Guys, how do you feel when the girl you like calls you bruh, bro, dude?

[Pinay_ako]

[saucegoddess]

Well we're in high school so keep that in mind,

I'm friends with both guys and girls and I've picked up on their slang and one thing they say a lot is "bruh". My girlfriends and I call each other bruh, we call the guys bruh, we say it around loosely in conversation, we call everyone bruh.

It's kind of dumb to get self conscious over being called "bruh" or "bro" or "dude" tbh. If you like her and it gets to the point where a guy feels that it's necessary for him to read that far in between the lines, maybe she doesn't like him as much he originally thought or else he'd be focusing on her more obvious flirting rather than just a stupid word people commonly throw around.

It shouldn't mean anything. I've called my crush bruh a lot. If he's worrying that much about being called bruh, just give up lol look for other signs for a change.

[LuvAsh]

Its funnt how most guys on here are saying that its instant frienzone but I had a post kinda similar to this bc my crush (which is a boy) called me "bruh" and just about every guy was like "that might just be how he talks"😂😂

[lho1525]

I accidentally did call this guy I liked “bro” as I had lost something and was panicking and out of the blue I just said it. So I don't know if I just do that but it depends 🤔

[Pinay_ako]

so how did he react?

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

If she's a friend it's fine. That's what friends call each other!
I've never had a girl call me any of that though, so it seems like a rare occurrence.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I'd be like this

[AllThatSweetJazz]

A little weary since some girls won't call someone they like those names, but some girls do, so maybe I'll say something, maybe I won't and hope for the best.

[Dionigi]

I'm not in the friend zone until she's married to another dude💪💪💪💪

Kidding.
I'm not in the friend zone until she says I am her best friend. Then I ghost her.

[marina307]

I laughed so hard at this.

[chrisbigman]

Depends on what you mean by "like". Is that a romantic like or a friendship like?

[Pinay_ako]

romantic

[chrisbigman]

I'd feel rather disappointed, unless it was a friendly type of addressing. If it was friendly, then I wouldn't think much of it.

[The_Dean]

It crushes my spirit, and sends me a signal to back off, since she ain't interested.

[SarahsSummer]

I dont think that sends a good message to a guy you like

[Someguynamedbob]

I don’t care I usually call girls bud, guy, and pal

[markcrums101]

I guess it's fine just sounds more like she sees you as a friend so if you liked her it makes you feel like you don't have a chance haha. Do you girls actually see it that way when you call a guy that?

[marina307]

Not really, no.

[markcrums101]

Oh that's interesting haha well maybe I'll make sure I keep that in mind then😊

[marina307]

Some girls just awkwardly flirt and then say something like "naaah but frl bro" and still really be into the guy. They just aren't comfortable/ready to show it.

[markcrums101]

Yea I guess in that context it makes sense but like I feel like if a girl calls me bro or that sort of thing a lot it kinda makes it seem like she wouldn't want anything more than friends but for all I know I may be just over thinking it haha

[marina307]

It's a tricky subject for that matter but it all depends on the context. Remember, it's one thing to say something and another to do something. Actions speak louder than words.

[markcrums101]

Well at least I know now that it doesn't always mean they don't like you more than a friend of they call you bro😂 thanks for sharing you seem to be pretty insightful 😊

[marina307]

You are quite welcome

[yeeeeeeeet]

I dont think anything of it. I don't expect any kind of special treatment from people so the can call me what they want to.

[lightbulb27]

I don't like it, feels... like I'm a chum, friendzone her.

[Jonny_]

I find it odd, although i'm someone who sounds like he's past the age of retirement. I don't do slang or colloquialisms, I never have so I wouldn't grasp the delivery of it properly. I'd sound like Cpt Holt from Brooklyn Nine Nine.

[AnotherPerspective]

Probably the same way females fee when being called “babe, girl, pumpkin, etc”

Unless you discuss it the other probably thinks it’s weird but doesn’t want to say anything lol.

[JackFieric]

Almost like you have no chance of getting in her pants LOL

[tartaarsaus]

I have called crushes of mine 'dude'. I don't see the problem lol

[genericname85]

it's fine if i don't pursue any romantic or sexual goals with that girl.

[Chisssss]

I dont really mind because I never expect em to like me anyway loool

[MLGbreezy]

I fucking hate that shit its pretty much an obvious sign she's friend zoned you

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Last time a girl called me "bro I couldn't get a boner for a week; and that's not even withstanding that she was a lesbian.

[Jacie15]

I don’t mind like I have a friend who is the girl who called me dude all the time.

[Ghost285]

I broke my leg and the doctor was kind of sexy and she called me dude, and I didn't think much. It's like says buddy

[dannyjett]

I feel that i need to find another girl that i like