If you're wanting to keep a guy interested (for more than just sex), hooking up is not the thing to do. He's already gotten the goods, why would he bother going forward?
You think hard to get is a good idea? He DODGED A BULLET by staying away from you. What hard to get tells any grown man is "This bitch is a manipulator and batshit crazy--STAY AWAY!"
Don't play hard to get. This will encourage guys to just ignore a woman's rejection and keep pursuing her. No wonder a lot of guys don't understand consent. Cause women keep mixing it up.
Are you fucking retarded? You don’t hook up with a guy you’re interested in long term lmao Men don’t even want to date whores who hook up. They’ll fuck them, yeah, but not marry them.
In my general opinion. I love that you play hard to obtain. But, at the end of the day I just want you to stop playing hard to get. And come home otherwise I will just keep you busy while I'm simply moving forward to what I have to do.
Id say just be blunt and say that you had fun last time and would he like to keep doing this kind of thing but preface it with stating that its uts a casual relationship
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If you're wanting to keep a guy interested (for more than just sex), hooking up is not the thing to do. He's already gotten the goods, why would he bother going forward?
You think hard to get is a good idea? He DODGED A BULLET by staying away from you. What hard to get tells any grown man is "This bitch is a manipulator and batshit crazy--STAY AWAY!"
Don't play hard to get. This will encourage guys to just ignore a woman's rejection and keep pursuing her.
No wonder a lot of guys don't understand consent. Cause women keep mixing it up.
Are you fucking retarded? You don’t hook up with a guy you’re interested in long term lmao
Men don’t even want to date whores who hook up. They’ll fuck them, yeah, but not marry them.
In my general opinion. I love that you play hard to obtain. But, at the end of the day I just want you to stop playing hard to get. And come home otherwise I will just keep you busy while I'm simply moving forward to what I have to do.
The most important thing is to identify what YOU want to do! It sounds like you dont definitively know what you want out of this arrangement.
Id say just be blunt and say that you had fun last time and would he like to keep doing this kind of thing but preface it with stating that its uts a casual relationship
When he hits you up for sex. Especially if he hasn’t talked to you ina while. Tell him he’ll need to deserve it
When a woman plays stupid games like "playing hard to get" I play impossible to get. Real men dont have time for manipulative games.
It seems like you should move on, and see how he reacts, he might show more interest then, or he just won't.
Or just talk to him about it
I play easy to get. My man knows I will always welcome him with open legs, I mean, ARMS. I'm all his.
u's a nasty bum
There will be no hard to get games with me by women. Interest needs to constant.
If she plays hard to get, then I play goodbye and quit.
You cannot. He is simply not interested. Harsh, but fact.
You two have different definitions of casual. He doesn't want something serious.
Don't play hard to get, it's stupid, slows everything down and makes the guy think you're not interested.
im sorry but i feel a guy who wants you would text you a lot. He isn't going to say no to you asking me to hang out with you
Doesn't read like he's interested at all. I don't see anything to keep
Sorry but your body's are more interesting then you. 🤷♂️
He just wants to hit it. He doesn't really want you long term.