Does guys hitting on you boost your self-esteem? (Page 2)

Question

I know a lot of girls who are insecure despite being hit on all the time. I'm curious how you feel about it.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

doesn't happen often but when does it does feel nice to know someone finds you attractive

Burbon95 · Answer

I love attention but not when they are REALLY pushy/ stalkerish

Anonymous · Answer

It personally makes me uncomfortable and put in this awkward situation when I don't feel that way about them and have no interest in dating them.

_Mysterious_ · Answer

Nope, for some reason, compliments don't really affect me much.

MindYourEyes · Answer

It makes me feel good for the day but not for good xD.

SarahsSummer · Answer

I generally take it as a compliment which feels good. and is a boost

deraz24 · Answer

A little it depends on how its done to me, although most of us don't pay it any mind

Anonymous · Answer

And what about those girls who never get hit on? Because I'm pretty sure I'm not alone in this case...

Pomegranate139 · Answer

Nope. No amount of compliments from men can change how I see myself in the mirror.

ForeverSingle28 · Answer

Depends On What Guy It Is... If Its A Cute Guy, Popular Guy, Or My Crush Then Probably Yea..

FatherJack · Answer

My understanding is that the vast majority of women do NOT want to be bugged by some random man , they would rather men left them well alone.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I mean if you only get hit on by people you find unattractive it doesn't really help.

NightOwl_23 · Answer

I would bring their self esteem down because, Im so ugly and stupid.

DesiBeautyLover · Answer

I'm a straight man and girls hitting on me boosts my self esteem

Anonymous · Answer

Most definitely... or maybe it's a confidence boost. I can't tell the difference. Also my ego goes up

raspberry0416 · Answer

Not really. I know I can get guys, it just depends on which ones are interested in me.

TheChocolateWriter · Answer

Yes, but for me, it rarely happens. I get called names more.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if he is at least 6 feet tall, looks like Christian Grey, is muscular, has a sports car and has a ton of money.

Mickef · Answer

I love it! It turns me on. Even if he's not attractive I get excited. And my self-esteem is boosted. And the same if it is a woman that hits on me.

gumballs · Answer

sometimes, if he is good looking and not super horny

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