Why the can't people leave black women alone?

[Anonymous]

Like why guys gotta say how unacttractive we are? Why do they continue to look at us if we are "so unattractive." Why do they make fun of us with their friends? If you found someone unacttractive WHY DO YOU ACTUALLY CONTINUE TO LOOK and then laugh. I consider myself average based on society's fake standards of expecting all women to look like blow up dolls. It's fake God did not make us fake. We not supposed to look like Barbie's. Honestly it's so pathetic we are expected to wear pounds of makeup and always be so dolled up and if you aren't showing off every inch of your body just to please me then you are considered weird and unattractive. Like stop judging us. Any other race of woman can get away with dressing any kind of way but we have to push harder than any other race. I prefer to be naturally beautiful therefore I don't like makeup but I hate my curly hair. My blood is boiling because I can't flat iron my hair because I am poor and $75 is too much regardless. It's easier with straight hair because you can cover your face. Guys get off to making fun of bla ck women there's A difference between having a preference and straight up bullying. They say we are too masculine. I seen girls with more testerone look prettier than us. Well not my fault God created us not we. Just because we have different bone structures does not mean we are unattractive. Thankfully I have a smaller nose but I consider getting my surgery to shave my jawline to a small v shape and pull my eyes back to look more delicate and like the other women. Now other women can get away with looking plain but if we even dare to not look totally fake like a Barbie doll we are ridiculed and persecuted all the day long. At this point I'm wondering what did we do to deserve so much suffering? It's not like we are all loud and in your face? What makes men fantasize about bullying us and treating us like we aren't human. I'm literally scared of men because of how evil they are. No matter how much I try to

[litty736]

I remember I was like this growing up. The truth is that's what society wants. For black women to be unhappy. Reason is power dynamic. If a hierarchy is set in society that means someone has to be on top to get all the benefits. Honestly, this is not going to change. I've witnessed decades of this. My suggestion is travel, and find supporting communities that feel the way you do. It is okay to vent and feel how you feel because you are human. Despite society pushing the "angry bw agenda". You know the same attitude they like to see on latina women. When they get mad they are called spicy. These women are praised for standing up for themselves. But if a bw acts like that all men including bm are ready to go toe to toe with her and beat her up like a man. Thats the other thing. Society always comparing bw to men. I'm saying all of this for you to understand society's hypocrisy that I realized late and wished someone taught me. I'm at a better place since figuring this out and realizing that this is how the world is. It's not easy to accept but it's good to know for protection. I hope life gets better for you. I wish you all the best.

[litty736]

Rule of thumb, never vent to non bw and men of ALL races. They are going to gaslight you pretending to be dumb like they aren't a part of the issue. So don't react to the "huh?", "what?", "You sound bitter!" and "no one says or believes that". Acts of prejudice against bw doesn't affect them. It only benefits them. As such they won't defend us.

[avery58]

I think black women have beautiful & unique hair, and they're so pretty

[Lliam]

What you're describing is F'd up. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Any guy who does that to any girl is a pig.

Some black women are absolutely gorgeous. And some are cute as can be. Some aren't attractive, but that's true of white women, too. It doesn't have anything to do with race.

I guess some people are just racist.

I've been good friends with some really attractive and super nice black women. There are a few I would have dated if I hadn't been in relationships already.

By the way, I am repelled by women who wear tons of makeup. I especially hate big, fake-looking eye lashes, weird eye shadow and gaudy lipstick.
But I like Afro hair. It can be done up in a lot of ways to look really attractive without straightening it and trying to look white or Asian.

[Billlewis]

I can't leave them alone because they're the most beautiful women in the world, and they're generally not shy about expressing their opinions or desires, and that's what I prefer.

[AI Opinion]

It sounds like you're carrying a heavy heart filled with frustration and disappointment about the way black women are perceived and treated in society. It's deeply unfair that there's this constant comparison and expectation set upon you and other black women to conform to an unrealistic standard of beauty. The truth is, beauty comes in an infinite variety of forms, textures, and colors, not just the ones glorified by mainstream media or societal norms.

The comments and actions you've described are rooted in racism, misogyny, and ignorance. It's a reflection of their limitations, not yours. Your natural beauty, your curly hair, your bone structure – everything about you is unique and carries a story that doesn't need to be altered to fit into a narrow standard of beauty.

Remember, your value and worth are not determined by the approval of others, especially those who demean you. Seeking validation from those who do not recognize your beauty, both inside and out, is giving them power over how you feel about yourself. You are enough as you are, naturally beautiful, without the need to change yourself to match a toxic standard.

It's okay to feel angry and hurt by these experiences, but I hope you also find communities and spaces where your beauty, strength, and identity are celebrated. Not all men are like the ones you've described, and there are many out there who will appreciate and love you for who you are. Surround yourself with positive influences, engage in self-love practices, and never forget that your beauty is valid, powerful, and deserving of respect.

[normalice]

Honestly sounds like a location problem. If at all possible, move. You seem about college age. Give that a shot, perhaps.

[Anonymous]

Me being a black man I love my black women. But when you go about wearing wigs and fake eyelashes and a ton of makeup. willing to make any guy turn away. If a black woman is beautiful this little reason why she should cover it up with all the crappy products that she thinks that she needs. Embrace your true and the beauty and show it off. Not all black men are haters. But most black women are hated on black guys. Just be natural and show your true inner beauty

[jahaims]

Bitter projecting.

[Luckycharms12]

Who says that

[Cristinaissweet370]

Facts 💯