Pretty simple question, should you send a second message on Tinder?

[Anonymous]

[sweetpjeb23]

Like if the person didn't respond to the first message? I wouldn't send a second message because I'm insecure... But I would like to receive another message because a lot of times:
A.) Their messenger sucks and doesn't always show messages
B.) Her notifications might be turned off
C.) She may have gotten it and looked at it but was in the middle of doing something and then forgot to respond. (I do that a lot.)

Literally, the worst that could happen is that she doesn't respond, she's responds with a bitchy reply, she unmatches you. If she acts like a bitch, just unmatch her.

[embemftw]

I think a second message is okay, but anymore then that and you just seem desperate. And if you do decide to send a second one, wait at least a day. She might not have responded to the first one because you didn't give her much to respond to. In the second message try to say something interesting, like asking about the dogs in her pic, or if she knows of any good coffee places. Don't say anything like "did you get my last message?", "hey you there?", or "how's it going?".

[nathaliaa]

I'm not so sure, you send one the first time and there was no response so the chance of getting a response the 2nd Time may vary, whether the person is not interested or just 'busy' I guess if you don't risk it you will never know.

[tony72722]

LOL this is what I imagine you doing OP.

"Hi you are pretty.."
*10 Minutes later*
"Hi.. pls respawn.."

[isitillegal]

You have nothing to lose, If she's not interested she won't reply, if she was busy she'll see it and reply. More than twice is too much.

[meatballs21]

I never did. Keep swipin' and move on.

[apple24]

yes u should!