I don't like my girlfriend complimenting other guys?

[Anonymous]

Even famous singers and actors. It makes me feel self conscious and a bit jealous. Is that normal?

Yes.

No.

A total of 501 votes were cast: 72 girls and 429 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

Wow. People on here are real assholes.

[Anonymous]

Haha yes some people on here are assholes. That's why they are on here to be ASSHOLES. so don't take what they say personal just know they probably don't have a girlfriend so they are bitter. Assholes aside. Talk to her dude. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable. Tell you can understand and appreciate attractive people. But that doesn't mean you need to Hear about It. She probably had a relationship before you that that type of behavior was accepted or even asked for. But you have to talk.

[yosimitesam]

It's normal, but don't let it eat you up. Sometimes women and men can be insensitive to their significant other, but I wouldn't take it personally, as I'm sure she doesn't mean anything by it.

If it's excessive and even graphic as to what she'd like to do with him, then that's different and it may be time to have a talk. Otherwise, she's just being a girl and isn't intending to offend you at all.

[lunaheart]

It depends how she's complimenting them. If she's just complimenting them on singing or acting then I think that's fine. But if she's talking about how attractive they are then I would completely understand why you're annoyed/jealous because if I had a boyfriend who did that about other girls then I would be jealous too.

[Asker]

I know right? Everyone else is talking about me being insecure and stuff. Maybe they've never cared about anyone? That's kinda sad :(

[desidoll]

I think It's normal but you are a little too much. Complimenting celebrities is normal. I mean c'mon she can't get them though so why are you worry?

[Asker]

I don't worry. It just makes me feel a bit self conscious, like oh that guy is more in shape then me normally :/

[desidoll]

Hmm got it. Maybe you can tell her that you feel bad about it? Communication is the best thing.

[Asker]

Thanks. First helpful answer :)

[desidoll]

Welcome. I'm sure you are very attractive to her otherwise you won't be her bf :)

[Asker]

Thank you :D

[Queen_naki5]

Lmao @ the update 😂😂. It's totally normal to get jealous but in the end, she loves you and chose you. So, I wouldn't think much of it.

[Queen_naki5]

Meanwhile, tell her to keep her feelings to yourself. I'm sure you know tons of girls off the back that are attractive, maybe even more attractive then she is lol. I'm sure you don't have to sit there and mention it every 5 mins haha.

[Queen_naki5]

*herself

[Bandit74]

haha I laughed at the update too

[Queen_naki5]

Thanks for MHO.

[RationalLioness]

LOL. @ your update.

I do think it's a little insecure and I don't think it's normal unless if she consistently points them out to you. That is rude to me and I would do the same to her to see how she reacts.

[Asker]

I'm not worried about her leaving. Just like when she says that guy is attractive and he's got like a 8 pack and stuff I feel a bit self conscious and jealous.

[RationalLioness]

Yeah. Then that's rude to me. Why would she even point them out? I wouldn't think she'd like it if you started saying how beautiful another woman's breasts are and how BIG.

She should stop being stupid and simply be respectful to you. I can understand your reaction a bit better now.

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Diego9O]

It really depends of how she is expressing it to you. Is she constantly complimenting other guys? Is she highlighting how attractive they are for her, or she only talks about specific qualities that she admire from them?

[Honey7]

it is normal to be jealous.. now she thinks that it's a normal thing to compliment other guys.. but when you compliment other girls.. she'll be mad

girls are so fu**ed up

[Asker]

If I even look at another girl she gets jealous...

[micheal727jovanie]

You can do the same but there is no reason to get jello mister! Its not like she's gonna fuck em... You insecure ass munch.

[Prof_Don]

Well it depends on the context and situation.

If she is calling male strangers handsome, hot, sexy, etc, in front of you and you don't like it... if u tell her you don't like that, she SHOULD stop.

[Liveyyy]

Just because she complimenting them doesn't mean she's gonna leave you for them.

[AshBrown]

Normal or not normal, it is not a healthy relationship.

[Kshppatel]

Compliment a famous singer/celebrity in front of her and see how she feels. If she doesn't care and accepts it then you need to stop being insecure

[1GuyOpinion]

No, you're just an insecure bitch.

[Chick180]

No, it's not normal. Don't be so insecure.

[jmmmfi]

So tell her to stop