How to Get Girls You Think You Can't

[almadafie]

Getting girls isn't really a difficult thing, people talk about leagues and status, and beauty, but attraction is complicated, and it has a mind of it's own, it doesn't matter if the girl is more beautiful or whatever, if you do this right, she will want you!

Let's say you're at a gym, and you are the slim guy, all the other guys have muscles, and there's these girls and you like them, but they just don't look at you at all, try this:

1. Look at one of the girls you like, and suddenly look away, she will notice that if you are not too far, continue this for some days, and do not stare.

2. If you did the first step perfectly, she will start looking at you, and she will probably stare, if she doesn't, she will still look at least until you start looking back, keep looking at her for a second or two, then look away, when she isn't looking.

3. The steps that you have completed will create a fake sense of attraction in her towards you, a fake sense of familiarity, the emotional side of her mind will not see you as a stranger anymore. She will now find a way to get close to you out of curiosity, this is your chance, start a conversation, if she's a fit girl, ask her for exercise advice, if you are more fit than her, give her advice, try and make her laugh during the conversation.

4. Now that you have cracked the second layer, she will think about you during her day, continue steps 1 & 2, she will try and get close to you again, if she doesn't, try and get close to her, and start a conversation, it is necessary that you make her laugh, not too much though. This time talk about general things besides exercising but start the conversation from the topic of exercising, and do not ask her how much she weighs.

5. You have cracked the third layer, now she is comfortable with you, she will say "hi" every day, you are basically her friend now, she is under an average amount of your charm as well. Now is the time to start ignoring her, don't look at her at all, but always respond perfectly if she says, "hi" or something, this will confuse her, high chances she will think she has done something wrong, but since she wouldn't be sure of it, she wouldn't outright ask you, she will try and get close to you again. Have a conversation, make her laugh.

6. Continue ignoring her, and the best would be to try this on other girls as well, it doesn't matter if she knows that you're trying with other girls, if she feels offended, she'll just repress that sensitivity of her, or feel bad about feeling possessive towards you, she will tell herself that she doesn't own you, but the more you talk to other girls, the more she'll want you.

7. Eventually the last layer will crack, and she will ask you for your number, but if she asks you out on a date, simply tell her you don't date, you'd like to be her friend, she will accept. The best thing about this process is that in her mind, she is the one who wanted you, which gives you a lot of power over her.

Note: If a girl says, this wouldn't work on her, it will work on her the best.

[xxxuknownxxx]

i really want to answer this question big ass time and it would take me months to write the answer but seriously... GUYS AND GIRLS if you really want to get a girl that you don't you can't or vise versa for girls... read a book called " Seduction community sucks"

answering this question from what i read in this book seriously " WORK ON YOU DAM SELF LOOK AT THE DAM MIRROR AND BE THE PERSON YOU ARE DREAMING TO BE" and by no effort you will attract the woman of you dream.

this book is not a HOW TO book its full of facts of PUA and all the stuff that i used to do for 5 years wasted my dam time. Yes it would work you can pick a woman maybe have sex but 2nd day trust you will feel like running or if it lasted a week she will be running when knows the real you..

i'd recommend reading this book for guys who really think that there is a magic way to make a girl fall in bed or in love with you.

[Bleh-___-]

Lol except if she's not attracted to you there's nothing you can do and by staring at her everyday she'll think you're a creep.

Also lol @ step 7. Congrats at still being single. You achieved so much.

[almadafie]

Attraction is just science, and this makes you a scientist. And this is just to get in her pants.

[Bleh-___-]

No offense man but if you're unattractive, staring at her every day won't achieve anything except making her think you're a creep. This would work only if she's already attracted to you. Friendzoning happens almost immediately and it's based purely on appearance.
But I do like your hope and optimism.

[almadafie]

I specifically mentioned not to stare.

And this way creates attraction for her towards you, you won't find these ways on YouTube videos and blogs, this is real psychology.

[Bleh-___-]

Ok coming from a family of psychiatrists and a psychology background, I can tell you this doesn't work if she's not attracted to you to begin with. That's the double standard between attractive and unattractive guys. Repeated eye contact with a hot guy will be perceived as exciting and repeated eye contact with an ugly guy will be perceived as creepy and uncomfortable.

[almadafie]

Oh, yeah, your family is now magically all about psychology.
lol *desperation*
I think these tricks will work best on you.

[Bleh-___-]

@chico_brah what do you think, did this guy save all ugly guys from their very single fate? Can 2/10 men now get 11/10 girls with this top secret that's been hidden from us for so long?
And for some reason this guy thinks I'm desperate because my family is a bunch of psychiatrists lmao

[almadafie]

definitely not a 2, a guy who is 5 can get a girl who is a 9 through this

[Bleh-___-]

We'll say a guy that the girl isn't physically attracted to, whatever the rating.

[almadafie]

This will remedy that

[Chico_brah]

You're sort of disregarding all logic here. The fact is that a basement dweller could follow all these steps precisely, but will still fail at picking up some model tier girl. Attraction is a thing and people tend to stay within their own leagues. It's evident all around. Couples are usually on the same level of attractiveness. If she's not physically attracted to you, then you don't stand any shot at all. It pretty much comes down to that.

I also hate looking at approaching women as a science. I'm not a fucking scientist lmao. In the scenario of dating, I'm an attractive guy looking for an attractive girl to vibe with. Approaching women in a sort of generic 7-step plan will never work because every girl and situation is different. That's where wit and social skills come into play.

[almadafie]

@Chico_brah Everything is basically science, attraction is nothing more than simple steps of psychology, you are romanticizing attraction, trying to give it depth where there isn't any, classic pseudo intellectual way to come off as an intellectual.

[RedVulcan]

@almadafie You fool. Thou hast brought down the wrath of Chico upon thee and still thou blasphemeth?
In all seriousness, dating IS NOT A SCIENCE. At the very least, it's not the sterile, objective science you make it out to be. There are no repeatable experiments, there is very, very little objectivity to be found beyond basic attractiveness, and I think you need to back yourself and your "real psychology" up with something.

[scorpioDude]

ouch lol

[RedVulcan]

@scorpioDude I was feeling a bit dramatic lol.

[scorpioDude]

@RedVulcan u lost the battle but not the war!

[Rockmantis]

I don't know, might work if you really enjoy talking about indirect topics such as exercise as you suggest her.

But if it's only an excuse to start a conversation then girls can feel it. Just talk about what you really want to talk about. See how open she is to letting you get to know her.

However, I personally don't like doing it in the gym. I'm there to work out and don't want to waste my time talking to anyone, including hot girls.

[Amandaco]

Right, guys shouldn't pretend they aren't interested in women. That would be gay.

[seryleme]

Or you could just ask her out directly because no other men do that nowadays because they're so pussy whipped instead of doing shit that doesn't work for your inflated ego and dick :)

[MrNameless]

Speak for yourself. How many guys have you asked out? Exactly.

[CactusJuice]

Exactly! Just ask her. Pretty simple stuff. Not sure why people find this concept so difficult. If she says "no", then move on and ask the next girl you like. Rinse and repeat. :)

[unrealisticmormon2]

since you called us pussies , i want to date you, did you see how brave i am now lets date since no man came forward to ask you other than me

[Trollfather]

Yeah too bad every time I ask a girl out I get rejected.

[BrittBratt2416]

You can only get someone if they find you attractive as well. It doesn't matter what you say or do, if a man or woman just isn't attracted to you or feeling your personality then their just not. And there is nothing you can do to change it.

[BrittBratt2416]

Ps. I see Megan Fox has changed a lot lol

[kiddoke]

Whip out your wallet and bring on the bling and it will melt any girls heart. They'all material girls anyway. Nothing lasts forever so enjoy the ride. If u want a wife go to another country and bring a traditional conservative girl who will be a housewife and have kids without demanding the world. Yep barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen while they dote on u whole day through.

[Swiss_Tengu]

wheter you chose it or it was chosen by the system, the girl in the picture is fugly. Wouldn't want to get her even if I had the chance.

[kate5922]

i agree up until refusing a date--girls are sensitive to rejection and when you say no she will hold you in a place that she associates with embarrassment

[MrNameless]

Or just have $$$.

You can have the best personality and not be a creep, but it doesn't guarantee you'll get a very attractive girls, as they usually go for the most attractive and successful guys.

[janette128]

I don't necessarily agree.. Im a model and I honestly love men who are down to earth and just work regular jobs.. for me a smile is what does it and a genuine person, and it's like that for a lot of my friends. The guy i'm seeing works at a grocery store and my best friend whose beautiful her boyfriend is a mechanic. Don't create stereotypes- pretty girls are no different than other girls they just want real love too

[dizmuhjam]

I feel scammed after step 7 X) @Bleh-___-
I wasted my last 3 minutes into this and never get them back.

[laila23]

this is bullshit. Like if I guy I wasn't into were to do this I would think they were really weird.

[YesThis1sJester]

Aww, I was expecting a link to buy his full 8-step from where he tells us the final "secret" step than only he has learned through his years of experience with women just like the one pictured (that he got off Google)... dissapointed :'(

[Anon-ymous1]

Eh, there's a tiny bit of truth to this but if she actually ends up asking you for your number, you say YES and give it to her, you fool.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Oh my god! This is awesome advice and will work every single time, if you're 13...

[proFountain]

perfect. I think the author of this quite understands how a girl's mind works.

[John_Doesnt]

How am I supposed to get a girl when my dick isn't big enough? This take doesn't address that.

[farengo]

seriously i don't thinks this will work, if you hesitate she will think you are not interested, if you like her just go up say hi.

[scooogy]

I'm not interested in the typical ones like the one in the picture actually

[scorpioDude]

I'm not gonna I didn't read everything... I just looked at the girl picture.. she's pretty stoked

[Tomsta]

This sounds like "How to be a player at the gym"

[LetsSucceed]

who cares

[Tomsta]

@LetsSucceed I care because players give the rest of us genuine guys a bad name and players tend to fake genuine in order to get into a womens knickers

[Adidas12]

Amen. Well said.

[jasmienn]

be yourself :)

[HSD_LOVER]

HI
SEXY BITCH