No, You’re Never ‘Too Hot’ to Get Approached

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No, you’re never ‘too hot’ to get approached

‘Being too hot to be approached’ is a bullshit concept and this is coming out of a 10 of out 10 guy. I have seen so many questions and answers on GAG that keep claiming that being ‘too hot’ makes a person more intimidating and that, supposedly, no one approaches extremely attractive people. But being so attractive is not going to make you look intimidating to everyone. Of course, there are going to be a lot of people who are too shy to be around you, but there is always going to be a lot of people who are confident enough to approach the very attractive person. Someone who is just as attractive, or almost just as attractive, is likely to be confident enough to approach you. Even some people who are below your league will take the chance to approach you. It’s like they’re thinking inside their head, “even though this ‘very hot’ person is way out of my league, I’m still going to take that chance to improve the genes of my offspring(s).” Because not everyone has a high, fragile ego that will break if they get rejected.

In my experience, there were girls who were too shy to talk to me and I've had a lot of girls throw themselves at me even though I'm a six foot plus guy who also has a very boring personality. I’ve had tons of girls who have tried to pathetically ‘seduce’ me into dates and one night stands… So for very pretty girls, I highly doubt that being "too pretty" will stop everyone from approaching them. For reasons being: 1. Guys are more likely to approach 2. Guys are more likely to be more optimistic/opportunistic about approaching someone out of their league. 3. Girls are generally seen as less intimidating than guys and if you deny this than you have an IQ below room temperature.

So if you’re thinking that you’re ‘too hot’ and that’s why no one approaches you, then you’re wrong because you aren’t as attractive as you think you are. Being very attractive shouldn’t hurt your chances of getting approached by somebody. And never think that the people you’re attracted to are intimidated by you and/or turned off by any of the generally desirable traits that you have. If you’re not getting approached (or you rarely get approached) it’s probably because 1. you’re below average in looks 2. you’re not going outside your comfort zone to make yourself look available and/or 3. you have some undesirable personality traits and life choices/circumstances/shortcomings.

No, You’re Never ‘Too Hot’ to Get Approached
No, You’re Never ‘Too Hot’ to Get Approached
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