Is it rude to accept a guy's offer to buy me a drink if I'm not interested? (Page 2)

[jwhit]

I would decline the offer just to avoid any complications

[MrAssHat]

i refuse to read the long question but ill answer the title.. NO because in his mind the more drinks you take the closer he is to sleeping with you!

[genericname85]

I personally think it's rude. This is how you're supposed to indicate that you're interested. I know some girls do that but I think it's morally wrong to do so.

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

If you don't get that offering to buy you a drink is a way of buying your company because they are interested in getting to know you for relationship purposes, you're a moron.

[zagor]

Accepting one drink is in no way an indication of interest - maybe an indication of wanting to know more.

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

@zagor Thank you for volunteering yourself as a moron.

[Kiran04]

Rude, not necessarily. Smart, definitely not. You're sending the wrong message if you accept. If you aren't interested, then act like you aren't interested.

[Frost_Byt3]

Being "presumptious" is better than wasting a guy's time and money.

[ravidricha96]

Not unless they explicitly let you know why they're buying it for you.

[scooogy]

not as long as you don't send him away afterwards but treat him like a friend.

[Iron_Man]

Best to decline the drink. The average drink runs $8 dollars

[steven7890789]

Why would you have a problem having a friendly conversation with a guy that is unattractive that wants to buy you a drink?

[steven7890789]

@anonymous can you please respond why would you have a problem having a friendly convo with a guy that wants to buy you a drink if you are not looking for sex or a relationship?

[steven7890789]

@anonymous correction: I forgot to add ''unattractive'' guy in my last response.''

[front2back]

It's not rude. He's stupid for thinking women will just hop on your dick for buying them drinks.

[Oshosh01]

To be honest with you I don't think it is, but sometimes guys are just looking for good conversation and not getting the girls number etc...

[Anonymous]

You know he isn't trying to be friends, accepting his drink knowing you have no interest in him is cunty behavior

[anonman32]

if guys want to buy your time, love, affection with money what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

No him buying you a drink is an invitation to getting to know you and get your number. Yeah its rude.

[Stupidmestupid]

Yeah unlessu made it clear that u want to be freinds

[Anonymous]

İts rude as fuck. Don't do this. Otherwise its gonna be freeship. I hate girls who do this. And I don't pay their bill. I am not a money bank.

[Poppykate]

You should politely decline the drink.

[whiteguysex]

yes! causу only a cunt would accept it

[Oldandconfused]

I would accept the drink, and move on lol

[whiteguysex]

you arу gold digger, sorry

[DearLife]

No. That would be leading him on.

[whiteguysex]

whyyy

[0112358]

@whiteguysex because buying someone a drink is like a mini-date. It doesn't mean you're about to have sex, but it means you're willing to consider them as a potential partner. If you've already ruled them out, you shouldn't go on dates with them, and this is a miniature version of that.