Why do guys provoke girls (in a funny way)?

[popcorn35]

a guy,
he is always provoking me in a funny cute way, like make fun of me, kidding, mess up with my hair, do stupid things, slap me (not true slap, ahah) and when i am writing a message he goes there and clicks to mess up the message! , etc.

why do guys do it?

[BlueSJ]

I think it is a way of flirting, or it might be that he is just being himself. I mean he is a playful person.

I do provoke people, and one time, I provoked a guy because he seemed he would be cool with it, and he would be an easy victim to my evil plans muhahah. :P

I don't intend anything in these occassions. It is just me being in my playful and evil mood. 😏😈

[James0]

It's way to flirt with you, I do this to a few girls in my life because it's fun and enjoyable, sometimes you just got to now when to take a break.

[popcorn35]

but he has gf...

[James0]

It also might be who he is, he sounds a lot like me, it's just some fun to help my friends when they look sad or stressed

[Invoker]

An indirect way to assert themselves into your life. And as the others have mentioned, flirting.

[popcorn35]

thank youu :))

[Invoker]

Much obliged.

[popcorn35]

but why it takes you (guys) to do it?

[Invoker]

English isn't your first language, I can tell. Did you mean to say, What takes us to do it? Or what inspires us to chase after someone?

[popcorn35]

sorry, i was thinking about many things while writing it !! English is my secong language, i speak it since i was 5 !!!
so, what i meant was: '' what takes you, guys, to do it? why do you do it to girls?

[popcorn35]

i don't really know, answer to both questions you made

[Invoker]

No problem at all! You cna speak your main language better than I can speak it (I Dont even know it lol)
Some men/boys do it because they Dont care about respect for their current relationship. They are also giving into their temptation for another woman.

He probably thinks you're really pretty. But in my opinion, any man, flirting with another girl while he's in a relationship, is ugly at heart.

Does that answer the questions I asked? Haha this is weird, it's almost like talking to myself.

[popcorn35]

yeah, i know.. it is stupid.
i know he thinks i'm pretty because he said it many times to me in the past, i remember it and obviously i can't forget ! but, i know he is in a relationship, i also know it is complicated to resist (by my self). i don't know what he thinks, and i don't wanna ruin it :)

and i completly agree with you

[Invoker]

Well, you can always tell him you don't feel comfortable with his words? Because he's in a relationship. Or tell his girlfriend that he's being a hoe. Or you could tell your boyfriend or friend to tell him all this lol. A lot of things you can do, but I highly advise you don't just sit back and let it keep happening.

If you need something else to catch your attention better than him, find it.

[popcorn35]

those things were in the past. now, he is in a relationship. but on Saturday night, he was trying to flurt with me.
so, it doesn't matter, but it is not good for his relationship (i mean, for his thoughts)

[popcorn35]

*flirt

[Anonymous]

To Bring the little naughty bitch hiding somewhere deep inside you to the outside world.

[Meedo]

Its called teasing and flirting

[popcorn35]

okk, thank you

[serria054]

Simple playful fun and to see your reaction.

[Falthzel]

Desperate way of calling your attention.

[Anonymous]

he sounds young that's the young way of flirting

[Lelialia]

I don't know bruh