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Why I Gave Up Talking to Women (Page 4)
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You just sound bitter. Girls aren't really that bad
For a guy who is physically attractive, it may not be bad
@myTake Owner thats a myth. there are handsome men with zero success. they are betas. or too broken since childhood. or too strict due to beliefs.
As a guy who has 4 sisters. They're bad.
@ayylamo I have 3... They're annoying, but I won't be dating them obviously. I've met some amazing girls
This take, and ones like it, are pathetic.
And why is that? Because me and other men have had terrible experiences with women?
No, because you've given up.
Why would I not give u?
Up**
Because you perservere, you're under 18 for God's sake, your adult life hasn't even begun.
I don't need to explain why giving up is pathetic, I mean, come on. Pick yourself up, and be strong! Not ALL women are bad!
You're the same age as me. My adult life doesn't need to begin for me to see what the future beholds.
I know, my adult life hasn't begun either.
You're dodging what I'm saying. I know a lost cause when I see one.
Good luck with everything.
It's a joke. But in all seriousness it was directed towards you man. You need to change your attitude and your mindset. Giving up is real failure and is a dumb decision on your part. Sorry for calling you dumb luci, but these kind of takes are just gonna get you a buch of responses you don't want to hear. Man up and change your mindset. There are cool girls out there, don't generalize.
@Luci92 you're not helping his worldview by calling his take pathetic. It just reinforces what he already believes.
Women aren't designed to care about the male gender which is why the female users joke about your suffering.
Pretty fucked up isn't it?
Yeah it is pretty fucked up, but guys do it too.
Yo guess what, no one gives a f about another whiny wimp ass male. You will not acquire any status or dream job with that attitude, let alone woman.
You obviously do enough to care to comment.
I do, that's why i'm telling you to man up. I was once in your place.
I know myself and 1 out of 1000 like me. slim chance... the rest of the population go for the average jackass bad guy, because of the brainwashing tv and music you women tend to get off on. it plays with your mind
That's true, girls want only good looking men, with lots of money, and witty pick-up lines (talking skills). Guys who don't have it, are condemned to being single/virgins (unless they want to go to the prostitute).
You have a lot of growing up to do bro. Give it time, you're still young.
I gave up on western girls and only find dates in 3rd world countries with pretty olive skinned feminine beauties.
Those women are a dime in a dozen in the US
And that's good. If you think so lowly of women your better off not talking to them.
Yes, because they automatically think so lowly of me without me saying anything.
Because you think they will. I find that people rarely disappoint. Outlook is everything.
If you treat people like criminals chances are they will act like it. If you think women won't like you then chances are they won't. If go into a job interview already thinking you won't get it chances are you won't. It's not that difficult of a concept to get.
But if you get your hopes up for nothing then that would suck
You do realize that that is something you have control over right? And what are you getting your hopes up over? What is it that you want? Not the polite answer but the real one.
Everyone lets the mind do things or at least doesn't stop it so they see life going one way it doesn't and EVERYONE has to adjust. EVERYONE.
It's not really something you have control over. You cannot control a girl to like you. If you are bron ugly l, then you cannot control that and so you cannot get the girl. What I want is an amazingly attractive girl who I can treat like a princess and can treat me like her prince.
Well if you think you have no control then you don't sit and let life happen and see how far you get.. goodluck!
You gave up and you still 17?
You should be more motivated and work on these factors you mentioned, if you want to fit in with these chicks around you.
Hit the gym is your first step
AWALT (All women are like that) is a term us men use in the red pill philosophy.
Do you want to talk about it?
There is nothing to talk about. It's already written in stone.
No, only on an electronic device:)
He meant it in a figurative manner but okay 😂
@QooLipBite i know
tapping out isn't a bad decision dude. just like the famous quote in war games, "the only way to win is not to play"
This is retarded.
You only say it's retarded because you know it's true. Otherwise you would of provided an explanation
It's definitely not true. If someone values physical appearance then let them value physical appearance. I'm pretty sure you don't want a girlfriend you find absolutely repulsive do you? Everyone cares about attractiveness to some degree. As for me, I think most people are attractive and very few people are ugly. If someone's "ugly" it's probably from something severe. Most people have something attractive about them.
As for language I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I don't communicate in hieroglyphics it's very easy to understand what I mean.
And for your third point status only matters in the sense of I'm not dating some scum bag loser criminal type of guy. I want someone on the same level or better than myself. Not having the same values is a big issue in a relationship. I make more money than my boyfriend, I helped him get his first job, I have a nicer car than he does and I freaking love him with all of my soul. Not all women are gold diggers dude.
If you are physically unattractive, does that mean a girl should toss you aside? Of course not. That is what happens to guys guys who aren't attractive.
You may think you're to the point but you aren't. Do you use body language when you talk? If you do, you most likely give off mixed signals because almost guys do not understand a women's body language
I didn't necessarily say that all women were gold diggers, but I said that it did influenced their decision. Status is definatly a decision maker when it comes to women, you don't have to be a complete gold digger to be attracted to someone with a higher status
Okay, well clearly your mind is set which is perfectly fine. Don't pursue relationships with women anymore. While it is a great loss for the entire female sex, we shall respect your decision and tearfully press on.
@Relentless_Hippie I have to say that there have been girls who called me a creep just due to their likes of outer appearance.
@scooogy And there's guys who call girls ugly, and weird, and disgusting etc based off of their appearances as well. Me personally, I think you're an attractive person. Beauty is subjective, not everybody has the same views on what is beautiful. My point still stands that the asker has ignored. Even he himself wouldn't want anything to do with a woman he thought was hideously ugly. People can't get mad at other people for what they consider attractive. Nobody wants to date someone they have zero attraction to whatsoever. Not even you.
A study showed 78 percent of single women thought steady employment was the most important thing for their partner, above anything else, while only 46 percent of men thought it was. As soon as you tell a women you are unemployed and not studying they will instantly lose interest, even if you are good-looking. But if you add that you are actively searching or may be awaiting some their interest might come back again, see? Women reeealy love when their partner have good economy so they can shop extra and spend more money in town with their friends, knowing they have a "second bank" that have already helped them with bills and such. This is really true and women won't admit this.
But don't worry I'm not saying all women, there are some really truly amazing women which we guys surely respect and desire, they are just getting harder to find these days. Many guys that are unsuccessful with women often have very high views on them, they just feel unappreciated even if they are good men.
@Relentless_Hippie but as you can see in your own answer to this, with guys it's only about their appearance and NOT about their character.
@scooogy How is that anywhere in my answer? Please point that out. A lot of the time your character plays a big role in someone's interest in you but just because appearance does as well doens't mean that's a bad thing. It's not all about appearance but if someone thinks someone is so gross that they want to vomit then look for somebody else who would value their looks as well as their heart. You just ignored the very real reality too. You ALSO care about appearance and you would NEVER want to be with someone you thought was repulsive. So if that's okay with you why isn't okay for anyone else?
@Relentless_Hippie "And there's guys who call girls ugly, and weird, and disgusting etc" - what of these would target on the character of a girl?
@Relentless_Hippie well, maybe in the experience I refer to, she was rather immature, by first approaching me and later, when I tried to react on it, calling me a "creep" for "stalking" her. Maybe, like @Inari said, she wasn't mature yet.
@scooogy You know what. You're just going to misread everything I write here so believe what you want. I'm not here to change your thoughts, so keep feeling how you feel I won't stop you.
@realgrrrl I know you said not all women are this way, but I must answer in reference to myself and for other women who think like me. As I've stated before I have always made more money than my boyfriend, I helped him get his first job and I am more established than he is. I'm in a different place in my life but I love him. I respect him, and I value him like no other person. He is in school yes, but if he were someone I didn't know or just some random individual who not only didn't have a job, wasn't in school but also wasn't looking tells me they have no ambition. It's not a matter of me wanting to spend someone's money. I have my own money to spend. It's that I'm a responsible adult and I want someone in the same place as I am. I want to ensure my children have a good life.
@scooogy And maybe she wasn't mature. Because you're not ugly and you don't look creepy.
@Relentless_Hippie and I guess that even an ugly looking guy shouldn't be considered creepy, right?
@scooogy Creepy people are creepy people. If someone happens to be creepy and "ugly" then that's just what it is. People creepy exist and have all sorts of physical traits.
Yeah I wouldn't date an unattractive girl, but I be disgusted to be around her. Girls on the other hand think that if they are disgusted by someone then they should not associate themselves with them at all because they are wasting their time.
For me personally besides work friendships I have no business being friends with someone of the opposite sex. I'm in a committed relationship, my boyfriend is the only other man besides family that I need, even if I was single. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who either I rejected or they rejected me. There's simply no point.
i dont talk to them cause 90% are shallow and semiretarded. when you dont worship pussy you are deemed instantly as gay. they are dumb and gossipy and materialistic. nothing i want in my life.
unfortunately they are all around you. unless you become a hermit you'll have to deal with them all day long.
i used to work in a nightmare environment where 150 out of 160 employs were female. it was a phone center. the boss was forcing her boobs on me, married women were flirting and cheating on their husbands with men there etc. the fact that i could see through her shit and never reciprocated their need for attention made them gay shame me and hate me. they conspired against me, but i left on my own will from that helish environment.
even in college girl companies were just shallow sluts talking openly about boys, their sex life and comparing dicks and shit. i went a couple of times to such companies and got sick.
my best friend quit his studies over a harsh breakup and cheating, another became a junkie, another killed himself. they destroy whatever they touch.
God blessed us all with different features friend do not let girls pull you down everybody is handsome and beautiful in he/her own ways
i only agree if you refer to hot girls, but if you can do a compromise and look for average girls they're less horrible
i dont see where ur coming from... i treat girls like a patch of dirt and they crawl all over me... they aren't hard to get they are actually a lot dumber than u think
To give up on ALL girls.. is sad. You basically consider the rest of us heartless.. Sigh.. Because of those girls, the rest of us good ones are thrown to the curve..
Uh because most of you are heartless? The "good ones" are with other dudes. You guys only care about being an object and not having a real relationship.
Literally no one is stopping you...
Good, I didn't expect anyone too i'm just stating why i'm not going to talk to women anymore
Do you honestly think anyone really wanted to know?
Well, if you didn't want to know, you would of ignored this mytake. :)
I didn't actually read it. I came for the comments. Also the xper points. Mama needs another amazon card.
Well, by saying do I think anyone wants to know, obviously people want to know because people are giving feedback instead of these snarky comments.
It's not snarky, it's just the truth.
But it isn't because other people replied with good explanations, so obviously people care enough about the topic.
You obviously missed all the hilarious gifs then...
Another 16 year veteran at life. How endearing :)
And you obviously missed the comments providing good explanations on why I'm right or why I'm wrong.
But have you seen those gifs though. They had me dying 😂😂😂 If you wanna stop talking to women then nobody is stopping you. You're just making the competition easier for other guys and taking another insecure anxious dude out of the gene pool. The only person who is missing out on anything is you.
Why bother with women who were never going to give me the time of day in the first place? I was never competition to anyone. I'm a small 17 year old mixed kid who girls are unattracted to.
Maybe that's true, or maybe it's not. People are always their own worst critic. There might have been some girl that had a secret attraction to you. But I'll guess you'll never find out. Oh well.