Girls, what's so repulsive about a bald man?

[Anonymous]

What makes you pick a guy with hair over a guy who's bald if they have the same sort of personality, or even that the bald guy is better - it's just hair. If you didn't know this... most, if not all men will lose their/some hair when they are older...

I don't care about "preferences" under these circumstances, because not going for a guy solely because he's bald is SHALLOW, yes SHALLOW.

If you bump into some bald guy wearing a beanie - and you don't even know that he is... and you really click... But then he takes his hat off and you dump him - You're a cruel human being... dont even say a word about women who lose their hair and how horrified you are for them and how sorry you are because you don't mean it.

[Anonymous]

There is a difference between being so shallow that you break up with a person because they start to go bald or you won't even giving them a chance, and simply not being attracted to someone.

I would like you to answer the Anonymous guy's question: would you be attracted to a bald woman?

You'd be surprised how small things can make a difference. I went on a date with a guy and didn't feel much attraction. Then I saw him in a more casual setting and he seemed hotter to me. The difference? On the date, he parted his hair and put gel in it. In the casual setting it was messier, but I found that more attractive.
To be fair, how his hair looked was not a deal breaker. Hair alone will not make a person ugly or attractive. But it can have an impact.

If a woman loves a man, but breaks up with him when he suddenly shaves his head, then that is shallow. But if his baldness simply doesn't turn her on? There is nothing shallow about that.
There are woman who don't mind a guy being bald, and in fact there are women who prefer it. So don't assume that all women find it "repulsive" and all women are "shallow"

[Asker]

I didn't say ALL women did I?

[Opinion Owner]

no, but your question was very antagonistic. You assumed any woman reading it finds baldness "repulsive."
You said you don't care about preferences under these circumstances... but in others is it okay? Do you think it's okay for you to judge a girl based on her looks? How is this shallow but that is not?

[Asker]

"no, but your question was very antagonistic. You assumed any woman reading it finds baldness "repulsive." ... nope, nope and nope.

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[RaeBae]

I'm not against it but not too many people can pull it off. Surprisingly these celebs can:

Michael Jordan
Boris Kodjoe
Vin Diesel
The Rock
Chris Daughtry
Shemar Moore
Bruce Willis

Even Meagan Fox lol

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[Asker]

@ Megan fox... that's not bald though.

[RaeBae]

But idk, I just prefer to grip hold of a guys hair And I don't mean it in a sexual way. Just if we're wrestling, goofing around, making out, or laying on the couch watching a movie.

[Asker]

You can grip hold of my nuts, or my beard if you want. Being bald is not my choice btw, blame genetics.

[RaeBae]

Well yea her head is shaved in the pic, but whatev. And I'm not tryna grip anyone down there. And not really a fan of beards =\

[RaeBae]

Nice try tho

[onothefoxesarecoming]

I literally made an account just because OP is really annoying me. I'm a bald female, I lost about 50% of my hair in the course of 6 months thanks to alopecia areata and I now shave my head. As a bald/balding man you have hundreds of male role models in films etc. and the majority of women have no problem with bald men. Now stop being so irrational and closed-off and you might actually find someone.

[aamy811]

I love bald guys. My dad shaved his head when I was growing up and I though it was the coolest thing ever. Whenever bald guys are at they're computer I like to come up and rub they're head.
Also the problem with bald guys is, most guys don't look good bald

[Asker]

I do ;)

[aamy811]

Then your good to go

[Anonymous]

The same women who won't date a bald man cry when you won't date a girl with cellulite or sagging breast

[been_waiting]

The same dudes crying that girls won't date them cause they're bald only want women with big boobs or some other stupid requirement

[Asker]

I don't know if that's a reference to me... but I'm currently dating lol.

[Opinion Owner]

I dislike big boobs

[Asker]

Yeah... big boobs are a bit of a turn off tbh.

[been_waiting]

Anyone who would dump someone they care about because they're bald is an asswipe. But by the time they really care about you they full well know you're bald... so I don't think that situation happens so much?

But everyone is allowed to have preferences

[Asker]

Baldness doesn't happen in a day you know... after 2 years I still have hair on my head, and it still isn't noticeable, but it will one day.

I don't think it's a preference whatsoever.

[been_waiting]

Oh okay I didn't know you meant that. I thought you meant that the girl leaves after finding out that the man is bald, not that she leaves when he starts going bald. Anyway has this happened to you? I find that hard to believe. If someone leaves someone over a lack of hair then they never loved them and there's probably other things going on.

It is a preference? I prefer to date a guy with hair. Lots if not most of women do. But its just a preference. If I like a guy it doesn't really matter.

[Asker]

No it hasn't happened to me (yet) ... I doubt it would as I'm quite hench and a lot of women are attracted to me... it's to my bald homies... They day you go bald you'll get what I mean. Till then...

[been_waiting]

Okay so this question is just based on insecurities and is totally irrational.

Dude you don't LOVE someone and then say ehhh they are losing their hair I don't LOVE them anymore I'm gonna dump them. Wtf? People don't do that.

[Asker]

"Okay so this question is just based on insecurities and is totally irrational" - it's not.

Some women/men are capable of doing that.

[been_waiting]

No you don't fall out out love over hair. Promise. That means the relationship was shallow and superficial and there was never any love involved.

[Asker]

"No you don't fall out out love over hair. Promise." - it happens, just like when a man/woman is infertile.

[been_waiting]

You must not understand what love is.
You don't stop loving someone because they're somewhat less attractive. There's couples where one of them got half their face burned off and they still love each other.

[Asker]

"You must not understand what love i" Oh believe me, I do.

[been_waiting]

Okay. Whatever you wanna hear. Yes women are awful creatures. Your future wife will divorce you and take full custody of the kids if you lose your hair.

[Asker]

"Yes women are awful creatures" ... you've just gone off the scale... bye.

[PrettyBama]

Bald guys are fuckin adorable. Balding women have it worse because women suppose to have luscious locks.

[Asker]

Luscious *hair*. As long as the bald man has a nice head... like me lol... a lot of girls compliment, flirt and touch my scalp when we make out ;) ... then it's all good

[PrettyBama]

You have to have the head shape that allows baldness lol one thing I do request of all men is that... if you're balding... please cut that shit off lol don't wait til your hairline starts behind your damn ear lol

[Asker]

I've buzzed mine to something short... I don't have a bald patch since I'm frontal balding... so I'm balding quite graciously... no one has noticed it as of yet... been losing my hair for 2 years now.

[PrettyBama]

I knew a guy who started balding at 19 and he was sooooo self conscious about it. He didn't mind that it was balding he just hated that it was so early.

[Azara]

so asker you're agreeing women should always have tons of hair, even though you are angry at the thought of a woman not being attracted to your bald head... and locks means hair. that was a weird correction lol.

would you marry a bald woman. just curious.

[PrettyBama]

@Azara that was a really weird correction lol I was so confused. But you know how some men are. Were shallow if we have preferences but they're entitled to all want girls who belong with millionaires lol

[Asker]

would I marry a bald woman... well presumably I would be in love with her... so yes? :L

[Azara]

good for you. if thats honest.

[wildspirit]

I personally find baldness to be unattractive. I have plenty of guys to date with scads of hair so why compromise?

You're saying we should have sex with men we're not attracted to just because it'd be shallow not to? Just so we're clear?

[Asker]

So if you fell in love with a man who had a head full of hair and maybe he started to bald... what would do? ditch him>>

[wildspirit]

No. Once you establish love its more important ofc. Attraction fades, beauty fades, love stays... but attraction and beauty are what spark love in the first place.

[Asker]

" Attraction fades, beauty fades" ... I don't think you know what love is... there can't be love without attraction hahaha... that's one of the "3 pillars"

[wildspirit]

I refuse to believe two 90s who've been married 70 years have any sexually attraction to each other whatsoever... but I'm sure they're still deeply in love right?

3 pillars of what? Also its ironic how you're arguing in favor of attraction when you basically just said it was shallow lmao

[Asker]

Two women in their 90s just married after 70 years... There was attraction there, and you could see it.

3 pillars of a relationship (which you need to learn): 1) Trust 2) Communication 3) Attraction... take one of those out and the relationship will cease to work.

Attraction is shallow? where did I say that? where did I even imply that? ... I'm talking about how girls will ditch their BF's because he's going bald and/or women will not date a guy because of this minor feature change...

[JulieXO]

I like hair on a guy, because it looks nice nd I can go through it with my fingers and stuff like that. However, I would never reject a guy beacuse he is bald, that's just plain ridiculous.

[BlueMarvin]

You know you sound like you are bald and have experienced some rejection for it lol, seriously there is nothing wrong with being bald... my preference is hair but if I dated you I would totally call you rufus

[Asker]

I haven't lol... I have a gf and get chatted up by girls.

[Azara]

guys don't date bald women. women do date bald men.

[StickStickity13]

Unless a girl has cancer or shaves her head willingly WHY would a girl be bald?

[Asker]

@StickStickity13 cks.nice.org.uk/alopecia-androgenetic-female

This auto immune disease causes it... my GF's friend - who's an utter bitch - has it.

[aamy811]

This is so true it hurts

[Azara]

women also just lose hair. and 'why' isn't the point. guys don't go looking for bald women. no one would even think to suggest that a guy should look past what he's attracted to-even just in terms of long or short hair. lots of guys balk if the woman's hair is too short. let alone bald.

[Rcjh1987]

Nothing is wrong with who are bald on some guys they look super sexy

[1OneUP]

Someone with a bald head wouldn't bother me if I found them attractive and nice... it just depends on who it is.

[DontDropIt]

Nothing is repulsive about a bald man.

[Asker]

How do you find them... of course I wasn't generalising women... Women like you are the ones that deserve love :)

[DontDropIt]

Alright now anon..d2ws0xxnnorfdo.cloudfront.net/.../mr-bean.jpg lol

How do I find bald guys? lol

[Asker]

Yes? ...

[Anonymous]

What's so repulsive about a bald woman? Chances are you wouldn't be attracted to a woman that was balding. People can't help who they are attracted to, otherwise being homosexual would be a choice.

[Asker]

Sexual orientation and attribute attractiveness aren't the same...

[Opinion Owner]

Actually they kind of are. People's sexual orientation makes them more attracted to certain attributes. The attributes they are attracted to, determines their sexual orientation.

[Asker]

Sexual orientation: Gay, straight, bi, asexual, pansexual, etc...

Attributes: height, eyes, hair colour, etc...

No.

[Opinion Owner]

Attributes, big firm breasts, hour glass figure, broad shoulders, hairy chest.

Yes.

[Asker]

Sexual orientation, as the name states is SEXUAL... Attributes has nothing to do with anything sexual, it's to do with features.

[Opinion Owner]

The features are what makes them sexually attracted in the first place.

[Azara]

op you're avoiding the question of you dating a bald woman. several people have brought it up lol.

[lexih2146]

there's absolutely nothing wrong with being bald.

[Asker]

Preach!

[lexih2146]

haha you got it!

[Klaatu51]

bald makes you look ordinary that's it

[Asker]

'Ordinary' ... add a nicely trimmed beard and a hench physique and you're 'extraordinary'

[Klaatu51]

hair is what makes you unique dude... sorry.

best is if you have money to go for hair transplants. and if you don't have money sell your car if you have one... LOL

[Asker]

You'll go bald soon enough... probably something you'd commit suicide over by the looks of it haha

#Bald&proud... Being bald is more unique than hair... hair is mainstream ;)

[Klaatu51]

STOP IT!!! DON'T EVER SAY THAT AGAIN!!! i don't want to go bald, and if i fo, i'll even sell my house to do hairtransplants and i'll sleep outside in the park. at least i'll have hair... my hair are precious dude!

[Asker]

Hair transplants are in the $30k depending on how severe your hair loss is it... embrace it like me XD

[Asker]

Women will notice hairtransplants... and trust me, they don't like them.

[Klaatu51]

DON'T BE STUPID I DON'T HAVE HAIR LOSS... PLEASE STOP IT!!!

[Klaatu51]

i prefer to kill myself if i was about to be bald... i'd be meaningless afterwards

[Klaatu51]

i don't give a SHIT what women do. i will never lose my hair nor they'll ever e grey. YO'LL SEE

[Asker]

"i prefer to kill myself if i was about to be bald" ... that's what makes me proud and you a mug.

[Klaatu51]

ok embrace your baldness, and embrace the word "ugly" as well because you'll hear it often you know :P

[Asker]

2/10 - try harder dude...

[Klaatu51]

2/10 what?