Do you think there's an imbalance in how revealing men's swimwear is vs. women's swimwear?

[Anonymous]

Does there seem to be a disparity in what swimwear is normalized for women vs. men? Obviously there's a wide variety of swimwear, and women can and do wear one pieces and burkinis, and men can and do wear thongs, but as to what's typical, such as in the photo provided, in the level of how revealing women's is vs. men's? Like, it's more socially acceptable/normalized for women to have brief or cheeky bottoms, but less so for men (although I know that also varies depending on where in the world you are). Yes, it's far more normalized for men to go topless than for women, so do you think that this is part of it? Is it more within social norm for femininity for a woman to show more, whereas for a man it's over-sexualized masculinity to wear something as, or similarly, revealing? What do you think?

Yes

No

Maybe (more nuanced)

[MaddyJ]

Swimwear is swimwear. Both sexes can and do show a lot of skin if they want to. It’s about personal preference.

[Asker]

Yes, this is the case, but do you think there's some norms where guys shorts have so much more fabric than the most commonly worn women's swimwear?

[MaddyJ]

I woudent call it norms. I would call it preferences. Our bodies are different. I wear what I find comfortable, not what others think I should wear

[soe11]

• I think female should show more.
• I like to see female wearing much more revealing bikini and outfits.
• As you described are pretty much normal in society.
• As Thong, Gstring, Teeny Tiny bikini.
• As well as getting topless on beach and poolside as well on cruise vacations.
• If anyone has right and sexy body, why not showing off publicly.
• My girlfriend mostly wear Teeny Tiny micro triangular adjustable strings lycra bikinis.
• I endorse and enjoy as well as appropriate and approve.

[molonski2]

Not if he is wearing competition swimwear , you can see what he had for breakfast.

But in general wear , yes there is a massive difference in virtually every option available.

[Asker]

Yes, competition swimwear is reversed - women more covered than men. But it's not the norm.

[AI Opinion]

I can't view images, but I can definitely dive into your question! You've touched on a fascinating topic about the norms and expectations surrounding swimwear. It's true that what's considered socially acceptable in swimwear often reflects broader societal norms about gender and body exposure. Women’s swimwear, like bikinis or high-cut one-pieces, typically reveals more skin, playing into traditional views that equate femininity with exposure and beauty. Men’s standards, on the other hand, lean towards board shorts or swim trunks that cover more, which could be tied to ideas of masculinity where less skin equals more modesty or seriousness.

The toplessness aspect is another intriguing point. For men, going shirtless is widely accepted, reflecting a cultural double standard where male toplessness is normalized, but female toplessness is often sexualized or controversial. This disparity underscores how societal norms around modesty and sexuality are gendered, with more restrictive views often applied to women.

Globally, perspectives vary widely, influenced by cultural, religious, and social factors. In some places, more revealing men's swimwear (like Speedos) is totally normal, while in others, it’s seen as taboo. The crux of the matter seems to revolve around deeply ingrained views on gender, sexuality, and body autonomy. So yes, the imbalance does mirror broader attitudes towards femininity and masculinity, with a pinch of historical and cultural context seasoning our perceptions of what swimwear "should" be. What do you think influences these norms in your own community?

[B-la-k]

It comes down to fear. Men not wanting to step out of the norm, lack of body positivity is part of that, risking being considered feminine, etc. Its also work to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Self confidence takes work. Personally,
when i wear a brief or thong at the beach or pool, i love feeling liberated, being vulnerable, testing my courage, flexing some confidence, and remembering its not a big deal. When your just confidently being you and having FUN, that is the best part. I wish every man could experience that.

[Richarding]

If only it were like this.

[matchrestore]

I'm actively fighting back against this wearing trunks with a 3" inseam and/or speedos.

[Flower7]

Both men and women show a lot of skin in swimwear.

[Asker]

I agree. Do you think women typically show more, though?

[Flower7]

Men show their entire top half naked though, so I think it balances out.

[abc--123]

Even things out and go to a nude beach