Is throwing rocks at her window cliché?

[Anonymous]

Is this cliché or do girls really like stuff like this?

Cheasy/ cliché

No girls def like it

A total of 200 votes were cast: 112 girls and 88 guys. See detailed results

[kaylaS91]

It's cute in theory but in reality... I'd be worried you might crack her window. I know most windows nowadays are pretty thick/sturdy glass but still. Even a small rock, if it hits at just the 'right' spot, can create a crack or micro-crack.
Be careful if you go ahead with it!

[DarkHumorRUs]

Then her dad would chase the guy away. Then it's be some hilarious story they could reflect on right before they fuck each others brains out.

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs exactly! He'd leave with not only failing to get the girl but perhaps some charges of public recklessness to boot. :P

[DarkHumorRUs]

It's kinda romantic though don'tcha think?

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs eh.. I'd honestly find it more romantic if my boyfriend just invited me over for a dinner that he cooked himself or something.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Your boyfriend wouldn't be the one throwing pebbles at your window dude. It's supposed to be the hopelessly romantic guy who has a crush on you and you barely know.

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs... that only makes it all the more creepy in my opinion.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Sad... so sad...

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs... what's 'so sad'?

[DarkHumorRUs]

girls don't like anything anymore

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs lol because throwing rocks at her window is the only thing that girls ever did like, or only romantic thing in existence?
Ever thought of actually approaching her, or, I don't know.. maybe knocking on her door and inviting her to hang out? I guarantee that'll go over much better.

[DarkHumorRUs]

You don't think it'd be weird to knock on her door? I only know my crush's address cause I dropped off a package for her there once. Usually I just call her.

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs well you have to move upwards if you already know her. People don't end up dating for years and then getting married by throwing rocks at each other's windows..
Ask her to hang out or first start talking to her more and getting to know her better wherever you see her regularly (I'll assume at school).
If you don't know her well enough to do that yet, you should definitely steer clear at throwing rocks at her windows or you'll have the police knocking on your door.

[DarkHumorRUs]

I've her known for about 1.5 years, we worked together for almost a year. That's how I know her. We've hung out three times outside of work. Nobody has been able to offer me a solution.

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs There's not magic solution that will require zero effort or risk on your part. I'm just saying that throwing rocks at her window is more than likely not going to work in your favour.

[DarkHumorRUs]

But what about going to her house and knocking on her door.

[kaylaS91]

@DarkHumorRUs that would be a much better way in my opinion.

[ElenaDelBoston]

If the guy I liked showed up at my house and started throwing rocks at my window... well damn! I'd stay with him forever...

[Anonymous]

It's just whatever. I live alone now so he should just ring the bell, but when I lived with parents it was ok.

[oddwaffle]

Dude, don't do it. I mean the 1st few small rocks won't get her away from her stuff. You need a bigger one... At which point she opens the window, looking annoyed and take the fist sized rock in the face.

[DamnCurtis]

Fucking text message lad...

Just text 'look outside' that's what I did.

[Asker]

That's a good idea i just feel like texting is too impersonal

[moistycakes]

Yeah, not something I would be keen on. I'd rather have him just call me and be like "look outside" instead. I get scared easily, plus I won't want little cracks in my window.

[SomeOtherGuy]

I say we strike a compromise.

I'll send a text telling you to look outside. Then when you do I'll start throwing rocks.

[moistycakes]

@SomeOtherGuy Hello prince charming. I asked for a call not a text, SMS ain't good enough for me. :P

[SomeOtherGuy]

A girl with standards <3

[LittleSally]

Haha in this day and age - doubt she'd hear it...
She'll probably have headphones on. HAHAHA

That might be why people don't do it anymore.

[Red_Arrow]

You are right about the headphones!

[Asker]

Never thought about that but she's not really big on sitting there listening to music

[ThisDudeHere]

It's not cliche, it's stupid. Better just wait for winter when you can throw snow and not cause any damage.

[Mesonfielde]

I would hate if they break my windows or put cracks on it. Do you know how much those things cost? Holy.

[CHARismatic110]

It's definitely cheesy but it's also cute. Unless you break her window. That would be bad.

[Bea123]

i would find that soooo romantic I've always had that little fantasy <3

[martyfellow]

I think it's cute, even though cheesy. Just don't BREAK any windows

[madhatters4]

i did it one night when i was dating my wife. she loved it.

[Yeahhbro]

everything is perfect, until you brake her window and hit her on the head with a stone.

[AlexCab]

Cheesy, dangerous, and outdated. We're in the XXI century dude. Throw her an iPhone ;)

[rjroy3]

Don't throw rocks lol. We have smartphones. Just text when you're there

[KBob93]

She'd probably be pissed due to the chance of breaking her window.

[archiz]

just call her man
no throwing rocks hiding letters etc..
just call her

[Anonymous]

Not cool. Plus, most people today would consider it stalkerish/rapey. Just better not to do shit like that, even if your intentions are just to be romantic.

[cinderelli]

a bit cliche. but anything is lovely when you're in love

[Anonymous]

In the day and age of texting, Smartphones and smart watches it's just ridiculous.

[Asker]

Thats to impersonal, what kind of girl would think that's romantic?

[Noxifer626]

Try a small lump of wood. Less chances of breaking the window.

[Asker]

But it wouldn't make as loud of a sound, due to the wood being more pourous

[Noxifer626]

A very small rock then?

[Asker]

Well i mean thats the idea anyways you throw pebbles not boulders 😂😂

[warren18]

I think you should put a vote C - No it's not cliche but still not all girls like it.

[Niello]

Like @Noxifer626 suggested a clump of bark or wood would be better so the window doesn't break.

[Anonymous]

If a guy ever threw rocks at my window I'd get pretty pissed. Dude, why can't you just text me?

[Possible_Mate]

it would cause my dog to start barking :P

[Asker]

Well then i guess i would get your attention 😂😂

[Possible_Mate]

lol yup mine and the rest of the house!

[SarahsSummer]

That was before cell phones.

[Moose2coolvargas]

Tap on your window... reminds me of this song.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=U0IC5OD_TBs

[WhatTheHellAmy]

I really wanna do that shit

[Speedy94]

Imagine you break the window bro loool

[Asker]

What if that worked though like she thought it was so funny she was like hey what the heck this guy'll be fun 😅😂

[Speedy94]

Her daddy won't find it that funny tho haha

[Asker]

Good point

[Christies1998]

Don"t break the window

[PurpleT]

I would love to have someone do that :-)

[ShayanMortazavi1]

You should switch to grenades

[poppunk]

It's both. Cheesy but i'd personally love it.

[Lady7]

My security will not be happy and so is my mum.

[apple24]

haha lady!

[Lady7]

@apple24 hey love!

[ElvenMr]

Property damage, nothing sexier! :D

[Asker]

How would you even explain that to her parents like hey so i wanted to date your daughter so i broke her window😂😂😂

[Iamathinker]

It is cliche but it's so sweet.

[tony72722]

I throw hand grenades.

[ThatBritishLad]

You'll have to pay for that shit.

[CommonChameleon]

I wouldn't want to chip her window.

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Cheesy, and also potentially destructive.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Well, both.

[apple24]

Yeah but I LOVE IT!