Pretty easy, but its also easy to misread if you're looking for it. You have to look for clusters of behavior and not just one sign.
So if her feet are tucked under her chair, she looks away a lot, and she's playing with her necklace, she's very uncomfortable (which could mean any number of things). If she has her legs crossed toward you, makes eye contact a lot, and plays with her hair when she's talking to you, she's attracted. Look for multiple signs, not just one.
One huge tell-tale is eyebrows when they first see you, and this one is helpful on many levels. If her eyebrows go up when she first sees you, she likes you. If a smile goes with it, she really likes you. If both happen and she drops what she's doing to talk to you, she's almost definitely in love. You can use the eyebrow thing on friends, too. Say you walk into a room where your friends are chilling, watch everyone's eyebrows when they first see you. That one friend whose eyebrows furrow? That guy doesn't really like you. Its impossible to hide in that first half-second because it happens before you realise it
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of course it's true, if you look at it from a biological standpoint we've been doing it for tens of thousands of years that it's hardwired into us and we do it on a subconscious level, like the way we flinch, our behaviours explain so much more than our words because a lot of the time they're not fully in control, how does a girl give a guy an inviting look? a smile to show she's friendly and looks down as a sign of submission. Guys will just stare at you if they like you, guys in the gym do it all the time and me and my friend do it in college because we know we're attractive but look still need to look for signs that the girl finds us attractive
For some reason, whenever I am sitting down with my legs crossed, and I see my crush, my foot will start 'dangling' and moving instead of hanging still. It usually takes me about 20 seconds to realize I do it XD I'm pretty sure there are more things I do but don't realize like turning my torso towards him or smiling A LOT
It’s nearly impossible to tell if someone likes you or if you’re misreading them. It’s only easy if you’re seeing if someone likes another person who is not you.
One or two signs might be a coincidence. A whole bunch of signs over a longer period of time probably means they're into you.
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Very difficult. While you do get some simple ones, reading body language requires you to have a base line. You also need to account for any environmental factors. So someone crossing their arms might mean they are getting defensive. It could also just be something they usually do as it's a comfortable position or perhaps its a bit cold. So you have to be careful when reading body language that you don't see the signs you want to be there
Well, you can't tell that from one sign. It's a collection of signs. Each person is different. So each are posing different signs. There's no book on body language to understand a person by body language. You have to be vigilant on the overall behaviour of that person to understand what's going on. Eye contact is a more common sign of attraction though.
It's accurate if you analyze it enough. People feet point to where the want to go. So for example if you're talking to someone and their feet point away, they want the conversation to end
Body language is more accurate than anything spoken.
Yes its true that these are the thing guys n girls do when they like, but they can be confusing also
I know animals signs but humans I have yet to figure out.
Well if you're staring at each other that is a good sign
People tend to see what they hope to see.
Every language is 100% if you know how to read it.
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