Is this Flirting in college?

[TrevJ]

I am in college and have a class with a girl my age. She laughs at stuff I say, smiles a lot at me and to stuff I say. She said hi when she saw me ask what's up. We had to do peer reviews and she came to my table sat next to me at my table I talked to her she said something, smiled at me and looked deep into my eyes and didn't stop smiling and it felt awkward, if I didn't break the eye contact she probably would've continued. One day I sat down waiting for class and she came in for class walked over and started waiting very close to me, hovering over standing in my personal space, she walked right in front of me and started getting close to me and I could smell her but she had her back to me. This was the closest she's been to me. There was a whole room not a lot of other people. When I talked about another girl flirting with me and asking for advice from some one else on how to not lead her on. She joined the conversation gave advice. said that the other girl will continue pushing boundaries and persisting if I don't say I'm not interested and rip the band-aid right off. She started this stuff after I asked for advice, afraid she knows I have issues With this now why does she seem to be Flirting. I told her someone said my hair looks like the clown from it and she said that's not nice

[Matthieu-G]

Don't break eye contact. Ask for her phone number. Call her after 1 week of making her wait and not for over 5 minutes. Get a DEFINITE date planned out (Lets go for coffee / dinner). Get to know her during that time. Repeat the process twice. Invite to home. Sex.

Making decisions = being manly. The more SHE talks instead of YOU talking, the better your date will go, so ask questions. She likes you so don't blow it by talking too much about yourself. Be confident.

[TrevJ]

How do you know she likes me

[Matthieu-G]

smile + look into your eyes means she has interest in you (not love... but she is fueling the sparks of the romance). Once she started to hover near you and get into your personal space... That is when I knew she liked you. Individually, these things mean not much but together they show a definite interest in you. Talk to her and ask her phone number at the end of the conversation, if she gives it to you, you know then and there that she REALLY likes you (she will subconsciously see it as "I got a chance with this guy! I hope he calls me!" but don't call her the next day... wait a week.)

[TrevJ]

So what was it supposed to do when she came sat next to me said something smiled and held long ish eye contact.

[911sugartits420]

She's totally interested in you, give your snapchat or number to her and ask to meet up for coffee if you're interested in her bro.

[TrevJ]

How do you know

[911sugartits420]

She laughs and smiles around you easily seems like from what you said. I read that girls that laugh often with you are displaying interest. Also, strong eye contact shows interest in you she's looking at the center of your soul curious about who you are. She may want you to ask her out letting you take control. She's not being too obvious to hold back from displaying clinginess. Also, she bumping inside of your personal space to show she comfortable being close to you and she may want you to take it to next level. Take two steps forward one step back.

[TrevJ]

Does standing that close sound intentional

[911sugartits420]

Yes definitely if a girl doesn't find interest she would not feel comfortable being close

[TrevJ]

What was it when she came sat next to me and then talked said something held long eye contact and smiled in silence

[ChooChooHaha]

If you have a touchy-feely type relationship, then don't think twice about it.

IF NOT: if she's in your personal space, and everything else: she's interested. Pure and simple.

[TrevJ]

No touchy feely relationship

So is she Flirting

[smg99]

Ask her to guide you as you still have thoughts. But then coffee is a happy drink and you might just follow her advise ;) subtle ask out

[TrevJ]

What are you talking about

[smg99]

What do you think I’m talking about when you have bouts of amnesia?

Didn’t you post a question on how to get to know if a girl is flirting.
Oh ok you’re not the type to take action I see. Just watch along the sideline in hopes she will read your desire?

I gave you a subtle rejection proof way to ask her out and you ask me what I’m talking about?
Rethink clearly your question then reply.

[Sarahotgirl]

Omg so she really likes you.
Unless you think she's ugly or she smells really bad.
You gave sex with her few times then decided

[TrevJ]

How do you know she likes me

[annieO22]

I think she likes you! You should ask her out to study!

[TrevJ]

When she stood close to me did it sound intentional

[annieO22]

It did!

[TrevJ]

So what was it supposed to do

[annieO22]

I don't know I find when I'm attracted to someone I want to be physically closer to them, so maybe she's the same

[TrevJ]

Ok how about coming to sit next to me and then holdinb long eye contact and smiling

[annieO22]

My dude that is very clearly flirting I think you should just ask her out, fuck it

[TrevJ]

What was it supposed to do

[Wowgirl30q]

You need a lot of female exposure I can't help you yet

[TrevJ]

What do you mean?

[Wowgirl30q]

You need to hang out around girls a lot to catch up normal 19 year olds don't view things like you

[TrevJ]

How so what bc I am oblivious to whether a girl is Flirting or not

[Wowgirl30q]

You need to learn about them you act about 12 to me in dealing with females. I'm sorry

[Samantha2448]

Maybe she’s trying to make it so people know you’re friends with her and they won’t make fun of your hair

[Hamsteroids]

She obviously likes you

[TrevJ]

How do you know

[Hamsteroids]

She’s doing wayyyy too much lol is it not obvious?

[TrevJ]

So what has she done that makes it obvious I thought I was over thinking

[Hamsteroids]

All that weird awkward closeness

[TrevJ]

What was it supposed to do when she came sat next to me and then while talking said something and held long eye contact and smiled in silence

[Hamsteroids]

Just talk to her. You’re thinking way too hard

[TrevJ]

When she stood close to me. Do girls do that intentionally

[Hamsteroids]

Not at all

[TrevJ]

Like dies it sound like she was standing close on purpose

[Hamsteroids]

Dude... yes

[TrevJ]

Ok what was it supposed to do when she came sat next to me talked held long eye contact smiled and looked into me eyes in silence

[Megatrizzle]

You should get her digits and ask her out.

[Anonymous]

It sure is

[TrevJ]

Does it sound like she likes me?

[damaster]

Yea it sounds like she likes you

[TrevJ]

How do you know

[damaster]

Smiling at you a lot, laughing at the stuff you say, looking deep in your eyes, getting close to you and interrupting your personal space. Definitely obvious signals

[TrevJ]

So when she came waiting for class standing close to me

Did it sound intentional?

[damaster]

Yea pretty much

[Cvlwww]

Sounds like flirting.

[TrevJ]

Does it sound like she likes me

[Cvlwww]

I think there's a good chance. Why don't you ask if he fancies meeting up? That might give you a clearer indication.

[TrevJ]

So when she stood close do they do it intentionally?

[Cvlwww]

It's possible but none of us can guess or mind read. Engage in conversation. That's the way to find out.