The play it cool thing works trust me ever since I added that to my dating life it worked like a charm. Give him your number but don't take his and don't call him first. Let him call you if he's so interested than he should pursue you. Guys love that they are hunters by nature don't any guy tell you otherwise if you do play it cool you will have him chasing you and wanting to spend time with you. Than he won'tg stop thinking of you and wondering where your at that's when you get them right where you want them. They enjoy it as well because they notice your a challenge and guys love challenges. Come on look at what they like sports their team winning they feel unstoppable. They also like video games and a lot of challenging activities so for a guy to say they don't like challenges they are lying because they love it. Good Luck..
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yea go ahead and text him cause waiting 3 days will make him think you threw away his number its okay to wait one day then text him at like 5 6 or 7 and be like sorry I would have text you yesterday but...good luck
i hate the whole 'play it cool' thing. I think that if you like the guy then just go ahead and text or call, just keep it casual! good luck! :)
I hate the type of girl that strings you along because that exactly what they're doing - playing games (stringing a cat along). If your interested then show it. Personally I would never date a girl who did that. Not only is it maddening it shows that she has no respect for you at the same time.
Just text him. Don't wait 3 days. That's a dumb rule that someone made up that is retarded.
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I wouldn't give it to him right away. I wouldn't neceserially leave him hanging for 3 days, because I know its a bitch to guys, but I would wait until the next day at least.
Give him your number and let him call first. Or call him after a few days...shoot they make us wait all the time!
The other answers are all valid. Don't play games, just do what you want. Instead of thinking, just do what you like.
If you like him text him when you want, do not follow other peoples time line.
girl or guy, I always exchange numbers, not just take.
DON'T give out your number, unless you know the guy real well.
Ex-cop advice.
TedIf you like him then just frickin call him, that way he'll get your number and he'll know that you like him.
The 3 day rule isn't cool anymore, if it ever was cool.
Wait a few days, string it out, string the whole thing out. and I mean everything. Life is so much sweeter when you have to wait/anticipate for what you want. Don't give everything at once, it's much more interesting for the guy (and you) that way.
3 days rule works the other way round .. statistically .
If you are interested in him give him your number/text him back that day.
There are no Rules to liking someone, don't play games with him, just do what you want
Just to be safe give him your number the next day.
I would give him my number because waiting to long might make him uninterested.
3 day rule = not cool
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