I want to write a Christmas card to my crush and am not sure what to write?

[Girl1990]

My crush and I, according to a friend, already are really good friends and are very comfortable around each other. When I think about the way he acts towards me and things I notice him do, I, and other people, would naturally say that he likes me. I am just waiting for him to ask me out. I want him to be sure I like him so I want to say a little something in the Christmas card that's going to hint in the right direction, but not say "I really like you ask me out!" Any ideas?

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+1 y

I wrote the card to him and gave it to him today (he leaves for home tomorrow). I wrote the typical merry Christmas and then added "I'll miss you over break. Hopefully we'll see each other some time." I don't know if or when I might hear from him.

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+1 y

he said it was so sweet and that I didn't have to. When I talked to him last, we planned on studying, but just talked a lot. My BFF is cynical, says he probably doesn't LIKE me, but he FB friended her randomly last night after we chatted online

[jamesjems]

You may be trembling inside, but I'll bet he trembles just as much. You can diffuse that quite easily with a little (false) confidence. You may tremble as you write it, but it won't read that way.

What would I like to see in a Christmas card from my crush?

"What would I like for Christmas? The chance to say "Merry Christmas" to you over a cup of coffee."

"Cards never say what you really want to say. Don't you agree?"

Trust your instincts, but not your fear. You've heard the expression, "Fortune favors the bold." I think that's true. (Now if I could only heed my OWN advice.) Good luck!

[Craigelbagel]

Write a nice poem. Has meaning but can still be a fun Christmas card. Just not too much, I think you'll know. What you do is in the first column have each starting sentence be a letter, and when put together says something. That is hinting. Say merry Christmas with a wink face or something. That can work. Or maybe just I think we should get to know each other better. Hope this helps. I'm actually doing the same thing. but I'm not sure. It does differ between guys on what they like.

[CookieMonster99]

It seems to me like your BFF? is not really that B as to the FF. Honestly, my best friends don't put me down, they tell me go for it girl! If not you then who else will he like? they're not cynical. Honestly get some new friends and show him you like him :3 You could ask him to go see a new movie that just came out which he might like! Remember to think of yourself aswell and not just what he likes ;) Now you go girl and get that man! :D

[Anonymous]

im not telling what you SHOULD/ MUST do but this is what I've learned from experience. unless you are in elementary school or middle school giving your "crush" a Christmas card letting him know how you feel, would not be the best idea. as you mentioned above you truly want him to know that you like him. there are other ways to tell him that you like him. if you two have never really "talked" to one another on a consistent basis and you two are familiar with each other, the Christmas card may be too much. instead if you are too shy to just tell him how you feel write him a letter expressing yourself. always be careful not to put too much out so early sometimes it can backfire and have you feeling down because he did not respond how you wanted.
i wish you the best of luck.

[rufurrealz]

just speak your heart and mind to him... answer mine please.

[shimmeryns]

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