Gym Flirting signs? eg Looking etc?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, long story short
I feel like that this guy at my gym has interest in me...
People say when a guy has interest in you he looks at you often, comes near you, has "long" looks/stares at you, mentions you to his friends etc.
I realized that this gym guy happens to do those things "eg looking/staring, near me, him + his friends looks at me" and recently I finally talked to him but it was very short and I couldn't get his name sadly but during the convo he kept smiling and gave me good eye contact. Plus he did treadmill running for the first time (from what I seen through the year) and he aligned with me? strange and I did smile at him one time and he smiled back. :)

Anyway I was wondering if he has interest? (1)
and what would you do if you had interest in a girl/someone at gym? (2)

[Dudeidontknow123]

Dudes at a gym=no Bueno lol he seems interested in you physically. i mean you could strike up a convo and see what he's about, just expect him to want to get into your pants. Feel it out and see what he talks to you about or if he pays any interest to finding out more about you.

[Asker]

Hahaha I noticed haha
Well I have made very small talk which he was nice, smiling a lot and gave me good eye contact plus when I left he kept looking at me... but yeah I agree on the "interested in your pants" thing and I will watch out for that thanks.

[meatballs21]

I don't hit on nor want to be hit on at the gym. I'm there trying to get fit.

[Anonymous]

Pretty sure he likes you! If you like him just keep throwing him and occasional smile when you lock eyes - that will encourage him to keep chasing you.

[Asker]

Ok thank you
sure will hahah :)
but someone told me it was too vague? :/

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he's already chasing so I dont think its too vague. When you have a chance you could also start talking to him - that will also help.

[Asker]

Yeah I have but very briefly before I leave gym but recently I asked his name I was like "hey, I don't think I caught your name last time" and he replies "Dillon, what's your name" so I answered "Michelle, well it was nice meeting you". During the convo he didn't really smile like that time I talked to him but he asked my name? Maybe he asked because he was trying to be polite?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I dont think you can tell either way from him asking your name also... afterall, it would be rude not to ask your name after you asked for his. Not really smiling but did he make eye contact? See what he does next... if he keeps following you around the gym and smiles or makes eye contact then this is a good sign he's interested.

[Asker]

Hmm yeah it is kinda hard to tell
Yeah he gave eye contact the whole time
Hmm okay thanks

[Anonymous]

Meeting guys at the gym, is not a good idea

[Asker]

Hmm okay, could you tell more on that? like expand it?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really. You just typically don't want to be picking up men at the gym, it's not cool

[Asker]

well if/when I find out that he doesn't like it then obviously I would stop but from what I've seen from him and my gym he and they are all chill and social and I do know
"gym crush/flirting" is a good and bad thing as everyone has a different point of view
but I'm just curious on if he has interest in me, that's all.

[Opinion Owner]

Won't know until he asks you out... if he does, that is

[Asker]

well, thanks.

[Anniroc]

I don't thing the gym is such a bad place - couldnt be any worse that a bar or other alcohol infused situation...

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I thought
My gym is pretty chilled and nice
And I see people there chilling and talking there sometimes