How to Know If He's Flirting (Page 2)

[dustdevil69]

The ladies can also make it a little less awkward just by asking about his interest a or talk about mutual experiences, and definitely interact in the conversation

[SirRexington]

You know, i came into this assuming that their would be some innaccuracies but I'm happy to say that i was wrong.
Everything you said is 100% correct.

[blossomavoid]

Hey I am a girl. i'm starting to like a guy at school i'm 16. I joined the school 2 months ago. before he used to sit further away now he sits next to me, once i had to go to the water fountain at the end of class, when i came back he seemed worried asking me where i went because i disappeared. He blinks a lot in nervousness, sometimes he can't look into my eyes and keeps moving.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he's attracted. Do you like him?

[blossomavoid]

Sure I like him so much. What can I do to make him know that I like him indirectly?

[Avicenna]

Talk to him, smile, give him attention. Give him your number or social media once you feel comfortable. If you give him enough attention, he'll realize you like him.

[Avicenna]

A well-placed compliment or two also doesn't hurt.

[KeziL]

Very good points, I'd agree with them. Follow up question: what can/should girls do that is taken as an immediate "oh, she's definitely flirting" by guys?

[JSmuve]

Rub his arm while giving him bedroom eyes and dropping sexual innuendos

[Avicenna]

Guys are generally way more prone to missing flirting, so definitely compliment him on his looks, touch him, and ask him what her doing this weekend. Make it blatantly obvious.

[DaMack999]

Sometimes women pick up guys acting all friendly as neighbors saying oh my ______ is broke can you help me fix it. They just want watch your body or need a booty call.

[Thatsamazing]

Guys don't flirt. Girls flirt. And even then, usually poorly.

Guys either want her, or we don't. And then we act accordingly. "Flirting" is what happens when girls aren't sure about our intentions, but we aren't doing anything differently.

[VIVANT]

Guys flirt. Guys flirt when they have some kind of arousal it doesn’t have to be that they want sex or a relationship can just be a momentary thing or it can be Bc they are trying to drop hints and gusts her reaction. But they absolutely flirt.

For you to say guys don’t flirt I wonder what your definition of flirting is. The actual word.. Not an interpretation of events Surrounding the occasion 😊.

[Thatsamazing]

@VIVANT That's what I'm saying, is it's just a misinterpretation of normal behavior. Unless we're considering talking, or indicating interest, to be "flirting." Maybe it is, I guess.

[VIVANT]

Oh I see

Hmm yeah I’m not good at flirting or picking it up

I’m very literal so it often goes over my head

Often I’m told after the fact so and so is flirting and sometimes it is by so and so lol

Sooo not wanting to be inadvertently leading people on , I looked into it

I was quite shocked to find that “ flirting” is not at all what I thought. Like you know hugely Obvious overly dramatic cheesy pick up lines and sexual banter

It’s supposedly just engaging in any kind of banter to make others feel good and or to express Interest

I had no idea 🤷‍♀️

[Thatsamazing]

@VIVANT Right that's part of the problem as well.

[Avicenna]

Flirting is a deliberate act of implied interest

[Avicenna]

It's done to either make it clear that there is interest or less commonly, to just have fun

[producer]

I'd never thought we would need a take on this. Most guys suck at being discrete

[litty]

But you know, no matter how much flirting is done, it doesn't necessarily mean they want a relationship, so before feelings are hurt, it's better to clarify whether it's all for fun or whether they want to take it further.

[pizzalovershouse]

Both sexes get mixed signals at times not all but lots

[maxmoody1986]

Yeah both sexes mixed signals quite a bit actually my ex-wife used to tell me all the time that women were hitting on me I had no clue women can see the signals women are trying to send to men. And men see signals that men are trying send women. So here's the answer when you first start a relationship a man needs teacher woman how to read body language a woman needs to teach a man how to read a woman's body language

[pizzalovershouse]

@maxmoody1986 very true😊

[maxmoody1986]

I think we are reading them wrong more than we read them right honestly

[MOCKBA]

Gosh! A guy is obviously not flirting unless he drags a girl to a bar or stuff a date with food. We guys definitely love our girls drunk and fat 😂😱

[AntiHunger]

After reading this, I’m very stupid 🤦🏽‍♀️

[Avicenna]

No, you aren't

[Jjpayne]

These are pretty good! Nice work!

[coffeewithcream]

Sounds like a lot of steps of sexual harassment to me.

[TheFirstMan]

It was too many way, even I standing at your back. I still feeling like flirting u😂

[Luiiiiiii]

He's flirting if he's actually flirting. Don't be paranoid.

[Avicenna]

LMAO

[themomo84]

Sounds about right, ty!

[zagor]

11. He playfully ignores that restraining order.

[Tim-loves-it]

I smile and maybe start a conversation

[AlexFlorida99]

Well-written. You must be a professional blogger.

[Gedaria]

6and7 come close to flirting. Keeping it funny...