What does a girl mean when she says she has mixed feelings?

[Anonymous]

girls, may I have some help with this please? thanks

[Bichon999]

this can mean a lot of things.

It can mean that she likes you but she doesn't know if she should date you. maybe she likes some aspects of your personality, but doesn't like others. perhaps, she likes you but wishes she didn't and is in denial. Perhaps she likes you and wants to be attracted to you but just isn't. perhaps she likes you but also likes someone else. It all depends on the scenario.

I'd need more info to tell you which one it is.

[Reeses-pieces777]

it means she likes you but there are things that make her unsure about it. like I would be up and down if I had mixed feelings about a guy

[Asker]

Truth be told, she's moving, so there's really no point in starting a relationship, is there?

[michalezki]

that all depends on the situation? like mixed feelings about liking you or what?

[Asker]

Yes. this girl is head over heels about me, or was for the last month. she was talking to me and texting me like four times a day, sending me about 100 texts every day, asking me out and if I have a gf. She asked me out, but I was too busy to, so I asked her out this week and she said she was too busy. She said she doens;tlike it when she gets busy for a couple weeks and doesn't have time to talk to me and I get mad, but other times she talk all day to me. I don't understand her behavior

[michalezki]

Well she obviously likes you. she just gets busy and everyone does. but when she does have time to text you she does but when she's extra busy she can't so it may seem like mixed signals but she's really just living out her life. I wouldn't worry, but if you like this girl then text her every couple days and check up on her and maybe plan ahead to make time for each other and that way you can get a better understanding of where she stands. don't be afraid to confront her about this either!

[Asker]

Ok I won't. I just feel like if I do, it's going to start an argument, and I don't want that. That and the people I live around don't ever let anyone have a social life, because if your talking for more than two seconds, its weird, but they tell you to stop arguing- right in the middle fo a perfectly fine conversation. I know its weird, but I'll talk to her about it, thanks!

[martyfellow]

Usually it's 1) she has another boy friend, or

2) she wants to break up and is trying to be polite.

Either way, or any other possible motive, all you can do is listen and walk away, probably for good.

[Asker]

But she got worried when I said we might not hang out today

[parrotsale]

I think that she may have someone else...of course she likes you, she just needs to find the time to spend with you!

[Asker]

Mind if I ask one more thing? what do you mean of course she likes me?

[Jeremz8]

i'm not gonna lie. odds are it means she's not interested

[Anonymous]

She doesn't know how she feels yet. Its not a 100% to know what to do or what she feels. There's a whole lot of feelings that she is not sure of yet.

[Asker]

Thanks

[elisabethk30]

it honestly depends on the situation, it could mean that she's just trying to let you down easily, or it could mean that she wants to be with you, however she is afraid of something like getting hurt.

[Asker]

What about moving far away and not being able to see me for a few years?

[elisabethk30]

Then maybe she was trying to let you down easy, she might like you but she probably just doenst want to get attached.

[Asker]

She still talks to me sometimes. Do you think she will forget me?

[elisabethk30]

Not if you keep in contact. if you guys stay close and work on ur relationship now she may just see how much you care, you can show here that your there for her no mater what. Who knows maybe when she comes back....

goodluck. however I won't say that you shouldnt try to meet someone else in the mean time. just stay close to her if you like her enough.

[RibRobz3]

mixed feelings bout wat? maybe she really doesn't like you or maybe there's someone else. we need more info to help.

[Asker]

I asked her if she still likes me because she hasn't been talking to me for half the week, and she asked me the same question almost two weeks ago. She also asked if I wanted to hang out with her and if I have a girlfriend last week, but it seems like she's just playing hard to get now.

[RibRobz3]

Oh maybe she is playing hard to get. sounds like she does have mixed feeling, I have lots of freinds like that.just play hard to get and wen you guys get closer prove her ur the right guy for her.

[Shlei3]

Exactly what she said. She sees upsides and downsides of both sides and has a hard time determining which would be best.

[Jesuschick]

It means she is unsure and confused about the situation.

[cieradevil]

It means when you said you were to busy she was hurt now she's not sure if she likes your or if she doesn't give her a nice gesture send her some flowers go to her house at night and throw rocks at her window

[Asker]

Actually she was too busy for me

[ArtDent]

She wants to put you on a shelf for a couple weeks at a time and make out like you're the clingy/needy/possessive etc person for wanting more contact than that?

[maryjane420]

it means she likes you but yet she doesn't really want to be with you.

[Asker]

Can you please elaborate on that. I don't really understand. she likes me, but she doesn't like me?

[maryjane420]

Ok she has some feelings for you but she doesn't want to be with you....if she really really did truly like you she wouldn't have mixed feelings at all she would know how she feels about you....basically not to put this in a rude way you are her rebound...trust me I tell guys the same thing all the time and so do a lot of my friends.

[Asker]

Well she just asked me out so I don't know why she would all of a sudden have mixed feelings. She said she liked me last week, and I've knoen her for a few years, so I know she has never gone out with anyone, so I can't be a rebound, and she's not like that to use me as one

[maryjane420]

Well....if she hasn't dated anyone....she might be just dating you to say I have a boyfriend kinda thing to get other guys attention....cuz lets face it guys go after girls who are already taken because it makes them seem harder to get....im not necesatly saying she's using you...im just saying it as a possibility because I am trying to put myself in her shoes and that is something that I would pull so I'm not saying I'm right I'm just saying...that could be it....just be careful.

[Asker]

Ok your opinion sounds very wise, Ill take it. I know this girl is really busy all the time, being around doctors all the time, but when she does get a little free time, she talks to me and makes time to hang out, and she doesn't do stuff like play hard to get. She's really naive and inexperienced. Do you believe that later when she gets free time, she will come back to me again? Like a 'believe what she does, not what she says' thing

[Anonymous]

Probably that she's feeling you, but not to the point to be sure she wants to be w. you seriously. Not knowing enough about you, or your intentions and expectations. I hope that helps xx

[madi25193]

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