Have you ever felt a magnetic pull towards someone?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever felt a magnetic pull towards someone? That feeling where you just know they're experiencing the same thing? Your heart thumps, time stands still around you and you just have to be close to them. I'd love to hear your story and how it turned out for you!

I've had this with someone recently and it's the first time I can ever remember feeling this so intensely.

[Dio_Brando]

I've been crushing on my best friend for two years. At first I hated myself for developing feelings for her, especially since I was friends with her brother and my guy best friend known her longer than I've had so it could get awkward. But after a while I couldn't reject my feelings for her. Whenever I'm around her I become a bumbling idiot because she's so beautiful and all of those things. I love when she texts me and I love when I'm around her. I really can't stop thinking about what she's doing rn or when she's going to text me or does she like me back. After a while it really start to eat you up inside.

[Asker]

Are you going to make a move?

[Dio_Brando]

I mean 😅... yeah, I hope so. We are going to see a movie soon, I'm hoping I get the courage to tell her how I feel.

[Asker]

You have to tell her, definitely tell her!

[Dio_Brando]

Thanks! I'll try my best wish me luck haha.

[Asker]

Good luck 🙂

[fueledbythc]

I feel like its happening with a co worker of mine. she's probably in her mid to late 30s but i feel like our personalities are similar as well as we are both sexually attracted to each other. Im wary about my actions due to it being a workplace but there are times she just has to touch me and vice versa.

[Asker]

Yea it's difficult when it's work. What are you going to do about it?

[fueledbythc]

Im just gonna be neutral about it and sometimes be a bit flirty like what she's doing. I give her a smile when she does something cute too.

[Asker]

Gosh that could go on forever... someone needs to make a move!!

[fueledbythc]

Well I've only known her for like 3 weeks and I've worked with her 4 times so far.

[Asker]

Early days then

[Nax00]

I want to know the updates on your experience if there is any as I had exactly the same experience with a younger co-worker. My story is same as yours except that I'm the lady. When I sit next to him I have consciously control my hand not to touch his hand.

[Anonymous]

i have this friend that i met over a year ago and I've liked him ever since i met him. recently we have been together more because we work together this summer. Every time im around him i just laugh uncontrollably. i try to act cool around him but i can't help laughing and smiling because i just like him so much. i know that he likes me as a friend, and he's called me pretty before. hopefully i can tell him how i feel soon.

[Anastasia10]

I still feel that with my husband after 17 years! ;) <3
[And yes, I've had encounters with others where there was a definite 'pull' of attraction. It's nice and kind of an ego boost.., but I'll never act out on it since I'm happy with my Hubby.]

[sadgirl2002]

Ya I've had that before, nothing went further than that though

[NaultD]

I was working out side I found a sign that said "I can't help but to fall for you" for fall time decoration. So I brought it inside passed by a girl that ask what I had, and I said jokingly that "fate has left me a message i wonder what it means" then she got sad and never talked to me again. So I really fucked that up.

[S1336b]

I do this with at least 3 different girls a day! Jkjk. Kinda... lol... I know what you mean. Yes it's very exciting. The thrill of the hunt! The feeling of the "new" . Hey if your single , enjoy, even if the other person is completely oblivious 😂

[Browneye57]

Yes, it's called attraction. Perfectly normal. It fades. :)
So there has to be something to back it up.

[Asker]

Common interests and goals, that sort of thing?

[Browneye57]

Yes, of course.
In the beginning the feelings of the possibilities and the anticipation of the future are as strong as the simple attraction of them. It's called NRE - new relationship energy or emotion. It does wear off in time, sometimes a short time, sometimes it lasts awhile. It also clouds your thinking and makes you neglect red flags, you overlook things that can be a negative down the road. So temper it with some solid objectivity.
Some folks live on NRE, going from one new relationship to another, bailing out when it fades.

[Asker]

Yea I'm
Definitely that person! The last long term relationship I had was exactly this. It was all roses and then I realised We had nothing at all in common. He was a lovely guy but god was he boring!!!

[Drake]

Yea and its so strong and magical, u just dont hesitate or even feel anxious, it just flows u know

[DavidDivad]

Yes, but she is too young. Only by 20 years.

Kinda sucks too

[TheMoroccangirl]

Yeah, I guess that's called a mutual major crush

[Asker]

Have you had it before? How did it turn out for you?

[TheMoroccangirl]

Yup everytime with one guy. You'd intimidate each other so nothing much happens except awkward moments, nervousness, clumsiness etc.

[Asker]

I assume he feels the same.. are either of you going to make a move?

[TheMoroccangirl]

He definitely does, his friend informed me.
I don't dare honestly.

[Asker]

You must!!

[TheMoroccangirl]

I'll never confess 😂 that's just not for me, a male should do + I fear a relationship irl

[Asker]

Lol! I'm the same

[TheMoroccangirl]

Guess we'll end up with cats then 😂

[Asker]

Haha! Yep, lots of cats

[TheMoroccangirl]

75 to be specific ✨

[jonLA1]

every time I go to the strip club. You lock eyes and both smile. she wants the money. You want the ass. it's a rush

[xMiaxBuerx]

I get attracted sexually and physically...

[Ms_INSANE]

Yes, got unrequited... 😓

[Asker]

Aw no!! What a shame, so it wasn't felt by the other person?

[Ms_INSANE]

Yes, that's what I am saying. 😅

[Chris0609]

Yes. It's an amazing feeling.

[Asker]

And how did it work out for you?

[emerald77]

Yes I've felt it before. Such a weird sensation.

[Asker]

And did anything happen for you?

[TheOtakuMaid]

no as i lack any magnetic metal in me

[Kelly6]

Yes I have felt it

[Asker]

And how did it turn out for you?

[Kelly6]

I had not choice but to go to him.

[Asker]

Was it a happy ending?

[Kelly6]

Oh yes it was

[Asker]

Tell me what happened!!! I can't stand the suspense lol!

[Kelly6]

Everyone has different experience and story,
Some get this from coworker , some in college some in high school.
I had in college

[niomi0426]

nope... m not d lucky one

[Anotherweirdo]

not at all

[bibechan]

no not till now

[Asker]

😍😍😍😍😍

[bibechan]

thank You 😍😘

[Dio_Brando]

That as honestly so smooth

[Asker]

Isn't it!

[bibechan]

yes I say directly :p

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yeah, yo mama

[eagle1951]

yeah i have

[Asker]

Many times eagle? How did it work out for you?

[eagle1951]

not so good. they there were 2. one didn't feel the same way. and the other i messed up myself

[Asker]

😢 that's a shame - how did you mess it up? Do you think it should have been a more significant person in your life?

[eagle1951]

back than we were hanging out at a drive -in like in the movies. i wanted to go with my friends, she wanted to stay home. i get pissed and left. tried to say i was sorry after word. but did no good. But i was young and wild back than. just a year out of. the Army and Vietnam

[Asker]

And you've never found it again with anyone since?

[eagle1951]

one other after her. but she didn't feel the same way

[Asker]

Hopefully it'll happen for you again soon