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"We don't get approached anywhere near as often as people think.""
I still don't believe that. It's just not possible. There are plenty of thirsty/arrogant/cocky guys who just aren't afraid.
I always see ugly dudes with beautiful women. Its because they had the guts to approach her and put in the work to win her heart.
Im always a but suspicious of these stories , sure we also hear of the odd immigrant who arrives with nothing and ends up a multiple millionaire. But we also must remember the shedload who arrive with nothing and end up with just enough to exist.
Hot girls often have a higher opinion about themselves than other girls or guys have about them.
Only (some) older men may accept that.
Good points - Yeah you should not be intimidated by anyone
So you two sat alone for 1.5hrs just just for her to prove a point? I would have believed it after 30 minutes. lol
what's the point of going after hot girls. Unless you're a hot guy, you don't have a chance anyways (talking about sex, not that dating yada yada)
I don't know about this law of averages you speak of. Hot girls get approached a lot from my experience. I can't approach a hot girl with my looks.
It's really the people they're around of that intimidates me more than her attractiveness.
Holy shit bro nice i totally agree man cool stuff. 👍
So I shouldn't be deathly afraid to talk to the pretty girl at school? You're blowin' my mind!
if you could only be for a second, in those bimbos' empty heads, and witnessed the insecurities and bullshit bargain they carry you'd feel pitty for them, not intimidation... .
Guys just go up to these hot girls and grab them by the pussy!
nah, i prefer the average girl. I'm way too intimidated to go up to those hot girls. I rather look and wonder what might be. Urgh, it sucks being a dude
Or u could just grow some balls and go talk to them π
@Phoebstar7 easier said than done
@Phoebstar7 Some things are nice to look and see on others, but you wouldn't really want it for yourself. Have you ever got that feeling? It's kinda like that.
Indeed , if the girls is so hot and wants an average joe , what's wrong with her approaching joe and finding out or is she too busy admiring herself in the mirror?
Dude not all hot girls are like that... some can be self centred but I know a lot of girls who are really good looking and they're really nice
#Phoebstar7 "Or u could just grow some balls and go talk to them" - ain't life great when you can just sit on your backside and wait for guys to come falling at your feet. This is why i rather not even approach anymore. You girls think we can just come up like we have some inbuilt confidence. Try approaching us and see how intimidating it is.
Ok u got me in that oneπ , I guess guys fear rejection as much as girls do (And the "grow some balls comment" was a joke.)
#Phoebstar7 Thanks, it's okay. It is intimidating. I have approached girls before and will continue to do so, but it would help if you girls just acknowledged that it is really difficult to approach the girls we like. I have been rejected many times before so it does make it difficult. It is hard girls, just appreciate when we do :)
Then what do u suggest... that girls make an effort to encourage guys more or just straight up approach them and tell them they find them attractive? I know for me as a girl I would find that really arkward
@Phoebstar7 Honestly if girls want to approach a guy, they are more than welcome. All i'm saying that in my experiences approaching girls, most of them times girls were pretty quick to say something nasty. Approaching is an awkward thing for most people, so if guys do approach girls, it would be nice if girls were a bit kinder in their words. I think most guys today have had a tough time approaching women and that is why many guys just don't bother anymore.
And those girls they approach are probably only the good looking ones, who get approached all the time, and are annoyed by it, so they've had enough of kind words to say, and just get pissed off.
And then there is the rest of women who never get approached because of the bad experience that guys had with the popular ones.
i think it's ok for men to be a little intimidated by women. it's good because a lot of the times, when a person is scared of something, it makes them perform better
Ugly men need not bother... it'll only lead to humiliation and regret
Lol why'd you regret approaching a woman? The worst thing that can happen is a rejection. You're afraid of your ego being crushed
Honestly one of the best posts I've read on here. I want to print this out and hang it up at my college. You're awesome!
What of she clearly has a lot of friends, and you don't have any?
OMG Marisa Tomei is just striking isn't she?
Did you meet a lot of hot girls who were bitches?
omG i have that problem...*ahm* *ahm* 😂😂