I left a sweet note with my number on my gym crush car. We've talk a couple times?

[Anonymous]

He's avoiding me now. Am I a stalker? Did I blow it? Now what do I do. Please help! I'm embarrassed !

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Rejected. Ouch !!
I guess he was into me but changed his mind. Or maybe I was too much.

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9:50 am I get a good morning text. Humm. Idle chit chat for awhile. Guess I will see him in a little bit here. I'm slightly confused but relieved.

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So we text and he tells me I make him nervous and he's into me. Nervous because he's married. Ok. So. Leave phone. Texted. Then ignores me at the gym. Now he's gone. Guess he just wanted to see who he can get. Geez. He approached me first.
Unreal.

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Haven't heard from him anymore. Explain mexican men to me. He approached me. I find out he's married and now he says he's nervous with me and I never see him again. Strange.

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So he texts me while I'm on vaca that he misses me. Back to the gym and he act nervous and ignores me. Lucky if I get a smile and we catch ea other glances. I'm confused. Shall I' ignore him and move on?

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So here I am. Back to updating. I still see my gum crush weekly. We have gotten more friendly and I love seeing him. Here the thing. We smile lots. He's starting to get brave and work out next to me. Last week before Christmas we had a nice conversation. At the end he asked if I still have his number. I said yes. He asked me to text him. Both married so I said no. I had left # before ! I asked if he still had mine and he said no. So I moved and got ready to leave the gym.

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I asked why he no longer had it. He says he got a new phone. So I leave and leave my number on his car. With a happy face.
He never text me ! So I did. All he said was he's good. And he's working.
Nothing else. Why? Did he just want to see if I had his # ? Very confusing. Why is he approaching me. I can't wait to go back to the gym. Ha. He thinks he's intimidating me? Never. What is this guys story?
My note did say " last time " in jest. Help !! It's been five days !!! Holiday break and A

[Shaggy5150]

You scared him off. A note left on his car came across as you are watching/stalking him. You are always better off just giving your number to him in person. Best to let it go and just use this as a learning experience.

[Anonymous]

Notes almost always =creepy. Doesn't matter which sex does it. First thing he probably thought was, "Great, she has mental tabs on what car I drive? Ugh."

[Asker]

We will wave at each other in our ways out in out cars. We know what each other drives. Mines a nice Lexus. He's got an old Mazda car.
Ok. I guess it was a little creepy now that you say it that way. Best to cut my losses and call it a lesson learned. I'll leave him be. :(
Sad.

[realerthanreal]

Wtf... yeah that's pretty creepy. If you were younger maybe not so much.

[Asker]

My age is hard to tell but if you'd ask me I'd say the same !! Ha. Sure once he learns my age it's over.

[chrisbigman]

A lot of typing here. Anyways, I would love it if a woman at the gym gave me a nice note (especially if she's interested me and states so). You might have been too much.

[Asker]

I asked him if he ever had gotten a note on his car before. I was the one and only. Not sure his motto. Just strange he asked and never really replied. Guessing i scared him off. Asking why he no longer had my #. Leaving the note saying "last time "
Oh well. Can't wait to see him !!&

[Asker]

Update. Well things got pretty hot there for a couple days. Looks like he just wanted sexy pics I guess. Or maybe a quickie. Not to much convo but he did sent three sexy pics. He asked for more and I text he's gonna get me into trouble. I like it. All he said was ok forget it.
Ha. And I text and he didn't reply. So it's a bit awkward at the gym but were smiling. Ha.
He's pretty fickle but it's probably better. It would make my gym time even more awkward if we did anything more. Think ill just tease him. and stare. Ha

[Net06]

He is a player just trying to see if he can get some pr he's in a relationship

[Anonymous]

He doesn't feel hr same way, and he doesn't want to lead you on. Sorry :-(

[Asker]

Ok. The thing is we stare at each other and smile all the time. He always said hi and came to talk to me once. It was like he'd work out in front oh me cause he knows I'm nuts about him. I really bummed I did the note thing.
So he's not into me anymore or just annoyed I left the note? I thought it was really cute and fun thing to do. My first time doing that. One thing. He approached me with a guy he was working out with. The other guy actually spoke with me. Gave me the " you are beautiful line ". My crush just worked on the machine while this guy spoke. You bet I was bummed that day !!
Ha.
I really appreciate your replies!!

[Opinion Owner]

If a guy likes you, it doesn't matter how you tell him you like him. You'd literally have to appear at his bedroom window at midnight, or do something as creepy as that, to creep him out.

[Asker]

Opinion Owner
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If a guy likes you, it doesn't matter how you tell him you like him. You'd literally have to appear at his bedroom window at midnight, or do something as creepy as that, to creep him out.

Ok. Now that's what I thought too!!! I can tell if someone is into me or not. I really think I creeped him out now. What do you think I should do now? Ignore the whole thing? I'm really bummed !!!

[Opinion Owner]

No that's my point: you didn't creep him out. You'd have to do something extreme to creep him out. My point is, he's just not that into you.

[Asker]

Ok. Darn reality. Who knows. He could be married or with someone. I don't know. You're right. If he really was into me, the wouldn't be his reaction to the note. It was a really cute note too. Not creepy I thought at first !! Sad. He probably gets hit on all the time anyways. I don't know why I seem to get attracted to these kind of guys. Geez. If your not interested at me than look away !!

[Anonymous]

Yeah... time to get a new gym.

[Asker]

Nope. I love my gym. I'd never leave it. Maybe he will. I can not bother him. Just go back to my boring work out !!
I should change my name to stalker. How dumb am I ? Ha.