I'm 5'11, a model and follow fashion trends. I notice a lot of women stare at me a lot. But I can only approach some cos I'm still shy. Even though my job is to project confidence. When I'm well dressed, I notice women staring at me, even older ones but they don't approach. Women only approach me when I'm looking okay not too different from other people maybe just boat shoes, pants and a shirt. When I go out with my friends, they only approach my other less good looking friends, I've spent a long time working on my looks, style and body language so I can get a girlfriend but I'm intimidating them. Women please tell me if good looking and well dressed men intimidate you. Thanks
Do good looking and well dressed men intimidate women?
What Girls Said 6
Hell yea lol. But I won't ever approach a man anyway, too shy.0
They probably stare because they find you very attractive. Women are just as scared as men when they want to approach someone. I can't tell you how many times I never talked to a guy because I was scared he would just blow me off.0
No, they don't.
I LOVE good looking, well dressed men.0
good looking- yes
what you are facing is exactly some women are going through too0
You can't really ask that. We're all different. I never ask guys out. If I see a guy I like I draw into myself and try to be as invisible as possible. I've never been asked out by one of those guys either. I think if I was dating a hot guy I'd spend the first month just staring dumbly at his hot face and I'm far from ugly myself just never had a hottie.1
What Guys Said 2
"I met my boyfriend on the Internet, he is a French model". "Uuuuhhhh Bon Jour?"2
YES, I know exactly how you feel. Among my close friends, I'm the only one who I feel ever takes a lot of time to put himself together. I've been told by many people, guys and girls, that I'm handsome, etc, etc. I'm not at all cocky or arrogant, my friends would say that I'm the exact opposite. I don't picture myself as that "type" of guy when I go out, I just don't fit the personality at all.
So recently, I bought some new clothes and I think they're very form fitting/stylish, definitely something I'd see out of a men's magazine or something. But I bought it because I really liked how it looked on me. I'm not a model or anything, but I figure it's time to get some new clothes that make me look more serious than a typical college student. And all the time I can feel people staring at me, a lot of the time, girls. I always try to smile and be approachable but there is definitely a huge difference when I go out wearing jeans and a hoodie. When I wear really casual clothes, people tend to view me as more approachable. I think it's just because when you wear clothes that are more comfortable than stylish, people see you as more approachable and do a lot less judging of your character. They don't see you as a serious person or someone who looks like they always have girls crawling all over them. I think that's the biggest difference.
I think its the same reason why girls complain that they can't ever get a good guy. They try too hard. They get all dressed up and put loads of makeup on and make themselves look overdressed for the occasion. There are so many girls like this that I see around campus. And my immediate thought is that they probably get flirted with non stop and that they have really really high standards because of that!0
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