So tell me girls, what is your problem?
Girls won't even look *once* at me?
So tell me girls, what is your problem?
maybe you don't stand out I just answered a semi similar question to this
"In my opinion I think that "nice guys" are
1. far less proactive in getting girls. like fishing you have to put bait on your hook.
2. take a friendly approach to girls they are interested in rather than a more (idk a word) wow?
approach, that will get your foot in the door and have her notice u
3. some become very attached and show it they make EVERYTHING about the girl and forget how to think for themselves. =[
4. they stand back and watch what is happening rather than get involved
some when they do get involved they take a friend approach
5. this is kinda shallow but you can only see so much and some guys are just good at blending in thus not really noticed just over looked
6. high school is stupid don't think of high school when you think of relationships"
Would my relatively short height make me less noticeable to girls? (5'7)
1. If you're really as cute as you say you are, they might think you're out of their league, and won't look at you while you're looking at them.
2. The girls in question could be just not looking for no real big reason. I don't know your situation, but in cities or when people are really busy or preoccupied, they tend to not look at other people.
3. You don't tell us anything about your personality here. You could have a negative reputation, even if it's based on one incident or if you have no idea what you did - again, I don't know your situation, but girls do gossip, and if one of them decided she didn't like you or thought you were unattractive, that attitude could have gotten around.
4. You could just not stand out very much in a crowd.
Just a few hypotheses. It's hard to say, really, since we have very little information here.
None of these girls would know me. I'm talking about complete strangers out in public.
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Cute girls go for "cute" guys and cute girls are often shy, but I believe this is more of an hora thing. The presence of some men command attention, but your presence might be that of cellophane. Try changing your wardrobe if it bothers you enough. If you shop at places like hollister, aeropostale, or AE, DEFINITELY get to changing it up. Dressing like every other guy in the US never helped a man grab a woman's eyes. I would also try to be more outgoing if you aren't already. Males and females alike can sense confidence, and that sense might just make her look up.
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no your height only affects you so much...
im 510 and I dated a guy who was 5'7
Maybe they just don't want you to catch them checking you out in fear of rejection themselves. If they were starring at you, you couldn't look at them as easily.
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