Good points here, but what happens, if the girl is in an open relationship and wants to be friends, and wants to have lunch with you, which you planned for already.
It's sometimes just as simple as they aren't attracted to you. We're not all attracted to each other, we don't always get a 'match' with someone we like.
@xyz94 True. And even of OKC says 99.9% match, no need that this is true in reality. I have answered there 2.7k (!) questions and no woman dares to contact me unless I write them first, but only foreigners. Don't stereotype them now, that they want to come into better country only. She doesn't give me that impression!
@xyz94 But she is contacted a lot. She screenshot her block list and sent it to me. Wow! Even after she switched her status to "Seeing someone" (me) she got messages here and there. There were also guys asking her to have sex with when they give her money to do so. She might be broke, but she is not desperate! And wanna know what we both thought hearing it the first time? Porn guy!
3.5 billion you're going to approach? lol such a weird way to put it! Think about the time and effort you waste flipping rocks over, all for somebody who expected you to do all that work in the first place while she waited around. I don't know keep simpin I guess
@Crimson811 I know, its because you guys dont know how to be assertive without using anger. Attractive girls get harassed a lot so they must resort to being bitches
@NewUser19 I was very assertive with a couple of guys, and nice about it, didn't work. I remember telling one of them point blank that I wasn't intersted. He still wouldn't leave me alone. Another gave me his number back in Ferburary, and I still haven't called him. Any idiot could see I wasn't into him.
@NewUser19 I found that unfair to attractive ladies. Wanna hear a sick and sad thing? ----- I was in a boarding house where really bad people live. I was there for a mild reason, being slow on social development and that I loved my computer to much, I was "addicted" to it. Anyway. One day, a young African woman came there (for whatever reason she has to come, she should never have to) and all guys (I can still remember the worst 2 guy's names for 100%: N. J. and T. Z.) turned horny on her. I know they only want sex from her so I felt reall sad already (for her, of course). I later found her and hold her hand for a while and asked "Looks nice, ha?" while looking down on our hand pair. I was then to shy to get (quickly before these cowards) as my girlfriend so they used her for sex pleasure. I was later approached by one (N. J.) and asked if I "want her because she is horny in bed". I refused and answered that I would want her as a girlfriend. He could not understand that and asked back why, then I replied that I would even kiss her. Now it comes hard: He replied: "No kissing them, yuck! They are only there to be fucked." ----- I could even put real-world-existing names in here. But that would violate privacy laws. Yes, I know their full names!
Unless you're a moron then yes you can tell. Like I said, it will so obvious that you won't have to wonder if she's interested. Guys act like they're sooo much smarter than women, yet can't even tell if a woman's interested in them or not. If she's romantically interested in you, then you'll know. No, being nice to someone doesn't count, chances are she's like that towards everyone.
@Crimson811 "being nice to someone doesn't count, chances are she's like that towards everyone." - that's just it right there! That's why we can't tell, because we don't know if you're just nice like that with everyone, or it's because you like us? Just like women often don't know with guys either.
No one (at least not lately). I am quite happy but a friend is having trouble accepting rejection and I offered him this advice. Since I already had it basically written I thought I'd put it out as a my take.
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It's kinda hard when an ex sabotages your ability to pursue someone else but then doesn't talk to you, so you don't know where you stand.
@Dreewskii My ex-wife once said she will destroy my face... on Facebook. Guess what? I'm and my current girlfriend are NOT on FB. How ironic.
Not bad. 😉
Concise.
Good points here, but what happens, if the girl is in an open relationship and wants to be friends, and wants to have lunch with you, which you planned for already.
#3 is the worst, not like they tell you why. So hard to learn from.
It's sometimes just as simple as they aren't attracted to you. We're not all attracted to each other, we don't always get a 'match' with someone we like.
@xyz94 True. And even of OKC says 99.9% match, no need that this is true in reality. I have answered there 2.7k (!) questions and no woman dares to contact me unless I write them first, but only foreigners. Don't stereotype them now, that they want to come into better country only. She doesn't give me that impression!
@xyz94 But she is contacted a lot. She screenshot her block list and sent it to me. Wow! Even after she switched her status to "Seeing someone" (me) she got messages here and there. There were also guys asking her to have sex with when they give her money to do so. She might be broke, but she is not desperate! And wanna know what we both thought hearing it the first time? Porn guy!
If a girl rejects me in a messed up way despite me being respectful in my approach, i have all the room to say something back.
Even a cheetah only lands its prey 40-50% of the time.
Those are some damn good odds watchu talkin about
Move on... she's one in 3.5 billion.
3.5 billion you're going to approach? lol such a weird way to put it! Think about the time and effort you waste flipping rocks over, all for somebody who expected you to do all that work in the first place while she waited around. I don't know keep simpin I guess
As a woman I love this.
Not all ladies are rude ok
Of course not-but some are, for whatever reason. This is just advice to guys to deal with it and not get rude in return if they are.
The only rude ones are the attractive ones
the friendly ones/ door mats are the average-ish looking ones
@NewUser19 Which is a big problem.
They are only rude when the guy won't leave them alone.
@Crimson811 I know, its because you guys dont know how to be assertive without using anger. Attractive girls get harassed a lot so they must resort to being bitches
@NewUser19 I was very assertive with a couple of guys, and nice about it, didn't work. I remember telling one of them point blank that I wasn't intersted. He still wouldn't leave me alone. Another gave me his number back in Ferburary, and I still haven't called him. Any idiot could see I wasn't into him.
@NewUser19 I found that unfair to attractive ladies. Wanna hear a sick and sad thing?
-----
I was in a boarding house where really bad people live. I was there for a mild reason, being slow on social development and that I loved my computer to much, I was "addicted" to it. Anyway. One day, a young African woman came there (for whatever reason she has to come, she should never have to) and all guys (I can still remember the worst 2 guy's names for 100%: N. J. and T. Z.) turned horny on her. I know they only want sex from her so I felt reall sad already (for her, of course). I later found her and hold her hand for a while and asked "Looks nice, ha?" while looking down on our hand pair. I was then to shy to get (quickly before these cowards) as my girlfriend so they used her for sex pleasure. I was later approached by one (N. J.) and asked if I "want her because she is horny in bed". I refused and answered that I would want her as a girlfriend. He could not understand that and asked back why, then I replied that I would even kiss her. Now it comes hard: He replied: "No kissing them, yuck! They are only there to be fucked."
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I could even put real-world-existing names in here. But that would violate privacy laws. Yes, I know their full names!
This is why women should be the ones approaching!
It's not that complicated. If a woman is into you, you will know.
@Crimson811 Unless she says it, no we don't lol. If there's room for doubt, we'll doubt it. Or I do anyway, especially if I like her back.
Unless you're a moron then yes you can tell. Like I said, it will so obvious that you won't have to wonder if she's interested. Guys act like they're sooo much smarter than women, yet can't even tell if a woman's interested in them or not. If she's romantically interested in you, then you'll know. No, being nice to someone doesn't count, chances are she's like that towards everyone.
@Crimson811 Hey, I'm not a woman-hero, still I cannot read your mind and heart. Okay?
@Crimson811 "being nice to someone doesn't count, chances are she's like that towards everyone." - that's just it right there! That's why we can't tell, because we don't know if you're just nice like that with everyone, or it's because you like us? Just like women often don't know with guys either.
I don't ask girls out lol
why would I that's stupid
I don't date prostitutes lol
Asking a regular woman out doesn't mean you are into dating prostitutes. Something is messed up in this logic...
Great advice for those who need it.
It takes time to learn these lessons.
Take your licking and keep on ticking :-)
i'm glad you say women are the choosers
Who hurt you
No one (at least not lately). I am quite happy but a friend is having trouble accepting rejection and I offered him this advice. Since I already had it basically written I thought I'd put it out as a my take.
Excellent take!
Good advice...
All do.
Rape them... jk
A sexual assault is no answer.