you’re unaware Olympic athletes fuck like jack rabbits at the hotels they stay in for events. Contraceptive sales tend to spike wherever they go.
No, around 15% is most healthy for men. The equivelant for women is a bit higher since they carry more fat. When you're around 10% you can't pack on as much muscle without roids. When bodybuilders and other athlethes aren't training they don't stay 10% boyfriend or lower. They'll tell you, it isn't feasable. It's just aesthetics
Without roids? I was below 10% at peak condition, my guy. This is what I found: www.bjjee.com/.../ As far as I can tell in this article, at 5% is when problems start to arise. That’s accompanied with other problems like excessive bleeding. There are also plenty of articles on obesity and belly fat causing ED.
I think it wise to address the low hanging fruit of obesity before worrying about 10% body fat guys.
No, they do. Plenty of body builders and other athlethes have said so. You're deflecting again to fat people. I never argued fat is more healthy than skinny. Do you have fucking brain rot?
Dude, you’re likely talking about body builders pumping their bodies full of steroids which causes hormonal imbalances and direct ED problems. Who are these other athletes you speak of? I already told you I’ve been below 10% and my dick used to get sore from how long my natural involuntary erections would last. That’s why I think you’re full of shit making blanket statements.
No, they don't actually. As someone who had an eating disorder, I can tell you we don't have energy. We survive on caffeine. And our body is constantly in pain
Super skinny no. I like it average 🙂. Because I am myself that way in looks. I can't expect too much about it. I think it is a blessing to find a good person otherwise it's not something we can do.
Be grateful for your partner the way they look. Encourage them to care for their body and exercise but don't hate them if they are not very beautiful. God may make them beautiful but they might have character issues or be bossy and things like that
Unfortunately it is just society. Models are thin, ballerinas are thin etc. I guess I makes us more fragile or feminine or whatever. But all it does is give us body issues, mental health issues etc.
I like food too much to be that skinny 😅 However, that’s how it goes in the modeling industry. They have requirements on what they want you to look like.
You have never seen a skinny Sengalese or Sudanese girl. Or a skinny Caribbean woman. They are petite like this Beer girl but with actual definition. Amazing!
I don’t understand the thigh gap obsession either, and I agree that it’s possible to be too skinny. I love them thin. (Not skinny, but less than average.)
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