My male Co-worker asked me to massage his shoulder. Was he flirting with me or it's normal guy behaviour in other words he was just messing with me?

[Anonymous]

This guy is the flirty type in the work place.

[Yetiinathong]

I'd say he's flirting, but then again if you guys are good friends, it could just be messing about.

[Asker]

We're quite new co-workers... I haven't worked with him that much...

[SonOfLucifer]

He's definitely flirting. I can give you countless stories of "just a massage" turning into sex.

[Asker]

But he's the flirty type...

[SonOfLucifer]

Yeah.. ? he's the flirty type so he is flirting with you.. wheres the problem? Being flirty means he also wants to get laid, not only say words.

[Asker]

So he's attracted to me?

[SonOfLucifer]

Attracted only to get laid. Dont expect any relationship from him

[Asker]

Yeah I kno...

[SonOfLucifer]

Take care

[Anonymous]

I do this sometimes with female colleagues, i never really have the intention to get with her. So in your words im just messing with them. But everyone is different.