Hey;) i think im falling for my gym crush, what should i do? help , he's sending hints?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so here it goes. I am a fitness lady. I hit the gym every night around 5 pm. I am a college student. The guy who Im into is always with a teacher , a sub, from the high school I graduated. They always go around the same time. Yesterday I was on the threadmill and they got next to me, I noticed them and just gave eye contact. I had my headphones on, I believe they wanted to tell me something but couldn't. I got nervous but ran faster to impress him. Today , I walked in around 5:15.. As I walked towards the threadmill after checking if I looked fine I saw them walk in but of course I have pride and pretend to not see them. Then as I walked towards the threadmill, the "guy crush " im having, was drinking from the water fountain and turned his head as I got into the machine. I smiled secretly because I know I have his attention. Well, after that I tested him, (them) back and forth. They followed me near the arm machines when I finished Cardio. And They were both just talking standing up looking at me as I did my thing. (SO CUTE!!!) They never come up to me though. Are they afraid of my reaction? Should I smile? However, after I went towards the end corner of the gym to work on my tummy, and guess who ended there again? THEM!!! So , okay okay, I was wearing tight shorts , pink shirt, and hair loose, to call his attention more.. And as I worked on abs, as I turned around he was staring straight into my eyes. So I looked at him. And started doing abs again nervous. When I turned around he had left , with his gym partner. I'm always alone, looking nice, why doesn't he just talk to ME!!! I would love to talk to him.

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OMG Guys.. Your opinions make me feel like Ill be dreaming of him kissing me at the gym with those sexy muscles. Thanks. If he's there tmm Ill let u know what happens;) If not then wait till Monday. I SEE HIM EVERYDAY;)

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THANKS, TMM ILL SEND HINTS. ;)

[I_am_repulsive]

Only one way to find out is to initiate contact and talk to him. I remember the assistant manager/reception in the gym I go to at snap fitness had a huge crush on me. Unfortunately however, I'm in a committed relationship but we eventually became more a friend instead. Even though it didn't really go well to her as planned, she found our more about me and got over her crush situation. The point is, it's always better to know than contemplate about what could have been or should have been.

[Asker]

Your advice is to get to know him? Because If I don't I might regret it, and knowing him would tell me why we feel like this? Do you believe he likes me?

[I_am_repulsive]

From your description, he does seem to feel the same way about you. I don't know why he hasn't made a move yet, but maybe he just needed some sort of incentive. I know sometimes you just want to hit a guy with a frying pan to clear out his mind and tell him to make a damn move already.

[Asker]

Okay.. Mmm. Tmm Is Friday . I am off, Im hitting the gym around the same time hoping he's there. If he is Ill try to ask for help or something. Or simply smile and stare him off.

[I_am_repulsive]

A simply hi and a beautiful smile goes a long way of starting a natural conversation. You can always try and get a gist of whether or not he is interested in you via the way he talk or act around you.

[1GuyOpinion]

Talk to him. Don't wait for him to talk to you.

Usually I don't bother people working out in the gym, afraid that they are busy and don't want me to annoy them, especially woman because I don't think gym is the place to flirt and meet womans lol.

[Asker]

What if he finds me awkard? what is behavior telling me? Is he waiting for me to ask help or something

[1GuyOpinion]

you can ask him a question about lifting technique or just general gym stuff. Not gonna be awkward at all.

That will be a start. then you can ask him to go get drink with you after working out for the next step if you guys seem to be hitting it off.

[Asker]

lifting technique sounds right.. Mmm... or maybe drop my phone or purposely hurt myself with weights or something to see if he helps

[1GuyOpinion]

nonono please don't hurt yourself. Dropping your phone to force a conversation seem kinda weird but if work then go ahead (rip your phone though)

[opugh93]

I know what you're saying. What it is is that he doesn't want to distract you. Getting asked out in the gym is annoying, and many girls feel this way, including me, even with the hot gym guys. flirty eye contact and occasional smiles are fun, but maybe try to be around him when you're noticeably done with your workout. Maybe then he will approach. it's kind of lame to ask someone out in the middle of a workout.

[Consultant]

I spend a lot of time in the gym too okay this is what you do you make eye contact with him and you smile and you hold that look forever you hold it for you eternity.
if he doesn't approach you then he doesn't have any balls

[Consultant]

excuse speech to text typos

[Asker]

Exactly, that's what I think. Im a latina, so I listen to reggeaton, and feel some type of way when I see his eyes on me.. Im crazy. I know. I want him. But I have pride, im a decent woman. I want him to make a move :(

[Consultant]

most guys want to approach they just don't know if you like them or not and obviously scared of rejection I think lots of girls forget to send all the signals that they're interested we can't read minds to know :-)

[Asker]

Ill send a hint out tmm.. Stay updated :)

[sid312]

Well all the duckin ur doing maybe he feels like she would have said something to me. u seem un abtainable

[Asker]

I am available, I want him, Im just afraid he'll laugh or I don't know.. What would he want to hear

[sid312]

He would want to hear wanna get some coffee, how about can u spot me while i lift. wanna jog one day? And all of those aren't really a date but u will get to feel him out to see if maybe we could go on a date

[Anonymous]

Put your arms out, falling on your face isn't recommended.

[Asker]

Im falling, he's a cutie, his eyes, mine, we lock...

[Opinion Owner]

uhu, lol

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Walk up and talk to him when he's between a workout.

[Asker]

What can I say? HI? Nice muscles?

[Words_and_Wisdom]

If you walked up to me while I was working out I'd be flattered no matter what you said.

If worst comes to worse, can just say "Hey there, I don't normally do this but I found you to be quite hot." or something along those lines.

[Jaden69]

lmao i know girls like you at the gym

[Asker]

HOW, LMAO. Explain.

[Jaden69]

the whole checking each other out thing. then the pride thing where you make no contact lol like make up your mind jeez

[Asker]

Lol Im afraid okay, Its Friday tmm Im hoping he's there. He stares me off, he was having a deep conversation with his "bro" . Why did he fall back and get shy. Im sure it was about me ;)

[Jaden69]

this is actually relatable wiith my "bro" and i at the gym aha. good luck to you

[Asker]

Why, same story? OMG.. Im going to kiss him. Ughhh papasitoooo

[Jaden69]

yess. good be bold!

[emerald77]

Just talk to him!

[Chick180]

Go talk to him.