When he follows you with his eyes but doesn't smile wile doing so:
- He's interested and/or finds you "easy on the eyes" (flattering); but he probably won't approach you. (Imagine a deer in headlights)
When he stares at you walking towards him but he doesn't move:
- He's comfortable with you approaching him, he's wondering what you're going to say, if he's a little shy/quiet he might even get scared or it'll get awkward.. But subconsciously (and most cases: consciously) most guys will like this type of treatment.
Does a guy have to stare at you or show body languages of interest EVERYDAY to show he likes you?
- God I'd f***ing hope not otherwise I'm screwed. There are other things that consume my life. Plus, most times I've made a girl my #1 priority (watching her like a hawk and showing I like her everyday) then I usually make her feel really awkward and I'll end up being her "BFF", girlfriend, or many other terms for the "gay pal"...
Women are delicate and most guys don't get that.. According to a friend (Venvidici on here) you can relate it to pressure (approaching/awkwardness/attraction/etc)..
If you are interested in someone but afraid of how they may react if you approach, there's probably high pressure and awkwardness - the balloons about to pop, so to speak. This is why most women get turned off by genuine good men who show just a tad too much interest upfront.
If you are interested and unafraid -> Flirting, touching, teasing, etc -> Then it shows you are comfortable and confident in your own skin.. Which is a large reason why we attract people we aren't interested in (and with the above scenario, why we can't attract the ones we are interested in)..
~ ArtistBBoy
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