Guys bully me?

[yonica]

There is this group of about 4 guys that bully me constantly! Verbally and physically. They don't try and beat me up but they do things that would obviously cause me physical harm like slamming my locker door into my repetitively will I'm getting my books, purposely bumping into me, and if I try to push past them they push me back HARD. One time on of them was getting in my face and he was wearing a mask so I pushed him back and I'm short and he was leaning down so I pushed on the mask and he pushed me and kicked me, and it really did hurt, I was holding back tears. They constantly call me names, pretty much everyday, and make ugly and racist comments. Then they will play games like who's hotter or who would you rather f*ck and they make it their goal to always use my name and for me to always lose while I can hear them and they always make fun of my acne and my big "jew" nose. They even talk about me like that when I'm not there. Any time I try to stand up for myself they say I'm overreacting and it just gets worse. It got to the point where I dreaded going to school and I got really depressed. I stopped talking to people and I started cutting myself and when one of the guys found out I cut myself instead of trying to help he'd always threaten to tell the gossip of the school. When one of the other guys was around he grabbed my wrist tightly and showed it to him and they both started grabbing at my arms yelling "look at her emo cuts, she's emo!" I am kinda friends with 2 of them but they still treat me like this and anytime I bring it to their attention they say they don't bully me and that I'm immature. I'm really fed up with it, and I don't want to spend the rest of my high school years like this. All the girls like me and guys other places always hit on me and love me. I don't know why it's like this at school.

[G-Daz]

They have real problems! I hate bullys!, somebody should knock them the f*** out. I'm really sorry you have to go through with this, who the f*** does a guy think he is when they decide to lay a hand on a women, does that make them feel bigger, they are jokes. I think the mentality that these guys are thinking is that they feel by bullying somebody who is weaker than themselves, they are hoping to gain a higher social stigma. in essense they are basically using you just to become more popular, I think if another girl comes about that is shyer than you, I think they will most likely bully her as it would be easier pickings but still likely with you. I can understand what your going though and its not right, I think the best thing you can do is really jsut give them as little attention as you possibly can. try to ignore them, they are only vibing off the attention they are receiving so make it boring for them to bully you, don't give them the attention they are looking for.

But please don't let this get to you, they are not woth it, they are cowards, bully in general are jokes but wtf is a guy even thinking when they decide to bully a girl. they are socially manipulating you to beleive that you are the cause, just know that as you go forward past high school, these guys will be left behind. I hope things get better for you but DON'T cut yourself, they are probably glad to know they are affecting you in such a way.

if you need any further help feel free to email me

Good Luck, God Bless

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[Christian_Love]

Commenting back on the situation about the girl who recently killed herself due to bullying this is a very serious case and you yourself should seek help immediatley. Whatever they say it is wrong and threatening to you. Get to a counsler and talk it out with them, they will contact an administrator and get his sorted out.

Dont take crap from anybody bullying you, make them an example and let them know that they can't just get away with whatever they want to.

Good Luck

[Anonymous]

I went though some thing like this to. I think you need to do the one thing I could never do and that was tell my parents. I wish I had and that way they could have sent me to a different school. I hope this helps you.

[sa230e]

I agree you've got to tell someone. The principal, the teacher, whoever. I know what that's like and it's terrible. Guys who treat women like that are scum. You need to tell someone so they can put a stop to it.

[Anonymous]

Tell someone, now. Seriously. Most schools have an anonymous bullying hotline, or at least a way to tell an administrator. Really, get help from someone.

[BlackSuperman]

this is bullsh*t. Them boys need to get reported (dumb cocksuckers). More importantly, get help...

[EddyMetal]

Well since you're a female I'm pretty sure you should tell whoever's in charge.