Guys, how do you feel when the girl you like calls you bruh, bro, dude?

[Pinay_ako]

[saucegoddess]

Well we're in high school so keep that in mind,

I'm friends with both guys and girls and I've picked up on their slang and one thing they say a lot is "bruh". My girlfriends and I call each other bruh, we call the guys bruh, we say it around loosely in conversation, we call everyone bruh.

It's kind of dumb to get self conscious over being called "bruh" or "bro" or "dude" tbh. If you like her and it gets to the point where a guy feels that it's necessary for him to read that far in between the lines, maybe she doesn't like him as much he originally thought or else he'd be focusing on her more obvious flirting rather than just a stupid word people commonly throw around.

It shouldn't mean anything. I've called my crush bruh a lot. If he's worrying that much about being called bruh, just give up lol look for other signs for a change.

[LuvAsh]

Its funnt how most guys on here are saying that its instant frienzone but I had a post kinda similar to this bc my crush (which is a boy) called me "bruh" and just about every guy was like "that might just be how he talks"😂😂

[lho1525]

I accidentally did call this guy I liked “bro” as I had lost something and was panicking and out of the blue I just said it. So I don't know if I just do that but it depends 🤔

[Pinay_ako]

so how did he react?

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

If she's a friend it's fine. That's what friends call each other!
I've never had a girl call me any of that though, so it seems like a rare occurrence.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I'd be like this

[Dionigi]

I'm not in the friend zone until she's married to another dude💪💪💪💪

Kidding.
I'm not in the friend zone until she says I am her best friend. Then I ghost her.

[marina307]

I laughed so hard at this.

[Someguynamedbob]

I don’t care I usually call girls bud, guy, and pal

[AllThatSweetJazz]

A little weary since some girls won't call someone they like those names, but some girls do, so maybe I'll say something, maybe I won't and hope for the best.

[Jonny_]

I find it odd, although i'm someone who sounds like he's past the age of retirement. I don't do slang or colloquialisms, I never have so I wouldn't grasp the delivery of it properly. I'd sound like Cpt Holt from Brooklyn Nine Nine.

[chrisbigman]

Depends on what you mean by "like". Is that a romantic like or a friendship like?

[Pinay_ako]

romantic

[chrisbigman]

I'd feel rather disappointed, unless it was a friendly type of addressing. If it was friendly, then I wouldn't think much of it.

[The_Dean]

It crushes my spirit, and sends me a signal to back off, since she ain't interested.

[SarahsSummer]

I dont think that sends a good message to a guy you like

[markcrums101]

I guess it's fine just sounds more like she sees you as a friend so if you liked her it makes you feel like you don't have a chance haha. Do you girls actually see it that way when you call a guy that?

[marina307]

Not really, no.

[markcrums101]

Oh that's interesting haha well maybe I'll make sure I keep that in mind then😊

[marina307]

Some girls just awkwardly flirt and then say something like "naaah but frl bro" and still really be into the guy. They just aren't comfortable/ready to show it.

[markcrums101]

Yea I guess in that context it makes sense but like I feel like if a girl calls me bro or that sort of thing a lot it kinda makes it seem like she wouldn't want anything more than friends but for all I know I may be just over thinking it haha

[marina307]

It's a tricky subject for that matter but it all depends on the context. Remember, it's one thing to say something and another to do something. Actions speak louder than words.

[markcrums101]

Well at least I know now that it doesn't always mean they don't like you more than a friend of they call you bro😂 thanks for sharing you seem to be pretty insightful 😊

[marina307]

You are quite welcome

[yeeeeeeeet]

I dont think anything of it. I don't expect any kind of special treatment from people so the can call me what they want to.

[tartaarsaus]

I have called crushes of mine 'dude'. I don't see the problem lol

[lightbulb27]

I don't like it, feels... like I'm a chum, friendzone her.

[AnotherPerspective]

Probably the same way females fee when being called “babe, girl, pumpkin, etc”

Unless you discuss it the other probably thinks it’s weird but doesn’t want to say anything lol.

[JackFieric]

Almost like you have no chance of getting in her pants LOL

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Last time a girl called me "bro I couldn't get a boner for a week; and that's not even withstanding that she was a lesbian.

[genericname85]

it's fine if i don't pursue any romantic or sexual goals with that girl.

[Chisssss]

I dont really mind because I never expect em to like me anyway loool

[Jacie15]

I don’t mind like I have a friend who is the girl who called me dude all the time.

[MLGbreezy]

I fucking hate that shit its pretty much an obvious sign she's friend zoned you

[Ghost285]

I broke my leg and the doctor was kind of sexy and she called me dude, and I didn't think much. It's like says buddy

[dannyjett]

I feel that i need to find another girl that i like

[sonnysunshine]

Cool but if I like her it means I’m friendzoned. Bad sign

[GreenGold1992]

I can't think of one time any girl I've ever known has called me those things lol

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Lucky.

[bananathunder]

doesn't bother me at all... i will call her the same back lol

[TPhill]

That bitch can get her airmax on and pedal the fuck away from me

[EclipseoftheHeart]

It makes her sound like she was raised in a ghetto.

[Browneye57]

Guys don't have all those feelings like you do. It's a basic difference between the genders.

[VIVANT]

The guys definitely seem to feel bad about it

[Browneye57]

@VIVANT - Guys, girls, pretty much everybody, likes to be called by their NAME. Try that instead. I think you'll get better traction and acceptance.

[VIVANT]

Certainly.. I don’t think I suggested calling anyone by anything else🤷‍♀️

I was responding to you saying guys don’t have all those feelings...

[Browneye57]

@VIVANT - They don't. You keep going back and forth. Your question was about how guys FEEL - they just don't. That is girl-speak. Guys think, girls feel. It's a very basic difference between the genders.

[VIVANT]

Nope wasn’t my question.

[VIVANT]

I was responding to your remark bc obviously guys feel. Human beings feel.

[Browneye57]

@VIVANT Yep, was. Read it again
"Guys, HOW DO YOU FEEL..."

Dear god woman, do you always do this?

Newsflash... Women's brains function on feelings and emotion. Guys brains function on facts and logic. And ne'er the twain shall meet. LOL

[VIVANT]

I didn’t ask the question is what I meant

And of course you feelyiu wouldn’t be on here unless you felt like being on here... it’s not an obligation

You wouldn’t be married unless you wanted to be

I doubt youvdint love your wife though maybe you don’t.. even still your hsce to want to be there to stay. That is a feeling.

[VIVANT]

The desire to be understood or to help others as you do in a place like this giving advice and voicing opinion... all emotionally charged actions. You are not here as a machine but by choice desire.. responding to emotional stimulus.

[Browneye57]

@VIVANT - I'm sorry... you're confused. Oh well. Instead of coming here to learn something you already know it all.
So we're done here... have fun on GAG.

[VIVANT]

I am neither confused nor do I claim to know it all. I DO know human beings have feelings. This is how we know we are alive and what compells is to move forward to the next task. We may all have unique ways of processing and expressing our feelings , none the less there they are , independent of our will.

You appear from your answers to be an intelligent insightful person. Therefore when say things like ‘men don’t have feelings’ I’m skeptical as to your sincerity.

[VIVANT]

I suppose you get some sort of pleasure or feeling of affirmation by saying it.. but i highly doubt you believe it.

[MarioXx]

Like the friendzone is near.

[Ellie-V]

I call everyone dude/bro in casual conversation.

[pumaOH24]

I’d rather they use my name instead.

[ariadneR]

i would call him that right back.

[ArcticHamsters]

Sounds like friendzone

[Sweatyotterr]

Friendzoned time to move on

[dy8alexUk]

Poor way of expressing them selves

[Anon-ymous1]

It sucks. Instant friendzone.

[Ponycargirl12]

Is it a friendzone when a guy calls a girl that stuff too?

[Anon-ymous1]

@Ponycargirl12 No, not necessarily.

[Thotkiana]

Same with guys who say sis. How homosexual.

[Anon-ymous1]

@Thotkiana What the hell are you talking about? You're an idiot.

[Thotkiana]

And you’re a homosexual.

[Anon-ymous1]

@Thotkiana Yep you got me. I'm the gayest gay who's ever gayed. Lol

[Ponycargirl12]

@anon-ymous1 I've always wanted to ask a guy this. Can a guy friendzone a girl? Or, is it only that a girl can friendzone a guy?

[Thotkiana]

Sounds like something a downlow would say

[Anon-ymous1]

@Ponycargirl12 Yeah of course, but it literally only happens for one reason-- he's not physically attracted to her.

[JulieRoze7]

Well if we're friends it's okay

[Lance1965]

It doesn't bother me.

[DDpsy]

It depends if I get to fuck her or not.

[lnghrn_fan88]

Honestly, not a big fan of it

[Muhammad1999]

Never been called bruh or dude.

[SilverRain92]

I would feel like being friendzoned

[Chthou95]

I move on when a girl calls me that.

[JP_Man]

I feel like an old rotten mandarins box

[UnknownGagsUser]

Friend zone 😂😂😂

[mook123]

thats friendzone lol

[CT_CD]

Girls shouldn't use those words. That's guy talk

[StickStickity13]

Agreed, it sounds ridiculous

[CT_CD]

@StickStickity13 Thank you

[ChiTown33]

I would wonder if she's retarded.

[Ellie-V]

Why?

[William_93]

i wouldn't like it

[Himan241]

Pretty cool 🤘

[StickStickity13]

Nothing

[Rawkstar26]

I don't like it

[Poormanscomedian]

Just teasing

[Razal]

Nothing much.

[1234barry]

Very impersonal

[Slim57]

Huge turn off