I’ve been with my girlfriend for two years. I fell in love with her but I had major trust issues. I’ve been cheated on in the past, and recently I saw my girlfriend talking to a guy and got really angry about it. So much so that I took off and left the club without her and she had to call an Uber to pick her up. After that I was so furious with her that I ignored several attempts she made to contact me asking why I wasn’t talking to her and what she did wrong. After three weeks, she got tired of trying to fix everything and sent me a goodbye text. She said she’s tired of trying and not getting any results, that obviously I’m not mature enough to be with her and even if I did talk about it now it’s too late. I responded telling her that I saw her talking to the other guy at the club, she said it was a distant cousin she hadn’t seen in years, and they were catching up on extended family news. I felt like an idiot and tried to apologize but she won’t accept my apology because she’s tired of being punished for my exe’s actions. I don’t blame her but now that she’s gone I realize she’s not like my previous ex. I know there’s no chance of ever getting her back but I want to tell you all to never give your partner the silent treatment when mad. It might feel good for a while but sooner or later it can permanently destroy your relationship. If you’re angry with your partner tell them so that they can fix whatever they did and be done with it. If you’re not ready to talk about it right away tell them and then ask if you can talk it over later. Learn from my mistake.
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